Becoming Her With Shay
Welcome to Becoming Her with Shay — a soft yet disciplined space for women who are rebuilding their lives, confidence, routines, and finances in real time.
This channel is for you if you’re:
your feeling behind, overwhelmed, or stuck
working a 9–5 but dreaming of freedom, alignment, and self-trust
focused on glow-ups that are intentional, not rushed
embracing your natural beauty while becoming your best self
Here, I share my journey of becoming her — mentally, physically, financially, and emotionally.
You’ll find content around:
✨ Soft life routines & feminine discipline
✨ Curly hair care
✨ Mindset shifts
✨ Financial growth, side hustles & leaving survival mode
✨ Reset routines & life systems that actually work
I believe in small steps, clarity, consistency, and grace.
If you want a space that feels calm, honest, motivating, and grounding, you’re in the right place.
🤍 New videos weekly
🤍 Real life. Real growth. Real becoming.
Subscribe and walk this journey with me.
Becoming Her With Shay
Hi everyone 💛
Over the past few months I’ve grown and changed a lot as a woman — emotionally, mentally, and spiritually.
I still love my curly hair and will continue to share it…
but I’ve realised I’m so much more than just curls.
I’m stepping into a new era:
✨ soft discipline
✨ feminine energy
✨ lifestyle & glow-up
✨ self-development
✨ mindset
✨ business + finances
✨ becoming HER
This is my becoming journey —
and I’m excited to take you with me 🌿
Love, Shay 💛
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Hey curl friends! Finally back Friday! The perfect time to buy curly hair products stock up and save money 💰
Here are some sites to check out to save money:
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Superdrug, save 20%-25% off on selected brands - share.google/Fn03fCOEKpjYQsPGr
Amazon - save up to 40% off - search curly hair products
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Here is a sneak peek of the products I will be using for my curly hair routine in tomorrow's video.
Stay tuned for curly hair tips on how to bud your curly hair routine!
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➡️ “Be honest… how do you feel about shrinkage?” 😭
Shrinkage is REAL 💀 but it also means your curls are hydrated and bouncy! I’m planning a video all about embracing shrinkage while still showing off your length 👀
👇🏾 Comment your top shrinkage struggle — I might include it in the next upload!
2 months ago | [YT] | 3
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Filming new curly hair content this week 🎥✨ Can’t wait to show you some autumn curl hacks!
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If I made a video on ONE thing to help your curls this month, what should it be? Comment below your request.
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What’s your biggest struggle right now?
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Halloween 🎃💀 week! Can you guess what looks I will be doing for Halloween 🎃?
Comment below 👇🏾 and also comment below your Halloween look 😍
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✨POV: Your curls are serving Rapunzel energy when wet… then dry down to a cute lil’ bob 😭💀
Shrinkage is REAL — but it actually means your curls are healthy and hydrated 👏🏾💧
🍂 I just dropped a new Short all about the curly hair shrinkage struggle — if you’ve ever washed your hair and thought,
“Wait… where did my length go?!” 😂
You’ll definitely relate.
🎥 Watch it here 👉 [insert video link]
💬 Comment below: do you embrace shrinkage or does it drive you crazy?
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POV: You finally find a gel that doesn’t flake, crunch, or ruin your curls 😭👏🏾
I’ve been using the Shea Moisture Jamaican Black Castor Oil + Flaxseed Strong Hold Styling Gel, and honestly… my curls have never looked this defined and shiny! ✨
It’s perfect for my 3C–4A curls and coils, especially now that autumn’s here 🍁 — when humidity and frizz usually try to take over.
What I love most is that it gives a strong hold without that stiff, crunchy feeling. My curls stay soft, moisturised, and bouncy all day, with zero flakes and that gorgeous healthy shine. 💖
If you’ve been struggling to find a gel that actually does what it says — this one’s a game changer 👏🏾
💫 Benefits I’ve noticed:
• Frizz-free results that actually last
• Defined curls & coils with natural movement
• No crunch or white flakes
• Adds shine + moisture (perfect for cooler months)
🌸 Pro tip: Apply on damp hair after your leave-in or cream for that glossy, defined finish!
💬 Have you tried this gel yet? Or do you have a go-to styling gel you swear by? Comment below — I’m building a “holy grail” list for us curly folks! 👇🏾
📌 Save this post for your next wash day.
🤍 Subscribe to my channel @OutrageousCurls for more curly hair tips, lazy routines & frizz-free inspo.
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