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Holding on to a toxic person could be holding you back from your full potential
Mental Healness
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Narcissist Know the way they treat you isn’t the best which is why they want you to hide it
Introspection and self awareness are good for everyone, not just narcissist And toxic people
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When a narcissist or toxic person gets caught they will go silent, push blame and/or try to confuse
if they are just friends you should be able to meet that friend. the friend might be in on it
they know something is wrong and they are wrong. It’s like a big game to convince you otherwise
Gaining knowledge about narcissist and toxic people could help heal you
Narcissist will start down talking you to friends and family before the breakup
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toxic parents make you to feel like expressing yourself is a problem @How To Love A Battered Woman
Trying to finish a conversation with a narcissist can be a huge, nearly impossible task
Manipulation from a narcissist doesn’t work without some good times to think about
narcissistic people miss what they got from you or what they could get. They don’t miss the love
narcissist or toxic people don’t want you to do better without them. They want to see you fail
Some narcissists & toxic people get married cause it makes them look “normal” & helps them blend
narcissist give you everything that you wanted, without you having to ask them about it.
leaving a narcissist that isn’t expecting it is one of the easiest ways to cause narcissistic injury
narcissist don’t want to see you happy with anyone else. They think they are the best you'll get
There’s never a right time to discuss issues or problems with a narcissist or toxic person.
No one wants to be a narcissist or to be associated with being one
Narcissists like to play games and mess with the people around them @Coachniarenee
When a narcissist tells you what they are or what they have going on, believe me them
If a narcissist consistently apologizes but doesn’t change behavior they are manipulating you
if you discard a narcissist it could go a few different ways. Sometimes they force the discard
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once a narcissist gets you to the point where they dont think you will leave they will treat you bad
Narcissistic parents are some of the worst people on the planet and will hold their kids back
Narcissists will insult you and cover it up as a joke if you don’t react how they expect
You lose your voice in a relationship with a narcissist or toxic person
a narcissist will beg for you to come back to them just so they can be the ones to break up with you
Narcissistic people will use their friends and family to try to get you back in the relationship
How a narcissist or toxic person gets you addicted to them
A lot of narcissists and toxic people think being around you is enough to show you they care
Narcissists see you tomorrow expressing your feelings as a criticism to how they are treating you
When 2 narcissists date does anyone really win? Skit
Narcissistic people sometimes don’t pursue you. Especially if you’re reaching out to them
NPd is a disorder. I can’t change how my brain functions
Narcissists and highly manipulative people will become everything you want if you tell them
Narcissists will isolate you away from friends and family
The people closest to a narcissist or toxic person get treated the worst
sometimes a narcissist will abandon their kids or threaten to abandon their kids
Arrested development happens in a lot of narcissists and toxic people. Emotional immaturity runs
Narcissist & toxic people absolutely hate ultimatums and being told what to do
trying to get a narcissist or toxic person to therapy like fighting a losing battle against yourself
They will make you feel guilty about questioning their actions
Narcissist live to get away with things. Makes them feel powerful
trust the actions and not the words. They will tell you one thing but be doing something different
dog whistles (inside triggers) are used by narcissist and toxic people to trigger you on purpose
if you Make them do something that they don’t want to do then they will resent you for it
narcissist and toxic people will use their tears to manipulate others.
Is being with a narcissist worth it? Is the embarrassment worth it? Is the unhappiness worth it?
this could be a real life example of the narcissist or toxic person triangulating the new supply.
vulnerable people tend to be targets of narcissist and toxic people. Heal first
Sometimes narcissists or toxic people will try to make you feel guilty about leaving them
Self awareness for a narcissist could be used as a constant excuse for their behaviors
Some narcissists will find any way to get back into your life
Narcissist can really react a few different ways if you cry in front of them
When 2 narcissists hookup, does anyone really win? 😆
Trying to express how you feel to a narcissist typically ends in an argument and invalidation
Sometimes you gotta wash away all the bad things the narcissist did and live well
Sometimes narcissist will intentionally push away the people close to them but not fully let you go
How narcissistic people get you addicted. The same person that hurts you, saves you.
Narcissistic people don’t experience guilt, remorse or regret like non narcissistic people.
A lot of narcissistic/toxic parents will have their children competing for their love and affection
It’s hard to see the full scope of a toxic relationship while you’re still in it.
a lot of narcissistic people don’t think they are deserving of love and will push people away
Holding onto the potential of a narcissist will keep you in a Toxic Relationship longer
Narcissist show you who they CAN be, NOT who they really are
Narcissist are going to blame the other parent for how the kids turn out even if they abandoned them
Narcissist don’t know how to express their emotions so they typically bottle them up
Narcissistic people move on quickly for a few different reasons. They can’t be alone and need other
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narcissists & toxic people will devalue you to make you feel like you deserve what you been through
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Narcissist & toxic people will make you feel insecure & accuse you of things to keep you from going
The silent treatment is used to control & punish the other person even if the narcissist is at fault
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Walking on eggshells and feeling stifled is part of a toxic narcissistic relationship
Narcissist use the things you have told them about your friends and family as reasons to isolate you
Narcissist and toxic people may try to talk you out of doing things you want to do
Some narcissists and toxic people will verbally beat you down into submission and make you give up
Narcissistic parents hold their kids back and see them as competition. Toxic moms do this as well
narcissistic people will do things to you and then try to act like you are at fault
causing you pain and getting you to react makes narcissists feel in control of you
is it your only connection? If so, remove it & see what’s left of your relationship with narcissist
some narcissist have NO friends at all. Friendships are transactional as well & must serve a purpose
The narcissist that helps other narcissists and victims and survivors. goal was just to help others
Ask narcissist or toxic people why everyone leaves them or “abandons” then. #narcs
people closest to the narcissist / toxic person get treated the worst. You become the emotional dump
if you are such a bad person, why does the narcissist stay with you? Ask yourself that
some people don’t see the narcissist as much so it takes longer for the mask to come off
Sometimes the red flags of a narcissist are right in front of your face skit
Gaslighting can make you feel crazy over an extended period of time. Narcissist do this all the time
when a narcissist is alone their thoughts become their enemies
Narcissist and toxic people pretend to be something or someone else until they get you.
Narcissists don’t care about the truth. They want to throw you off and trigger you intentionally.
reactive abus3 can and will be used against you in the court of narcissism
most narcissists have feelings. They just don’t like to experience them or learn to repress them
Narcissists love playing the victim
In your times of need, a narcissists lack of empathy will undoubtedly show #narcs #narcissist #narc
covert narcissist typically get the benefit of the doubt because they have good reputation in public
narcissists don’t see the unborn as people and they have a hard time connecting to the unborn
most narcissists will never ever forgive you for any transgressions you commit against them
communication skills I’ve learned in therapy have helped me greatly
want a narcissist test? Say “no” to them or give them a little bit of criticism. Discretion advised
how was the narcissist treating you? If you treated someone the same way would you think you loved?
narcissistic people see you as competition, not as partners #npdawareness
people think therapy means something is wrong with them when it could actually help them be better
Narcissists and toxic people can use the holidays to try to suck you back into a relationship
Sometimes a narcissist won’t leave you alone… especially on the holidays #npd #narcissists
living with narcissistic personality disorder is tough. Being aware of it doesn’t make it easier
they typically come with an entourage of blind supporters and think they are above everyone else
Love is not enough for a narcissist. Don’t beg them to love you because they take it for granted
Narcissistic people & toxic people think they are entitled to you and your space. They think own you
What happens when asking a narcissist for space
They pop up everywhere. Sometimes you have to force them to leave you alone #npdc
just because a narcissist or toxic person has moved on, doesn’t mean they will leave you alone
highly manipulative people don’t respond to empathy….they respond to consequences
There’s never a good time to talk to a narcissist about your feelings or to resolve anything #npd
narcissist can gaslight you into believing the texts don’t even exist or to think they don’t matter
even with proof a narcissist will deny the accusations And deflect things back on the other person
You cannot change a narcissist, the only person you can change is yourself
Don’t take the narcissist’s bait. They will try to get you to focus on the Good times
Stay no contact with a narcissist if possible
A lot of narcissists will set themselves up so that they can’t be held accountable #npd #narcissists
Happy people don’t need to tell their exes how happy they are. Narcissist will try to devalue
Narcissist don’t like being alone. We have trouble with self validation so we seek it externally
narcissist and toxic people love to confess to things by blaming it on other people
Sometimes the narcissist or toxic person will hide the new supply for a few different reasons
therapy isn’t easy, which is why a lot of people shy away from it
Some narcissists will find ways to try and remain in your life. Always looking for loopholes #npd
narcissists and toxic people have a fear that the old supply or ex will reach out to the new person
To a narcissist, lying is power and control
narcissist don’t like being told what to do. They push back on authority figures in their lives
Did you go through it together or did the narcissist put you through it? #npd #narcs
I agree. The best thing is to learn to be alone and love ourselves. It’s extremely tough #npd #narcs
Remaining friends with your narcissist or toxic ex isn’t highly recommended #narcissist
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good vid on Histrionic Personality Disorder. Does Amber Heard have HPD #histronicpersonalitydisorder
narcissist want you to feel guilty about leaving them.
narcissists and toxic people can become extremely obsessive and act out of you leave them
Narcissist are going to post things on social media To try to get a reaction out of you or hurt you
narcissistic people can/will use the kids as leverage to control your schedule
when 2 narcissists get together does anyone really win or lose? #narcissists #narcissist
@ResilientAF great on point skit about how narcissistic people will lie and flip the script
you’re going to be the bad guy in a narcissist story. We like to play the victim #narcissist #narcs
narcissists will absolutely discard the kids if they can’t control them or you #npd
narcissist and toxic parents will also pick and choose which kids to discard. #npd
your empathy can be a crutch that’s used to keep you in a relationship toxic relationship
narcissists will create fake profiles to see if you have moved on to someone else
narcissist see you as competition and not as a partner #npd
if they will take themselves out of here, they will take you with them #npd
narcissist know they are doing you wrong. They don’t know WHY #narcissisticparents
the potential of a narcissist or toxic person keeps you there #narcissists
You won’t get closure from a narcissist. Closure is something you have to give yourself #narcissism
Mother’s Day is around the corner and narcissists typically don’t celebrate you or will make a scene
narcissist see their significant others and spouses as direct competition. #npd #npdawareness
Narcissist will justify their lies and behaviors by bringing up big or small lies that you have told
narcissists and toxic people will say whatever it takes to keep you. Actions over words
the parents and family members of a narcissist can be the worst of enablers
Theres a clear & evident double standard that exists in relationships with narcissist & toxic people
Stop trying to renovate narcissists and toxic people like they are old homes. You can’t change them
Stop sharing good news with your narcissistic partners or parents
Narcissist think you are ok with how they are treating you and will be resistant to any change
Narcissist will find any reason to ignore or ruin your birthday #npd #narcissists
narcissist like to play the bad guy and good guy in the same day. #npd
make people earn the BENEFIT of the doubt. Stop ignoring the red flags or narcissist & toxic people
Narcissist and toxic people will use your reactions against you. Controlling your reactions
sometimes a narcissist will tell you to leave but then switch it up on you. #npd
Sometimes a narcissist really won’t leave you alone. Sometimes you have to force them to
having kids with a narcissist is a life long commitment. If you don’t have them now consider this
Sometimes narcissists go for the new supply because they provide a clean slate #narcs #npdawarness
actions over words. Narcissist words and actions rarely ever match up
narcissist view constant forgiveness and reconciliation as weakness and they typically do it again
if you do ANYTHING during a breakup with a narcissist, they view that as cheating -
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When you give your all to a narcissist, you end up with nothing left
you don’t have to diagnose them as a narcissist to describe the behaviors
you lose your identity when you’re in a relationship with a narcissist or toxic person
narcissist won’t do what you ask them to do when you are with them but if you leave they will try to
narcissist in your life could think that you are the one for them but something flips off
narcissist do not get better as they get older. A lot get bitter and lash out #npd
sometimes narcissists want to take the Control and power back from you after you go no contact
consistent changed behavior is the only proof but all of that doesn’t matter if how you feel doesn’t
narcissist and toxic people handle grief differently. Some will disconnect completely
a lot of narcissists get married because it makes them look like good people
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narcissist will gaslight you into believing that blatant disrespect is actually complimenting you
Most narcissistic people don’t care about being right. They just don’t want you to be right
when trying to communicate with a narcissist you have to remove the feelings and emotional component
Love isnt enough for a narcissist. You will never get a positive return on your emotional investment
You don’t even trust your memory huh. Gaslighting can make you feel crazy #npd #gaslighting
narcissist will sometimes abandon the kids if you remove the access to you #narcs #npd #npdawareness
How to leave a narcissist..the safest way possible for you because everyone’s situation is different
the narcissist new supply thinks they are winning a prize #narcs #npd #narcissism
Narcissistic parents tend to treat their children like they owe them something for being born
Narcissist and toxic people will always try to find a way to play the victim & make you feel guilty
Some narcissists are jealous of their kids and will try to hold them back on purpose.
narcissist will make it seem like their lying is a good thing #npd #narcissist
narcissist and toxic people will leave behind things to have a reason to contact you @the_halfacres6089
just because a narcissist moves on it doesn’t mean that they are done with you
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Narcissists will rarely ever admit if they held someone back in life. They blame you for staying
There is rarely ever a good time to speak with a narcissist to get issues resolved
Arguments on pause with a narcissist can lead to more arguments
having kids does not make a narcissist behave better #npd
the narcissist new supply swill sometimes do the bidding of the narcissist #narcs #narcissist
