Terry Real - Invidious

Terry Real
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Welcome to my channel! I'm Terry Real, a relationship and couples therapist with over 30 years of experience. I created Relational Life Therapy (RLT), an integrative approach that empowers individuals and couples to build authentic, honest, and intimate connections. Here, you'll find actionable advice for improving your marriage and relationships, plus guidance for therapists and mental health professionals. Subscribe for expert tips on love, communication, and personal growth.

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4:54

#1 Parenting Mistake Couples Make

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Shared 3 days ago

578 views

8:42

How To Make Your Life Joyful and Happy Again

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Shared 1 week ago

3.9K views

8:20

How To Apologize to Someone You Love (And Actually Be Forgiven)

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Shared 2 weeks ago

2.2K views

9:39

Why Your Partner Is Pulling Away (Yes, It Might Be You)

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Shared 3 weeks ago

5.2K views

9:48

Try This Simple Exercise To Access Your Emotions in Relationships

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Shared 1 month ago

5.2K views

9:29

These Two Phrases Guarantee Your Partner Stops Listening

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Shared 1 month ago

5.1K views

39:09

Carol Gilligan on Love, Voice, and the Secrets of Patriarchy

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Shared 1 month ago

62K views

9:47

The BEST Way To Diffuse Reactivity and Recenter Yourself

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Shared 1 month ago

10K views

9:15

Stop Waiting for Your Partner To Change – Do This Instead

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Shared 1 month ago

12K views

11:14

Must-Hear Advice To Build LASTING LOVE in Your Relationship

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Shared 1 month ago

5.5K views

9:19

Why Your Sex Life Died – And What To Do About It!

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Shared 1 month ago

27K views

10:44

The Easiest Way To Repair After an Argument With Your Partner

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Shared 1 month ago

24K views

13:22

How To Know When To End Your Relationship

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Shared 1 month ago

22K views

9:02

This Will Transform The Way You See Your Partner

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Shared 3 months ago

92K views

9:17

Relationships Myths That Ruin Love (And How to Actually Be Happy)

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Shared 3 months ago

3.7K views

10:20

How To Break Generational Trauma in Your Family

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Shared 3 months ago

6.2K views

9:35

Why Your Partner Feels Attacked When You Share Your Feelings

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Shared 3 months ago

12K views

9:51

How To Set Limits With Kids That Don’t Listen

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Shared 4 months ago

3K views

8:05

The #1 Thing That Will Stop You From Repeating the Past

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Shared 4 months ago

5.5K views

9:32

Is My Marriage Worth Fighting For… or Is It Time To Leave?

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Shared 4 months ago

3.5K views

8:04

How To Communicate What You Want in a Relationship – And Get It!

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Shared 4 months ago

3.8K views

9:17

Advice Every Couple Needs To Raise Healthy Kids & Stay Together

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Shared 4 months ago

1.6K views

9:39

Why You Can’t Stand Your Partner – And What To Do About It

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Shared 5 months ago

3.1K views

10:06

The Truth About People Pleasing (and How to Stop)

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Shared 5 months ago

3.8K views

15:22

Therapist Reacts to Adolescence on Netflix

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Shared 5 months ago

2.6K views

7:21

The Real Reason Your Partner Triggers You

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Shared 5 months ago

5.7K views

9:03

How to Stop Getting in the Way of Your Own Happiness

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Shared 6 months ago

3.2K views

17:00

3 Steps to Get More of What You Want in Your Relationship

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Shared 6 months ago

2.7K views

8:19

Why 50/50 Relationships Don’t Work

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Shared 6 months ago

2.8K views

27:39

Conflict & Communication | Real Talk with Terry and Belinda

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Shared 6 months ago

3.3K views

8:17

Setting Limits With Narcissistic Family Members

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Shared 6 months ago

1.2K views

9:22

The Power of Empathy: Transform Your Relationships

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Shared 7 months ago

1.7K views

6:57

How to Recognize & Reframe Negative Self-Talk

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Shared 7 months ago

2.5K views

11:27

Needs, Wants & Ultimatums: Where to Draw the Line

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Shared 7 months ago

6.5K views

29:10

Want More From Your Relationship? Do This

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Shared 7 months ago

4.9K views

7:32

The Truth About Toxic Relationships

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Shared 8 months ago

6.8K views

12:41

The #1 Mistake Couples Make During Conflict

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Shared 8 months ago

15K views

14:37

Boundaries, Self-Esteem, and Intimacy: The Missing Link

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Shared 8 months ago

11K views

7:24

Growing Up as the Hero Child: Childhood Trauma Explained

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Shared 8 months ago

2.6K views

9:07

The Legacy of The Lost Child: Childhood Trauma Explained

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Shared 8 months ago

4.3K views

8:22

Being the Family Scapegoat: Childhood Trauma Explained

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Shared 9 months ago

5K views

9:24

Weaponized Incompetence: How to Become Equal Partners

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Shared 9 months ago

6.6K views

34:55

Dealing with Love Addiction | Real Talk with Terry and Belinda

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Shared 9 months ago

2.7K views

8:21

Breaking Free From Contempt & Emotional Abuse — Forever

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Shared 9 months ago

4.9K views

8:37

#1 Reason Couples Drift Apart (It’s Not What You Think)

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Shared 10 months ago

6.8K views

8:16

Why Every Healthy Couple Needs Healthy Conflict

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Shared 10 months ago

2.4K views

38:08

Igniting Fierce Intimacy | Real Talk with Terry and Belinda

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Shared 10 months ago

6.2K views

7:18

3 Things Every Effective Apology Must Have

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Shared 10 months ago

5K views

8:36

How to Give & Get Constructive Feedback (Without Starting a Fight)

Terry Real

Shared 11 months ago

4.6K views

8:12

Never Ignore This Relationship Red Flag

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Shared 11 months ago

5.6K views

12:49

Strengthen Your Boundaries and Self-Esteem Instantly

Terry Real

Shared 11 months ago

9.9K views

9:02

The #1 Reason Relationships Fail (It’s Not a Lack of Love)

Terry Real

Shared 11 months ago

1.8K views

12:03

How to Stop Arguing With Your Partner

Terry Real

Shared 1 year ago

10K views

9:58

How to Stop People Pleasing

Terry Real

Shared 1 year ago

1.8K views

10:18

A Therapist’s Secrets to Staying Married (and In Love)

Terry Real

Shared 1 year ago

4K views

9:09

The Real Reason You Picked Your Partner

Terry Real

Shared 1 year ago

13K views

11:12

A New Way to Love: The Skills for Lasting Connection

Terry Real

Shared 1 year ago

6.9K views

10:41

5 Science-Backed Skills To Make Love Work

Terry Real

Shared 1 year ago

1.6K views

8:25

A New Vision for Love and Connection in a Changing World

Terry Real

Shared 1 year ago

2.8K views

9:15

Want Your Partner To Change? Then Stop Doing This

Terry Real

Shared 1 year ago

7.3K views