Alan Robarge, LPC

Alan Robarge, LPC | Attachment-Focused Psychotherapist | 23 Years Experience | M.A. Counseling Psychology

My channel provides psychology education to help those hurt by love rebuild what heartbreak shattered and forge a stronger self. This community is for relational seekers navigating emotional unavailability, relationship anxiety, and breakup grief. Attachment trauma is the origin of push-pull conflicts, unmet needs, miscommunication, and mistrust of vulnerability.
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Focus: Emotional Neglect, Attachment Trauma, Relationship Heartbreak
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5 Pillars of Transformation:

Losing Yourself → Strengthen Identity
Obsessing Over Leaving → Resolve Ambivalence
Fearing Abandonment → Heal Separation Distress
Distrusting Vulnerability → Nervous System Regulation
Craving Nourishment → Build Emotional Literacy

Focus: Anxious attachment, self-abandonment, fawning, love addiction, codependency recovery, childhood wounds, limerence, people-pleasing, grieving losses, healing, couples counseling