by John O'Brien - Invidious

by John O'Brien

Hey! I'm John O'Brien and I'm a certified behavioral therapist here in Los Angeles. On this channel I'll help you understand your attachment style so you can work towards feeling more secure in yourself and your relationships. We will discuss attachment psychology, attachment theory, managing anxiety, relationship health, finding your purpose in life, and more.

It's easy to look at other people's qualities, traits, & behavior. But do you know how to look inward? I'm here to help you self-reflect and gain a higher sense of empathy. It's important we understand ourselves, so that we can better understand others.

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**This channel is for informational purposes only. It does not substitute therapy of any kind nor constitutes a therapist-client relationship. If you are having a crisis, please call your local crisis hotline (linked below). These videos are general and not specific to any unique case.**

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9:14

what does SPACE look like? (anxious avoidant relationships)

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Shared 4 months ago

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6:37

the BEST RESPONSE when an avoidant pulls away

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Shared 4 months ago

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10:13

What do avoidants really want?

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Shared 4 months ago

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4:40

How to make ANYONE feel SAFE (anxious avoidant relationships)

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Shared 5 months ago

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11:07

Let the avoidant breathe

by John O'Brien

Shared 5 months ago

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15:10

THIS is BETTER than being NICE (anxious avoidant relationships)

by John O'Brien

Shared 5 months ago

201 views

8:39

THIS makes you WEAK (anxious avoidant detachment)

by John O'Brien

Shared 5 months ago

75 views

8:59

THIS makes you SECURE (anxious avoidant attachment manifestation)

by John O'Brien

Shared 5 months ago

118 views

9:16

THIS makes you IRRESISTIBLE (anxious avoidant attachment relationships)

by John O'Brien

Shared 5 months ago

173 views

9:16

Why security is so seductive (anxious avoidant detachment)

by John O'Brien

Shared 5 months ago

147 views

8:13

How a secure person handles an avoidant pulling away

by John O'Brien

Shared 5 months ago

82 views

7:29

Chase purpose, not people (anxious avoidant detachment)

by John O'Brien

Shared 5 months ago

101 views

9:34

How I give an avoidant space

by John O'Brien

Shared 5 months ago

135 views

7:47

Being GOOD beats being NICE! (anxious avoidant attachment)

by John O'Brien

Shared 5 months ago

80 views

11:08

Stop being NICE, be GOOD instead! (anxious avoidant attachment)

by John O'Brien

Shared 5 months ago

505 views

5:59

Why you're giving too much (anxious avoidant attachment)

by John O'Brien

Shared 5 months ago

60 views

8:30

The avoidant's endless search for "The One"

by John O'Brien

Shared 5 months ago

54 views

4:33

You needed to fail

by John O'Brien

Shared 5 months ago

27 views

4:32

why pulling your energy back makes you magnetic (anxious avoidant attachment)

by John O'Brien

Shared 5 months ago

294 views

4:18

Protect those you love

by John O'Brien

Shared 5 months ago

47 views

6:25

How to call out an avoidant

by John O'Brien

Shared 5 months ago

146 views

11:09

How a secure person responds when an avoidant pulls away

by John O'Brien

Shared 5 months ago

754 views

7:28

Letting go makes you attractive (anxious avoidant detachment)

by John O'Brien

Shared 5 months ago

71 views

6:04

why pulling your energy back makes you magnetic (anxious avoidant detachment)

by John O'Brien

Shared 5 months ago

133 views

3:56

Why you need emotional safety (anxious avoidant dynamic)

by John O'Brien

Shared 5 months ago

36 views

10:19

Creating emotional safety (anxious/ avoidant relationships)

by John O'Brien

Shared 6 months ago

128 views

3:44

The power of patience (anxious avoidant relationships)

by John O'Brien

Shared 6 months ago

49 views

9:01

A man without a purpose

by John O'Brien

Shared 6 months ago

90 views

7:54

Why Love Turns Into a Chase (anxious/ avoidant dynamic)

by John O'Brien

Shared 8 months ago

192 views

9:14

mastering detachment will change your life (anxious avoidant attachment)

by John O'Brien

Shared 11 months ago

932 views

5:00

Letting go makes you attractive (anxious avoidant attachment, detachment)

by John O'Brien

Shared 11 months ago

1.3K views

7:36

why the anxious has more to lose (anxious avoidant attachment/ detach)

by John O'Brien

Shared 11 months ago

977 views

5:36

How to make people obsessed/intrigued with you (anxious avoidant attachment detachment)

by John O'Brien

Shared 11 months ago

1.6K views

6:08

Walk away to be chased (anxious avoidant attachment, detach)

by John O'Brien

Shared 1 year ago

788 views

5:45

why pulling your energy back makes you magnetic (anxious avoidant attachment detached energy)

by John O'Brien

Shared 1 year ago

795 views

11:21

Joe Goldberg's Attachment Style, Narcissism

by John O'Brien

Shared 1 year ago

232 views

7:20

What's the deal with avoidants?

by John O'Brien

Shared 1 year ago

756 views

8:53

How to communicate with an avoidant

by John O'Brien

Shared 1 year ago

324 views

6:11

Secure attachment: GROUNDED EMPATHY

by John O'Brien

Shared 1 year ago

129 views

5:39

Moving on from an ex

by John O'Brien

Shared 1 year ago

122 views

4:57

How to spot an avoidant

by John O'Brien

Shared 1 year ago

248 views

6:56

Why avoidants are so popular

by John O'Brien

Shared 1 year ago

167 views

5:31

Anxious Attachment: Black & White Thinking

by John O'Brien

Shared 1 year ago

296 views

3:58

The uncertainty of avoidants

by John O'Brien

Shared 1 year ago

716 views

5:35

Why you attract avoidants

by John O'Brien

Shared 1 year ago

1K views

6:23

Empath meets avoidant (SECURE EDITION)

by John O'Brien

Shared 1 year ago

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8:51

Kingpin's Attachment Style in Daredevil, Narcissism

by John O'Brien

Shared 1 year ago

62 views

8:58

How a secure person handles an avoidant pulling away

by John O'Brien

Shared 1 year ago

1.9K views

3:55

Should you date multiple partners?

by John O'Brien

Shared 1 year ago

168 views

7:22

When an empath meets an avoidant

by John O'Brien

Shared 1 year ago

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6:17

Why dating is so hard

by John O'Brien

Shared 1 year ago

245 views

7:09

Getting an avoidant back

by John O'Brien

Shared 1 year ago

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7:35

Four Horsemen of Relationships: Stonewalling

by John O'Brien

Shared 1 year ago

491 views

8:32

Four Horsemen of Relationships: Defensiveness

by John O'Brien

Shared 1 year ago

237 views

6:17

Four Horsemen of Relationships: Contempt

by John O'Brien

Shared 1 year ago

861 views

4:18

Four Horsemen of Relationships: Criticism

by John O'Brien

Shared 1 year ago

188 views

11:16

How to detach from an avoidant

by John O'Brien

Shared 1 year ago

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9:43

Dating Is Hard

by John O'Brien

Shared 1 year ago

408 views

8:15

Do avoidants hold the power in relationships?

by John O'Brien

Shared 1 year ago

847 views

16:21

How to heal anxious attachment style

by John O'Brien

Shared 1 year ago

472 views