I'm Jody—a wellness writer helping people build healthier, happier lives, especially those of us who didn't get the blueprint.

I grew up with an alcoholic mom and spent decades in survival mode before teaching myself how to actually live well. Now I share what I've learned about health, happiness, and taking good care of yourself—from someone who had to figure it all out from scratch.

New videos every week on self-care, healing, boundaries, and building a life you actually enjoy.

If you grew up around dysfunction and you're ready to stop just surviving and start living, you're in the right place.

📩 Get my free guide: www.jodylamb.com/guide

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Disclaimer: My videos are for informational and educational purposes only and may not be the best fit for your personal situation. They’re not medical or therapeutic advice. Always check with your own healthcare or mental health professional before applying anything shared here.


Jody Lamb

New video is up. This one's personal.

I talked about what hypervigilance actually feels like when you grew up around dysfunction — the tight chest when nothing's wrong, the scanning, the way a good day can make you anxious. And what I've been doing daily to reduce it.

If that sounds familiar, this one's for you: https://youtu.be/yCOhr8U-0H8

I also made a free one-page checklist with everything from the video. Link's in the description.

2 days ago | [YT] | 0

Jody Lamb

I just shared a new video that came from a moment I didn’t understand until I was 26.

For years, I believed it was my job to fix my mom. To say the right thing. To try harder. To love better.

What I didn’t realize back then was this: I was pouring all my energy into something I couldn’t control and forgetting that I had choices of my own.

If you’ve ever felt responsible for someone else’s healing, this one’s for you.

I’d love to know: what’s something you didn’t understand until later in life? 🤍

2 weeks ago | [YT] | 1

Jody Lamb

🌿 If this time of year feels heavy for you, you’re not alone.

As adult children of alcoholics, the end of the year can bring up everything: old roles, guilt, pressure, and that feeling of needing to hold it all together.
For so long, I didn’t know how to process any of it. I just pushed through and carried the weight into the next year.

That’s why I created a gentle Healing Year-End Journal — a calming, step-by-step reflection for ACOAs to help you release what’s been heavy and start the new year feeling lighter and more grounded. 💛

If the holidays or the end of the year stir up a lot for you, this might support you too.

👉 Get the journal here:
www.jodylamb.com/the-healing-year-end-journal-for-…

I hope it gives you the same clarity and peace it’s given me.
I’m rooting for you, always. 🌿💛

2 months ago | [YT] | 2