Welcome to Becoming Her with Shay — a soft yet disciplined space for women who are rebuilding their lives, confidence, routines, and finances in real time.
This channel is for you if you’re:
your feeling behind, overwhelmed, or stuck
working a 9–5 but dreaming of freedom, alignment, and self-trust
focused on glow-ups that are intentional, not rushed
embracing your natural beauty while becoming your best self
Here, I share my journey of becoming her — mentally, physically, financially, and emotionally.
You’ll find content around:
✨ Soft life routines & feminine discipline
✨ Curly hair care
✨ Mindset shifts
✨ Financial growth, side hustles & leaving survival mode
✨ Reset routines & life systems that actually work
I believe in small steps, clarity, consistency, and grace.
If you want a space that feels calm, honest, motivating, and grounding, you’re in the right place.
🤍 New videos weekly
🤍 Real life. Real growth. Real becoming.
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Becoming Her With Shay
31 years of becoming. Still learning. Still growing. Still me. 🤍
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Hi everyone 💛
Over the past few months I’ve grown and changed a lot as a woman — emotionally, mentally, and spiritually.
I still love my curly hair and will continue to share it…
but I’ve realised I’m so much more than just curls.
I’m stepping into a new era:
✨ soft discipline
✨ feminine energy
✨ lifestyle & glow-up
✨ self-development
✨ mindset
✨ business + finances
✨ becoming HER
This is my becoming journey —
and I’m excited to take you with me 🌿
Love, Shay 💛
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Hey curl friends! Finally back Friday! The perfect time to buy curly hair products stock up and save money 💰
Here are some sites to check out to save money:
Kiyo beauty, up to 30% off - share.google/LAap7YyELRKaEjnzb
Boots, save up to 1/3 off - share.google/QfrNkYowzp18iV4Lr
Superdrug, save 20%-25% off on selected brands - share.google/Fn03fCOEKpjYQsPGr
Amazon - save up to 40% off - search curly hair products
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Here is a sneak peek of the products I will be using for my curly hair routine in tomorrow's video.
Stay tuned for curly hair tips on how to bud your curly hair routine!
2 months ago | [YT] | 9
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➡️ “Be honest… how do you feel about shrinkage?” 😭
Shrinkage is REAL 💀 but it also means your curls are hydrated and bouncy! I’m planning a video all about embracing shrinkage while still showing off your length 👀
👇🏾 Comment your top shrinkage struggle — I might include it in the next upload!
2 months ago | [YT] | 3
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Filming new curly hair content this week 🎥✨ Can’t wait to show you some autumn curl hacks!
3 months ago | [YT] | 3
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If I made a video on ONE thing to help your curls this month, what should it be? Comment below your request.
3 months ago | [YT] | 3
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What’s your biggest struggle right now?
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Halloween 🎃💀 week! Can you guess what looks I will be doing for Halloween 🎃?
Comment below 👇🏾 and also comment below your Halloween look 😍
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✨POV: Your curls are serving Rapunzel energy when wet… then dry down to a cute lil’ bob 😭💀
Shrinkage is REAL — but it actually means your curls are healthy and hydrated 👏🏾💧
🍂 I just dropped a new Short all about the curly hair shrinkage struggle — if you’ve ever washed your hair and thought,
“Wait… where did my length go?!” 😂
You’ll definitely relate.
🎥 Watch it here 👉 [insert video link]
💬 Comment below: do you embrace shrinkage or does it drive you crazy?
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