There’s no shame in questioning.There’s no shame in not having it all figured out. But there can be harm in rushing into identities without first listening to the deeper pain beneath them. Especially with something as life-altering as a trans identity — because once you begin a medical or social transition, you can’t go fully back.
So I am here to have the conversations most people won’t — the ones your friends, family, and even therapists avoid because they’re afraid of offending you. I’m okay with risking offending people if it means spewing the truth.
I would rather say, “You are not trans — and here’s why,” than stay silent and watch someone make irreversible decisions based on misunderstood pain.
We live in a culture of constant noise, and where ideology is wrapped as truth.
Basic definitions — even of gender and sexuality— shift with every scroll.
No wonder so many young people feel anxious, disconnected, or lost. They’re told that discomfort means gender dysphoria. That questioning means something’s wrong with them. That if they don’t fit the script, they must be something else entirely.
But they’re not broken. They’re overstimulated. Overexposed. Exhausted from trying to understand simple things about themselves in a world that insists on making everything complicated.
Radical gender ideology doesn’t bring clarity — especially not to young people. It brings more labels, more confusion, and more pressure to “be something.”
Peace begins when you stop letting the internet define who you are. When you come back to your body. To calmness. To simplicity. To reality.
Let go of the pressure. You don’t need to identify as some new, made-up gender to be valid. You don’t need to force uniqueness into your personality.
I don’t subscribe to the narrative I often hear in trans spaces that the “girl version” of me is dead or wasn’t really me. That perspective doesn’t sit right with me. Not only does it feel dismissive of the child my parents raised and loved, but it also distorts the truth of my journey.
Many transsexuals want to believe they’ve done such a great job transitioning that it feels like they’ve become entirely new people. I get that — it can be comforting. But sometimes, comfort isn’t the same as truth.
The truth can hurt. Gender dysphoria is incredibly painful. But you know what can hurt even more? Living in a fantasy that constantly needs protecting from reality.
My transition was never about changing my sex — because I know that’s not truly possible. It was about seeking peace within myself, about finding a version of life where I could feel whole.
And the reason it worked — the reason I’ve found that peace — is because I chose not to lie to myself or others.
To my haters: You keep calling me a “pick me” — but what does that even mean, and why do you think it applies to me? Also, how does throwing labels at me actually prove any of my arguments wrong?
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Six-year anniversary with testosterone❤️
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Ask me anything, and I’ll answer it in my next video🔥
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Spending my 26th birthday in Budapest was the best decision ever!🇭🇺☀️
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There’s no shame in questioning.There’s no shame in not having it all figured out.
But there can be harm in rushing into identities without first listening to the deeper pain beneath them.
Especially with something as life-altering as a trans identity — because once you begin a medical or social transition, you can’t go fully back.
So I am here to have the conversations most people won’t — the ones your friends, family, and even therapists avoid because they’re afraid of offending you.
I’m okay with risking offending people if it means spewing the truth.
I would rather say, “You are not trans — and here’s why,” than stay silent and watch someone make irreversible decisions based on misunderstood pain.
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I gave up growing out my hair. It was too much work😂
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We live in a culture of constant noise, and where ideology is wrapped as truth.
Basic definitions — even of gender and sexuality— shift with every scroll.
No wonder so many young people feel anxious, disconnected, or lost.
They’re told that discomfort means gender dysphoria.
That questioning means something’s wrong with them.
That if they don’t fit the script, they must be something else entirely.
But they’re not broken.
They’re overstimulated.
Overexposed.
Exhausted from trying to understand simple things about themselves in a world that insists on making everything complicated.
Radical gender ideology doesn’t bring clarity —
especially not to young people.
It brings more labels, more confusion, and more pressure to “be something.”
Peace begins when you stop letting the internet define who you are.
When you come back to your body.
To calmness.
To simplicity.
To reality.
Let go of the pressure.
You don’t need to identify as some new, made-up gender to be valid.
You don’t need to force uniqueness into your personality.
You’re already unique.
Exactly as you are.
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I don’t subscribe to the narrative I often hear in trans spaces that the “girl version” of me is dead or wasn’t really me. That perspective doesn’t sit right with me. Not only does it feel dismissive of the child my parents raised and loved, but it also distorts the truth of my journey.
Many transsexuals want to believe they’ve done such a great job transitioning that it feels like they’ve become entirely new people. I get that — it can be comforting. But sometimes, comfort isn’t the same as truth.
The truth can hurt.
Gender dysphoria is incredibly painful. But you know what can hurt even more?
Living in a fantasy that constantly needs protecting from reality.
My transition was never about changing my sex — because I know that’s not truly possible. It was about seeking peace within myself, about finding a version of life where I could feel whole.
And the reason it worked — the reason I’ve found that peace — is because I chose not to lie to myself or others.
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I just started working out at the gym, and I’m looking forward to seeing some changes in my body!
Any tips?
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Queer activists are more obsessed with pronouns than transsexuals will ever be.
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To my haters:
You keep calling me a “pick me” — but what does that even mean, and why do you think it applies to me?
Also, how does throwing labels at me actually prove any of my arguments wrong?
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