Tatiana James

Baby bro on the way 🤰🍼

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Adios 20s and hello 30s 😁👋🏼🎉🥳🎈

1 year ago | [YT] | 323

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My little lion friend 🦁

1 year ago | [YT] | 1,039

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Two of my core philosophies I live by… things I chose to call “truth” because they serve me and those around me…

Remain in a state of gratitude for who/what is in your life and more goodness will flow to you. If you aren’t grateful on a regular basis for what you have then why should you receive anymore? You don’t give a kid two scoops of ice cream if he can’t even handle the one.

Be generous with what you have received as you recognize that everything is a gift, I’m not entitled to anything no matter how much I think I’ve earned it… as you give so too shall you receive or as you have received so too shall you give.

When I remain in alignment with those principles, it’s hard to shake me. When I forget them, I lose my footing.

And the secret sauce is to have faith. Faith that everything will work out for the good, whether you’re able to recognize it or not. Be humble to realize that you don’t have an omniscient perspective to know what is the greater good. Some people think they aren’t religious but fail to realize we all worship something… some worship God, some worship money, some worship beauty, some worship their careers, some worship social media.. but everyone recognizes the consciousness that exists within all of us or else the body wouldn’t function. The answer to the question “Who am I?” Followed by “Who is asking the question?”. It’s the only thing that is unchanging and therefore the only thing that is real. Everything else is just material and will immaterialize with time. Your body is literally (on a celular level) a different body every 7 years. So to recognize the spirit within and place that of higher importance than the things of the world. That’s how you can really enjoy life… enjoying all the nice and fun things but never overvaluing them. That’s how you never “lose” anything. When you can’t lose anything you radically reduce the amount of suffering in your life.

Stefan and I are getting excited to move into our “dream home”… we love having a beautiful space, we appreciate art, we like fun toys like boats and jet skis and all the tech gadgets and we work to have the money to afford them but they key is to never delude ourselves to thinking that in those things we will find happiness. When you place your happiness and value in the hands of the material world you’ll never be satisfied, there’s an unending list of things things you’ll need to acquire, of money you’ll need to earn, of success you’ll need to accomplish… this is the hamster wheel and all it takes is to recognize it and then continue living in the world but not of it.

You gotta recognize the game you’re in… then you start playing it.

1 year ago | [YT] | 755

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Becoming financially free through building an online business was one of the greatest decisions of my life… it afforded me the luxury to live wherever I want in the world and live a lifestyle I used to dream about. I don’t say this to brag, I say this to emphasize the importance of one single decision and the value of living in the internet age… take advantage of it! Yes, you’ll have to learn new skills and be willing to adapt… but unfortunately if you don’t then you will get left behind as robots start replacing humans. So if you’re going to spend time working on an income-producing skill, do something online as it will pay dividends in your future. Photo taken in Panama, our house is going to be ready in December!

1 year ago | [YT] | 855

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I feel like God took a look at my life and realized how much he’s blessed me… then decided I needed more adversity.

So he started off with a challenging labor to humble me so that I remember who’s really in charge. He then blessed me with a beautiful boy who is also highly sensitive, I call him my barnacle baby because he’s attached to me like a barnacle is to the back of a humpback whale… having a baby that can’t be put down has taught me about priorities and I’ve had to let go of my work because it doesn’t make the top 3 on the list.

He then took a look at some of Stefan and I’s relationship videos on YouTube and laughed at how we said we never argued and just got along swell for 8 years so he sprinkled in some relationship challenges because he knew that if we could get through them we’d be way more impactful on the other end of it.

I won’t go on… but point being, I’ve been quite silent because life has not been easy and by no means is it horrible (there’s always someone who has it better or worse by comparison), it’s just been challenging for me and I think that’s just the reality for a lot of new parents despite what they want to tell you. The way through this time for me, is to look to the future and have a vision (Stef and I have talked about this a LOT in the past).

I must thank God for all these challenges because He gave them to me along with the capacity to overcome them and grow into the woman I’m capable of being. So I visualize how through it all, I’m becoming even more loving, more empathetic, more knowledgeable, more companionate, more forgiving, stronger and more resilient. So I welcome the challenge and I thank God for the opportunity. I’m sure it’s only just begun. BUT the amazing thing about motherhood is that in spite of its challenges, I wouldn’t hesitate to tell you that Lucas is the greatest blessing in my life. Sometimes I just cry while I hold him in my arms as I rock him to sleep because he’s just so precious and I’m so grateful that God entrusted me with this little being. Just look at that smile 🥲

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1 year ago | [YT] | 1,014

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My birth story is published: https://youtu.be/Nn-US199fGU 😊👶

2 years ago | [YT] | 75

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Get clear on what you want for your life, then work your booty off to get it. Clarity is power! With clarity you now have direction. You might have to try a number of different things before you create success, but you keep at it until you discover what works, then it’s just about pushing down on the accelerator.

Just purchased a cabin on the mountain, so grateful to cross this off the vision board. I can’t wait to watch Lucas have his first Skii lesson and take Kobe on beautiful hikes in nature. 🌲

2 years ago | [YT] | 1,054

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I just published a video answering some of your recent questions on pregnancy and motherhood! And you get to meet baby Lucas 🥰
https://youtu.be/_tYcnsDf34U

2 years ago | [YT] | 1,186

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Well now that I’ve got into the swing of things with the little one, I’m thinking about creating some content.

What do you guys want to see from me?

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