Alan Robarge, LPC

Alan Robarge, LPC | Attachment-Focused Psychotherapist and Relationship Educator
Licensed Professional Counselor with 23 years of experience. This work specializes in Attachment Trauma, Emotional Neglect, Love Addiction, Codependency Recovery, and Adult Children (ACoA/ACDF) Development.

This clinical resource addresses losing yourself in relationships and the chronic pursuit-withdrawal cycles that keep partners stuck in dysfunctional loops. We resolve the Internal Double Bind—the paralyzing conflict between the longing for connection and the survival-based fear of exposure. We discuss the remediation of abandonment, toxic shame, and nervous system dysregulation through somatic body focus. By grieving losses and deconstructing subconscious barriers to intimacy, we move from emotional invisibility to reclaiming the essential self. This is the path to Relational Integrity: a resource to restore your voice, achieve psychological maturity, and secure attachment through trauma recovery.