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If you have a narcissistic parent you may end up with a narcissistic partner
Mental Healness
Some narcissists are trying to use you to make the old supply or ex jealous. Stay vigilant #npd
Narcissistic people like to move really fast & cram a lot of relationship into a small space of time
narcissist don’t experience remorse and guilt like non narcissistic people #npd
I was already pretty certain that I had narcissistic personality disorder even before therapy
Narcissist want to control everything around them and they fear losing that control #npd
A lot of narcissists see their kids as reflections of themselves and not as individuals #npd
Narcissistic people can be so cold at the end of the relationship #npd #narcissistic
Narcissist that have abandoned their kids will still pretend that they are taking care of their kids
Narcissist and toxic people will treat you differently and blame you for it
Narcissist will blame the victim to situations that they create
Dealing with trauma & having a personality disorder has affected my parenting and I’m doing my best
the words a narcissist use all typically come from the same place…in defense of themselves #npd
The partners, kids and friends of narcissist tend to feel more comfortable around other people
A lot of narcissists are good at deceiving others but some will be honest with you up front #npd
Narcissist and toxic people will ruin holidays and special events on purpose
some narcissists will make you discard them #npd #narcissistic
some narcissists will tell you to get out and then try to stop you from leaving #narcissist
@RawMotivations Breaking no contact with a narcissist or toxic person
narcissist and toxic people will play games with you just to get you to react
Some narcissists won’t leave you alone for real #npd #narcs
just because a narcissist has moved on doesn’t guarantee that they will leave you alone
once the switch goes off with a narcissist it stays off #narcsurvivors
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Independence Day is coming up and a lot of narcissist and toxic people will set out to ruin it #npd
Gaslighting can make you feel crazy over an extended period of time. Narcissist do this all the time
Sharing the truth about the narcissistic person isn’t a smear campaign
Your feelings don’t matter to a narcissist or toxic person. Communication is nearly impossible
do narcissists believe their own lies? It depends #npd #lies
narcissist will absolutely think you are ok with how they are treating you if you stay #npd #narc
When you call a toxic person a narcissist you will typically get pushback #npd
Complaining to a narcissist or toxic person typically ends in a battle of complaints or insults
Narcissist don’t see you as a partner, they see you as competition #npd #narcspouse
Just an example that narcissist can move on and still try to control you #selfawarenarcissist
narcissist will start unnecessary fights before tests and special events #npd
narcissists can use the kids to try to have access to you for the rest of your life
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@bla3kmagi3 going no contact with parents and other family members can help you heal #npd
Hans from frozen was a toxic person or a narcissist. Full breakdown available
Aladdin was most definitely a narcissist or had some toxic traits. Full vid in comments
a narcissist will accuse of you exactly what they are doing to you #npd #npd narcissist
Narcissists like to set boundaries to protect themselves but wont follow anyone else's boundaries
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@iwaslikeyo_trey Some Narcissists will trigger you on purpose with Dog whistles and inside triggers
No one gets angrier than a guilty narcissist. S/o @Whatdoesitmatternow for inspiring this one
A narcissist will say “You know you can leave right?” #npd #narcissistic
An example of a narcissist gaslighting you
After a good night out with a narcissist or toxic person
narcissistic people will build you up and tear you down in the same sentence #npd #narctok
narcissist and toxic people will definitely insult you in a joking way
reactive aabuse is very real and can be used against you. Controlling your reactions is a power
its very easy to hurt a narcissist because their egos are fragile
narcissistic parents can fell the ultimate rejection if their kids cut them off
Just because a narcissist finds new supply doesnt mean they will let you Go
narcissistic people will find anyway to try and justify their behavior
@whatdoesitmatternow narcissistic friends will insult you and cover it as a joke
Arguments on pause with a narcissist are real and cause a lot of problems
a lot of narcissist will use your struggle to get sympathy online
narcissist and toxic people will seek vengeance on people that hurt them
arrested development and narcissistic people
narcissistic people can appear to be very confident people
During the Love Bombing phase narcissists become who they need to be to get you
Trying to get any kind of validation from a narcissistic person can be extremely tough
How many times are you going to forgive someone for doing the same thing? #npd #narcissism
Narcissist dont care how you look in front of your friends & family as long as you are picking them
Narcissistic parents will give the golden child everything that the scapegoat children asked for
Anything you say to a narcissist will be used against you later to hurt you
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@KerryMcAvoyPhD make people earn your information and set healthy boundaries
You don’t need a confession From a narcissist if you have proof. Take your proof and act on it
@HeatherEColeman narcissist will consistently ruin birthdays and other celebrations #npd #narcs
nothing you do will ever be enough for a narcissist or toxic person
narcissist and toxic people will minimize you and make you feel unimportant #npd #narcs #narc
narcissistic people are “self” salesman and will definitely sell you a lemon #narcissistic
most narcissists know what they are doing #npd
narcissist and toxic people will compare you to their exes to manipulate you into doing things
Narcissist feel all the emotions. Something inside of them just shuts it off.
Narcissist justify their behaviors by your presence #npd
narcissist will rarely ever give you a true, authentic apology for anything they have done to you
Narcissist will find a way to try and get back into your life #narcissist
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@strongerthanbefore narcissist will rarely stay on target and hold on to the lie
Narcissist will find anyway to remain in your life and use their connections against you
the reverse hoover happens when you break no contact and reach out to the narcissist #reversehoover
narcissistic people will deny things even when you have evidence #npd
can a narcissist really love you?
narcissist see forgiveness and reconciliation as permission to contribute to mistreat you
if a narcissist says they cant love you, believe them the first time
narcissist are jealous of their partners and of their children as well
narcissist will be jealous of the time you spend with your children
some narcissists will ruin their own birthdays and celebrations
A narcissist will tell You that you should celebrate birth everyday 😆
well intended bad advice keeps a lot Of people in toxic relationships with narcissistic people
Narcissist will lay on the car, lock the doors, threaten themselves and you
the same thing a narcissist loves you for in the beginning, they will chastise you for later
@Abuse_is_abuse you can only do so much for your narcissistic friends when they go over the top 😂
narcissists want to control and isolate you
controlling your reactions against a narcissist is one of your greatest powers
@sayitlouderforme narcissist will tell the new supply to block the old supply
narcissist and toxic people use kids as leverage all the time
narcissist will stop trying hard once they feel like they have You locked into the relationship
@strongerthanbefore consistent changed behavior is the only acceptable apology from a narcissist
Narcissists and toxic people rarely offer true, genuine apologies
narcissistic people get worse every time You take them back
narcissistic people will rage out and get mad if you dont accept their apologies
Narcissist treat the people closest to them the worse. They take the masks off at home
narcissistic personality disorder doesnt go away
Traveling with a narcissist can be an awful experience
older, manipulative narcissist and toxic people will target younger people
narcissist will resent you for “making” them do things that they wouldnt normally do
Some narcissists will be overly honest upfront to get you to trust them
the reverse discard happens when a narcissist makes you break up with them
Narcissist and toxic people cry because they got caught or their lives are going to change.
Narcissist & toxic people are going to post things on social media To try to get a reaction from you
your reactions to the narcissist can actually turn them on
Narcissistic people would rather you leave than to work on any of their issues
@Coachniarenee Some Narcissists will try to start fights when you want to see family
narcissist see any discussions about your feelings as criticism
a lot of narcissists will say all their exes are crazy
some narcissists take pleasure in setting you off and getting you to react
The narcissists new supply can be their biggest supporter
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its the good times that keep people in toxic relationships with narcissist
Narcissist know they are treating you badly which is why they want you to keep things private
Stop sharing good news with your narcissistic partners or parents
Narcissistic parents feel like you owe them a debt for being born
toxic workplaces wirh toxic narcissistic bosses are a real thing
don’t take the narcissists bait and get sucked back into a toxic relationship
Narcissist will hold grudges against you forever and will seek vengeance
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@HeartsWithJules Narcissist dont care about wasting your time and will ask you to forgive them
narcissistic people will use videos to manipulate you and justify their logic
Narcissist know what they are doing. Thats why they try to hide it and keep it private #npd
regardless of the changes a narcissist makes, can you get past what they have already done?
during the silent treatment narcissists dont think you deserve their words
adding things to a relationship with a narcissist wont make it better
giving you the silent treatment without a reason is a narcissistic persons weapon
narcissists mean the things they say to you when they are raging out. Doesnt make them true though
You might attract a narcissist but you dont have to keep them in your life long term
some narcissist will try to provoke you when they are giving you the silent treatment
narcissist study and take on the personality traits of the people around them #npd #narcissists
narcissists will take credit for your successes but will refuse to give you Credit for theirs
Narcissists and toxic people can use the stuff you post online to love bomb you with
a narcissist will remember everything you say and do and Will use it against you
some narcissists go to therapy and manipulate the therapist. Therapy isnt the cure for narcissists
Sometimes you have to call a narcissist bluff when they are trying to use the kids to control you
You will waste a lot of time trying to get a narcissist to understand how they make you feel
narcissists could use their family, friends or acquaintances to try to hoover you
Some narcissists will try To get information about yOu from the kids. They will also create division
Narcissistic people are always preparing just in case you decide to leave them.
you will never get a return on your emotional investment with a narcissist or toxic person
it really depends on the narcissistic person that you are dealing with. Some will ignore others wont
Some narcissists won’t leave you alone even if they have someone else
dont expect a narcissist to be there for you emotionally in your time of need
@acemetaphor narcissists show you who they CAN be, not who they actually are #narcissists
you can predict a narcissistic persons behavior by what they have done in the past #npd
Is it possible to love a narcissist and get equal love in return?
Narcissist lend out emotional loans to the people close to them & they expect to be paid back
No contact with a narcissist is to help you heal but If doesn’t guarantee they will leave you alone
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narcissists And toxic people Will hold your belongings hostage
Narcissist will leave belongings behind on purpose in order to maintain some control
Emotional manipulation is a tool that narcissists and toxic people will use to make you feel guilty
Consistent changed behavior is the only acceptable apology
just because a narcissist moves on, doesnt mean they will leave you alone #toxicnarcissism
why the person dealing with a narcissist needs to go to therapy when the relationship ends
a narcissist cant give you closure and if they could, they wouldnt
a lot of narcissistic people experience arrested development
a lot of narcissistic people are jealous of the people around them
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a lot of narcissists and toxic people Will use selective, guilt tripping language to suck you in
Some narcissists won’t try to Hoover you
narcissists want To Exhaust yOu into giving in and giving up
The final discard from a narcissist is typically up to you
you dont have to hate the narcissistic person to leave them, you just need to love yourself more
narcissists want to convince you that you don’t deserve better
Narcissist are not crying for you when they get caught, they are crying for themselves
Narcissist know that they are doing you wrong. They think you are ok with the behavior
Reaching out to the narcissist new supply could actually bring them closer together
Gaslighting by a narcissist can make you question your reality and make you feel crazy
the truth isn’t the goal for a Narcissist. Even with proof they will deny
You dont need a confession from a narcissist when you have evidence
Nothing You do for a narcissist will ever be enough
You dont have to be in a relationship with a narcissist for them to think you belong to them
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narcissist will rather threaten to leave than to actually take accountability or resolve an issue
Narcissists know they are treating you badly
Narcissistic people will try to throw you off and avoid accountability by any means
Narcissists dont want to be your friends, they just want continued access to you and your life
narcissists know they are treating you badly, they dont want to hear about it
Narcissist will have you apologizing to them for things they did to you
narcissist see their kids as reflections of themselves & will discard them if they deem it necessary
some narcissists disassociate before the rage comes
Narcissists parents are going to be the worst enablers of their behaviors
once you forgive a narcissist multiple times they think you should be ok with the behaviors
Narcissists will try to protect their public image and try to hold you accountable in private
slow things down. Speed is the weapon of a narcissist or toxic person
@RawMotivations narcissists dont need a reason to lie. They do it out of habit and to control you
narcissist lie by omission a lot and will try to talk you off the point
trauma bond can be tough to break, but there is help available. August 18th 6:30pm. Link in comments
a narcissistic persons parents are going to be their biggest enablers/supporters
Some people know that they are narcissist and don’t care to change it
Some narcissist will tell you exactly who they are upfront
The narcissists family and friends are not your supporters
One person or source of supply will never be enough for a narcissist
If a narcissist was honest about the way they make you feel
Speaking about therapy and emotional vulnerability is not pandering to a certain demographic
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@KerryMcAvoyPhD Using the gray rock method on a narcissist could help you heal
A narcissist will block you on social media rather than make you feel secure
how to hurt a narcissist. By focusing on yourself and healing