Hi, I’m Madalina. You, Reclaimed looks at limerence, attachment, love, and modern relationships through the lens of earlier relational wounding — how complex/ongoing childhood experiences shape what we’re drawn to now.
A lot of what we call “I just really like them” is actually old attachment wiring trying to resolve something. So here we slow it down, look at what your nervous system learned to expect, and what it feels like in your body when someone is actually safe.
We talk about:
Attachment patterns (anxious, avoidant, mixed) and how they show up in dating
Limerence — why one person becomes the obsession
How complex trauma makes intensity feel normal
Emotionally immature vs emotionally available partners
Somatic cues of safety vs threat, and rebuilding self-trust
The point isn’t to pathologize you — it’s to give you language for what’s happening, so you can choose relationships from awareness, not from old patterns.
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