Tim Fletcher is a pioneer in the Addictions and Complex Trauma field. After 30+ years of helping others as a pastor, his own trauma recovery and work in addictions treatment led him to recognize how deeply Complex Trauma intersects with addiction, mental health, behavior, and coping. Tim founded the RE/ACT program and later Tim Fletcher Co. His work has since shaped our LIFT Program, ALIGN Courses, COMPASS Program, and more.
We're a team who’ve faced Complex Trauma ourselves and are committed to supporting others in their recovery. Through Tim’s free videos, our courses, community support, and our intensive programs, we’re helping change the landscape of Complex Trauma recovery.
If you’re wondering where to begin, we invite you to start with Tim’s videos here on YouTube. If you need more guidance, reach out to us — you don’t have to do this alone.
Tim Fletcher
Safe people aren’t found in one place. They’re spread out across many environments, and finding them usually takes time, trial, and discernment.
Part of healing is learning that unsafe people will still appear, even when growth is happening. Recognizing red flags, setting boundaries, and choosing distance is not a setback. It’s progress.
Safety is less about instant closeness and more about how someone responds to limits, honesty, and time.
Check out this Q&A from last year on the topic:
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Tim Fletcher
For many, questioning wasn’t allowed and shame kept the cycle going. This reflects the turning point where something starts to feel off, and the possibility of a different path begins.
💙 Ending tonight, get our ALIGN With God course and community for only $30 (that's 93% OFF and $420 savings).
● Learn how religious trauma and spiritual abuse impact your relationship with God, and begin to separate what’s true from what was harmful.
● Understand emotions like shame, fear, doubt, and guilt through both trauma and biblical perspectives.
● Rebuild trust in yourself, your faith, and your ability to ask honest questions without fear.
● Move toward a healthier, more grounded connection with God that honors both your pain and your healing.
👉 Get started here: bit.ly/ALIGN-With-God-30
👉 Or visit www.timfletcher.ca/align-with-god to learn more.
Sale ends tomorrow, March 30, 2026.
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Tim Fletcher
Rebuilding your relationship with God can begin here.
For many people, especially those who have experienced Complex Trauma or religious trauma, connection with God can feel difficult, confusing or painful. Trauma can shape how we trust, how safe we feel, and how we relate to God, ourselves, and others.
Feeling this way may mean you are carrying pain that needs understanding, compassion, and healing.
💙 For 5 days only, get our ALIGN With God course and community for only $30 (that's 93% OFF and $420 savings).
ALIGN With God was created for those who want to heal from spiritual wounds, recover from Complex Trauma, and begin building a healthier, deeper connection with God.
This course is for:
● those healing from religious trauma
● those working to repair their relationship with God
● those who have recently found God but are still living with the effects of trauma
You do not need to have everything figured out to begin.
👉 Get started here: bit.ly/ALIGN-With-God-30
👉 Or visit timfletcher.ca to learn more.
Sale ends March 30, 2026.
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Tim Fletcher
Religious harm isn’t always obvious, especially when it’s been normalized over time. This highlights how control can slowly replace your voice, and what it looks like to begin reclaiming it.
💙 For 5 days only, get our ALIGN With God course and community for only $30 (that's 93% OFF and $420 savings).
● Learn how religious trauma and spiritual abuse impact your relationship with God, and begin to separate what’s true from what was harmful.
● Understand emotions like shame, fear, doubt, and guilt through both trauma and biblical perspectives.
● Rebuild trust in yourself, your faith, and your ability to ask honest questions without fear.
● Move toward a healthier, more grounded connection with God that honors both your pain and your healing.
👉 Get started here: bit.ly/ALIGN-With-God-30
👉 Or visit www.timfletcher.ca/align-with-god to learn more.
Sale ends March 30, 2026.
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Tim Fletcher
"When sex becomes the price of connection, safety, or love, it stops being intimacy and starts becoming fawning."
This week's Friday Night Tim Talk explores how sex can become more than intimacy for some fawners. It can start to feel like the way to keep connection, calm conflict, feel wanted, or stay emotionally secure.
▶️ Premieres on YouTube tonight at 4:30 PM PT / 6:30 PM CT.
🗨️ Join others from around the world in the chat!
⏰ Get reminded here: https://youtu.be/4JMGK2gZU_M
See you there!
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Tim Fletcher
You are allowed to ask questions about God.
For many people living with Complex Trauma or healing from religious trauma, faith can feel confusing, painful, or hard to trust. Questions often come with that pain:
Where was God?
Why did this happen?
Can I trust Him?
Can I rebuild this relationship?
This course is not about shaming those questions.
It is about creating space for them.
ALIGN With God helps people explore trauma, healing, and their relationship with God through a compassionate, trauma-informed lens. It invites people to question what they’ve been taught, untangle truth from harm, and begin reconnecting with God in a healthier way.
💙 For 5 days only, get our ALIGN With God course and community for only $30 (that's 93% OFF and $420 savings).
👉 Get started here: bit.ly/ALIGN-With-God-30
👉 Or visit timfletcher.ca to learn more.
Sale ends March 30, 2026.
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Tim Fletcher
Many people don’t recognize religious trauma until years later, especially when compliance once made it feel normal. This speaks to the moment things start to come into focus and what that realization can open up.
💙 For 5 days only, get our ALIGN With God course and community for only $30 (that's 93% OFF and $420 savings).
● Learn how religious trauma and spiritual abuse impact your relationship with God, and begin to separate what’s true from what was harmful.
● Understand emotions like shame, fear, doubt, and guilt through both trauma and biblical perspectives.
● Rebuild trust in yourself, your faith, and your ability to ask honest questions without fear.
● Move toward a healthier, more grounded connection with God that honors both your pain and your healing.
👉 Get started here: bit.ly/ALIGN-With-God-30
👉 Or visit www.timfletcher.ca/align-with-god to learn more.
Sale ends March 30, 2026.
#religioustrauma #christian #complextrauma #spiritualabuse
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Tim Fletcher
“I was just joking…”
But sometimes humor is doing more than we realize.
Tim explores how humor can become a defense in complex trauma, and how to begin using it in ways that actually support healing.
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🗨️ “This is must-have information for every human being.” — Ed L., Lift Alumnus
We believe everyone deserves access to the tools that bring healing, hope, and lasting change.
For a limited time, we’re making it easier than ever to dig deep into your recovery journey with 50% off our LIFT Live Online Learning program in four of our most popular classrooms: LIFT Eastern, LIFT Greenwich, LIFT Central, and LIFT Pacific.
LIFT Live is our most immersive and intensive program for Complex Trauma recovery, offering a structured and deeply supportive path toward lasting change. Through a comprehensive, multi-phase curriculum, participants engage in live sessions, guided learning, and meaningful group connection that helps uncover the root causes of addiction, mental health challenges, and relational struggles.
👉 Book an Intake Session to get started HERE: zcal.co/t/intake-session
👉 Learn more about the LIFT Live program at www.timfletcher.ca/lift-online-learning
Promotion ends March 31, 2026.
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