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Hey Sis, hey! I'm Grace Sandra; a single Mama of 3, Writer & Activist/Advocate.

On my channel, unfiltered Black womanhood meets storytelling, culture, activism & the fight to stay human in a world that forgets our humanity. This is a safe space for Black women to be centered + cherished.

I’ll be diving into news, our nervous system, and the narratives that shape our lives — from personal survival stories to social commentary, media analysis, and the messy truth of becoming. I love to share my personal stories, my lived experience & training to make sense of what’s happening around us and within us. It’s documentary-style storytelling with a cultural lens and a survivor’s heart. ❤️‍🩹

Everything I do is for the Black girls who weren’t supposed to make it, the ones trying to reassemble themselves & wanna understand & heal the world through a sharper, more honest lens.

Hit subscribe and come survive — and thrive — with me. Welcome to the fam!

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31:41

Women are REFUSING TO DATE

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51:22

I Quit My Job over Verbal Abuse, a Narc Boss, Panic Attacks & CHOOSING MYSELF (again)!

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Shared 1 week ago

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22:54

Trading your soul for Power will never buy you peace! #NikkiMinaj self-abandons again!

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Shared 2 weeks ago

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25:13

AmeriKKKa has NPD (Narcissistic Personality Disorder).

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Shared 3 weeks ago

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9:26

My Mom & (Ex) Husband LOVED Trump 🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️

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Shared 3 weeks ago

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18:33

DARVO in Real Time. Renee Good is a “domestic terrorist?”

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Shared 4 weeks ago

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41:47

Why this Viral Divorce Hits So Hard. Desmond, Religion, & Agency.

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Shared 1 month ago

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41:50

Purity Culture F’ed us up! Rethinking Sexual Freedom 💦

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Shared 1 month ago

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7:16

Should I try & go Gay?

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Shared 1 month ago

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34:42

Ask Yourself 6 Questions to reflect on 2025

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Shared 1 month ago

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10:01

I tried to date in 2025, yall 🔥 #DatingWrapped

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Shared 2 months ago

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28:35

The Danish Deception & Blaming Survivors. Again. 🤦🏽‍♀️

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Shared 2 months ago

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8:31

See Yourself How Your Loved Ones Do!

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Shared 2 months ago

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21:54

Black Women. I believe you.

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Shared 2 months ago

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6:48

White Men Tryna Humble Black Women CONSTANTLY.

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Shared 3 months ago

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37:16

Is Having a Boyfriend Embaressing now? British Vogue Thinks So!

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Shared 3 months ago

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40:11

If you need help, ask a Black Woman | Epi 33

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Shared 3 months ago

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38:24

I didn't find love until I didn't want it anymore

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Shared 4 months ago

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35:44

Motherhood is Sacred in the Performance of Whiteness | Epi 31 #ohtspodcast

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Shared 4 months ago

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33:06

Y’all not finna gaslight me into mourning a fashy. | #ohtspodcast Epi 30

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Shared 4 months ago

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28:44

If you are down BAD --this is for YOU!

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Shared 6 months ago

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1:04:45

28: An Unexpected Alliance: From Dating the Same Man To Girlfrans?!

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Shared 8 months ago

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42:13

The Black Parents We All Wish We Had! Epi 27 | #ohtspodcast

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Shared 9 months ago

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34:03

I Meditated For 8 Years & This Is What I Learned

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Shared 9 months ago

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50:32

We REFUSE to settle for toxic boomers like Shannon Sharpe! Tracee Ellis Ross is right!

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Shared 9 months ago

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47:50

Heal Your Inner Child! My recent (cougaring) Dating Lesson! #Storytime

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Shared 9 months ago

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45:08

I divested Evangelicalism & found self empowerment. #ohtspodcast

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Shared 10 months ago

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37:52

IT’S TIME TO QUIET QUIT AMERICA. Epi 21 #ohtspodcast

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Shared 10 months ago

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54:57

I'm tired of this TIRED Narrative about Meghan Markle.

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Shared 10 months ago

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41:49

With Love, Meghan & what we can learn from the Duchess of Sussex | Epi 19 #ohtspodcast

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Shared 11 months ago

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38:32

I feel like a 48 year old loser sometimes.

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Shared 11 months ago

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44:34

STOP being mean to yourself! How to Have Self-Compassion | Episode 17 #ohtspodcast

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Shared 1 year ago

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30:52

Black women are taking a seat. | EPI 16 #ohtspodcast

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Shared 1 year ago

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53:58

Reclaim your Voice, Sis | Ep 15 #ohtspodcast

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Shared 1 year ago

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29:20

Why "Good Vibes Only" Won't Heal You!

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Shared 1 year ago

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32:11

LET'S SET INTENTIONS FOR 2025! #OHTSpodcast Ep 13

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Shared 1 year ago

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6:12

My 2024 DATING WRAPPED!

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Shared 1 year ago

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35:38

EPI 12: In defense of BUTCH bodies, should we have a dating roster & how to enjoy this summer!

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Shared 1 year ago

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28:16

Silk & Sonder review. April showers…

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Shared 1 year ago

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42:42

EPI 11: The War In Your Head: Reclaiming Peace, Shedding Shame (2024)

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17:13

Come Silk + Sonder March with me!

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Shared 1 year ago

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40:54

EPI 10 -Are older women leftovers? Starting over as a late bloomer.

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Shared 1 year ago

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34:29

EPI 9: Romanticize Yourself & embrace where you’re at

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Shared 1 year ago

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21:45

How I Use Silk & Sonder for my Mental Health!

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Shared 1 year ago

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30:48

Reesa Teesa - A Narc Abuse Survivor Perspective

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Shared 2 years ago

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21:54

A good month following a TERRIBLE month.

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Shared 2 years ago

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32:52

EPI 8: Codependent much? End the codependent situationships!

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Shared 2 years ago

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EPI 7: Your Inner Child Needs You

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Shared 2 years ago

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I Made This For All Women

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Shared 2 years ago

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6:59

Dr’s aren’t trained to tell you this

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Shared 2 years ago

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17:32

I only date black men

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Shared 2 years ago

879 views

43:29

EPI 6: Cutting off Toxic Friendships

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Shared 2 years ago

307 views

21:22

Inside the Silk and Sonder Planner: My June Recap

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Shared 2 years ago

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16:57

May 2023 Silk & Sonder Planner Review

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Shared 2 years ago

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29:39

EPI 5: Surviving Narcissists: The One Thing I Wish I Knew Before Meeting Them

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Shared 2 years ago

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40:45

EPI 4: How to survive Yourself. Marriage again? ONE WORD 2023. He's a FELON?!

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Shared 2 years ago

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16:36

My Silk & Sonder 2023 Month in Review!

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Shared 2 years ago

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EPI 3: How to cope w losing parents, becoming an orphan, unhealthy coping & I don't date old men.

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Shared 2 years ago

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14:26

Unpacking My Life-Changing March With Silk and Sonder!

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Shared 2 years ago

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33:44

Perimenopause, recent un-aliving ideations & a crazy sexy drive. Episode 2.

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Shared 2 years ago

891 views