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Becoming Her With Shay

Welcome to Becoming Her with Shay — a soft yet disciplined space for women who are rebuilding their lives, confidence, routines, and finances in real time.

This channel is for you if you’re:
your feeling behind, overwhelmed, or stuck
working a 9–5 but dreaming of freedom, alignment, and self-trust
focused on glow-ups that are intentional, not rushed
embracing your natural beauty while becoming your best self
Here, I share my journey of becoming her — mentally, physically, financially, and emotionally.

You’ll find content around:
✨ Soft life routines & feminine discipline
✨ Curly hair care
✨ Mindset shifts
✨ Financial growth, side hustles & leaving survival mode
✨ Reset routines & life systems that actually work

I believe in small steps, clarity, consistency, and grace.

If you want a space that feels calm, honest, motivating, and grounding, you’re in the right place.
🤍 New videos weekly
🤍 Real life. Real growth. Real becoming.

Subscribe and walk this journey with me.

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Rebuilding My Life at 31 After Everything Changed

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Feeling Behind in Life? The Truth No One Tells You About Success

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I Felt Like I Ruined My Only Week Off… Here’s How I Reset

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Learning to Let Go of Perfectionism (Part 2) | Heal Your Mind & Become Her

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How I’m Letting Go of Perfectionism & Finally Moving Forward - Part 1

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2026 Goals | Quarterly Reset System for Ambitious Women

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The Phone Rule I’m Using to Get My Life Together (Soft Discipline)

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Why I’m Rebranding & Starting a New Era | Becoming Her with Shay

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Best Black Friday Hair Deals in the UK Revealed!

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How to Build Your Curly Hair Routine (Without Overthinking It!) | Frizz & Product Tips

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How I Almost Gave Up on YouTube (&My Curly Hair Journey) | Overcoming Self-Doubt & Imposter Syndrome

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💋 Harley Quinn… But Make It Curly! 🎭✨ | Curly Hair Halloween Transformation 🎃

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Umberto Giannini Banana Jelly Review 🍌 | Frizz-Free Curly Hair Routine for Defined Curls

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Can This Mielle Organics Oil Make My Curls Thicker?

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SheaMoisture Jamaican Black Castor Oil Gel on 3C/4A Curls | Amazing Defined Results!

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Does Cantu Hair Oil Really Work on Curls?

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Frizz-Free Curls with the DREAM DUO 💫 | Mielle Leave In + Cantu Curl Activator Routine

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This Mielle Deep Conditioner SAVED My Hair! | Babassu Oil & Mint Review for Curly & Natural Hair

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From Dry to Defined! My 3C/4A Curly Hair Routine Using Imbue Hair Products 💧✨

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This Curl Cream SHOCKED Me! | Cantu Avocado Curl Activator Review on 3C/4A Hair

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What They're Not Telling You About Andrew Walker's Hair Typing System

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The Truth About Curly Hair Types You NEED To Know!

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Flora & Curl Curl Activation Lotion & Gel Review | Defined, Frizz-Free Curls Step-by-Step!

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What Made Cantu So CONTROVERSIAL in the Curly Hair Community?

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Why Your Hair Isn’t Absorbing Products | Hair Porosity Explained + Game-Changing Techniques!

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This Curl Enhancing Smoothie Changed My Twist Out Game FOREVER!

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✨ Quick & Easy Low Bun Hairstyle | Featuring Garnier Banana Hair Food Mask ✨

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This As I Am Hair Mask Made My Curls BOUNCE BACK

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Transform Your Curls Styling Techniques for 3c & 4a Hair Types

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Save Money With This Easy Curly Hair Trimming Hack!

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Why Your Curly Hair Needs This ONE Product (Leave-In Conditioner)

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Transform Your Hair with These Deep Conditioning Tips

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Cantu Hair Oil Update | 3-Month Curly Hair Growth Journey & Edge Improvement! 🌱✨

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5 Essential Tools Every Curly Hair Person Should Own! 🌟✨

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Garnier Banana Hair Mask as a Leave-In Conditioner for 3C/4A Curls | Review & Results! 🍌✨

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Dry, Frizzy Curls? 🤯 I Tried the Garnier Banana Hair Food on 3C/4A Hair!

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How to Clarify Curly Hair ✨ Remove Build-Up & Revive Your Curls!

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3 Curly Hair Mistakes Keeping Your Hair Dry

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How I Learned to Love My 3C/4A Curls

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Is Cantu Hair Mousse WORTH Your Money in 2025?

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How To Use Cantu Curling Mousse

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Is Cantu Curl Activating Cream Worth Your Money in 2025?

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How to Use Cantu Curl Activator Cream | Benefits & Tips for Defined 3c/4a Curls

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1 minute Quick and Easy Valentine's Curly Hairstyle

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How to Use Cantu Deep Treatment Masque for Perfectly Moisturised Curls

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Moisturise Your Curls the RIGHT Way: The Biggest Mistakes to Avoid in 2025

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Stop These 5 Bad Hair Habits in 2025 to Grow Healthy Curly Hair!

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Testing Cantu Hair Growth Oil For A Month And This Happened!

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Quick and Easy Curly Hair Updos for Christmas 🎄

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Quick and Easy Curly Hairstyles for Christmas 🎄

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How To Protect Curly Hair This Winter

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🎉 Black Friday Deals 2024 – The Ultimate Curly Hair Guide!

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Deep Conditioning Routine | Mielle Organics Rosemary Mint Strengthening Hair Masque

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Co Wash REVOLUTIONIZED My Curly Hair Routine!

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My GAME CHANGING Curly Hair Routine with Carol's Daughter Hair Milk!

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Black Friday 2024 Predictions

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Curly Hair Routine | Mielle Organics Pomegranate and Honey

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Deep Conditioning Natural Hair | Carol's Daughter Black Vanilla Deep Conditioner

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Cantu Biotin Infused Hair Scalp Oil ~ Review for Curly Hair Growth

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How to Trim Your Curly Hair at Home | DIY Curly Hair Trimming for Growth

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