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I help adult scapegoat survivors who were domineered, devalued and undermined by a narcissistically abusive parent go from hiding their strengths, feeling isolated and disconnected, seeing themselves as defective, assuming they do not deserve to be listened to, feeling guilty for putting themselves first and feeling undeserving of good relationships  to understanding that this abuse was not their fault, protecting themselves from narcissistic abusers today, knowing how to find and connect to safe people and living in defiance of the narcissistic abuser’s rules so that they feel safe to: pursue their own happiness, succeed, speak up, trust others to hear and support them, assert what they want and don’t want in relationships, know they deserve good relationships and make guilt-free choices based on what’s best for themselves. 

-Jack (Jay) James Reid LPCC #4195


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24:05

Five Phrases That Quietly Train Children To Hate Their Needs

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29:49

Every Narcissistic Parent’s Hidden Demand “You Owe Me”

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Shared 1 week ago

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26:01

Why It’s So Hard For Scapegoat Survivors To Believe Themselves

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Shared 2 weeks ago

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19:01

Getting Your Enthusiasm Back After Narcissistic Abuse

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Shared 3 weeks ago

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22:40

"You're Too Much" — The Lie Every Scapegoat Was Told

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Shared 3 weeks ago

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19:59

Are You a Scapegoat Survivor Who Thinks Everyone Else Is Smarter? Here’s Why

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Shared 4 weeks ago

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17:22

Why Knowing It Was Abuse Still Doesn’t Set Scapegoat Survivors Free

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Shared 1 month ago

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14:32

The One Question That Breaks the Scapegoat Spell

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Shared 1 month ago

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17:52

Why Scapegoat Survivors Can’t Say No to Kind People

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Shared 1 month ago

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25:15

What Actually Breaks the Scapegoat Spell

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15:21

Why Praise Never Sticks but Criticism Cuts to the Bone for Scapegoat Survivors

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15:36

Why You Always Feel It’s Your Fault (And What’s Really Going On)

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Shared 2 months ago

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12:13

Why the Scapegoat Child Could Never Win

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Shared 2 months ago

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16:22

The Trap That Made Scapegoats Try Harder yet Lose More

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Shared 2 months ago

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19:59

The Real Reasons You Became the Family Scapegoat

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Shared 2 months ago

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19:12

6 Signs You Grew Up as the Scapegoat Child

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Shared 2 months ago

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27:25

How Scapegoat Survivors Can Surrender the Wish to Be Someone Else

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Shared 2 months ago

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27:01

The Secret Triggers for Scapegoat Survivors- And How to Manage Them

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Shared 2 months ago

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23:07

Leaving the Theatre of a Narcissistic Parent’s Reality

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Shared 4 months ago

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24:01

Holiday Stress Guide for Scapegoat Survivors

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Shared 4 months ago

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26:23

Why Vulnerability Feels Dangerous for Scapegoat Survivors

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Shared 5 months ago

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27:03

Figuring out who’s a safe person for scapegoat survivors

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Shared 5 months ago

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24:58

Why Scapegoat Survivors Must Blind Themselves to Others' Shortcomings

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Shared 5 months ago

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23:27

Becoming the author of your own life after narcissistic abuse

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Shared 6 months ago

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18:58

Why scapegoat survivors fear a tsunami is always coming

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Shared 6 months ago

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19:58

The Hardest Thoughts to Think for a Scapegoat Survivor

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Shared 6 months ago

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21:41

Why Living Well Beats Getting Even for Scapegoat Survivors

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Shared 6 months ago

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16:23

Stop Arguing With the Narcissist in Your Head—Try This

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Shared 7 months ago

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25:44

What Helps Scapegoat Survivors Stop Doing It All Alone

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Shared 7 months ago

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22:55

How Scapegoat Survivors Learn that Closeness Doesn’t Mean Changing

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Shared 7 months ago

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21:38

The Trojan Horse of Humor in Narcissistic Abuse

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Shared 7 months ago

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31:19

When the Scapegoat Child Quits their Favorite Sport or Activity

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Shared 8 months ago

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21:19

How Scapegoat Survivors Can Break the Trance of Tragedy

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Shared 8 months ago

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20:40

Learning the Stove Is No Longer Hot for Scapegoat Survivors of Narcissistic Abuse

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Shared 9 months ago

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24:16

How Scapegoat Survivors Can Stop Solving Old Problems

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Shared 9 months ago

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29:02

Unmuting Your Body’s Energy after Narcissistic Abuse

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Shared 10 months ago

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25:13

How Scapegoats Unmute by Breaking the Narcissist’s Rules

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Shared 10 months ago

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27:02

Recovering Your Voice After Narcissistic Abuse: The Role of Safe People

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Shared 11 months ago

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32:29

How Narcissistic Abuse Makes It Hard to Recognize Safe People

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Shared 11 months ago

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23:50

Why Scapegoat Survivors Struggle to Speak Up

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Shared 11 months ago

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27:44

Why Scapegoat Survivors Feel Unsafe Showing Anger

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Shared 11 months ago

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26:50

How Scapegoat Survivors Can Unmute Their Right to Unconditional Support

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Shared 1 year ago

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25:25

How Scapegoat Survivors Can Unmute Their Need for Help

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31:56

How Scapegoat Survivors Can Unmute Their Right to Independence

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25:15

Step 1 to Unmute: Focus on Yourself by Making Sense of What Happened

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Shared 1 year ago

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25:05

How Scapegoat Survivors Mute Themselves By Getting Confused - And How to Stop!

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Shared 1 year ago

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28:46

Unmuting for Scapegoat Survivors of Narcissistic Parents: Become the Author of Your Life

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Shared 1 year ago

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37:19

Unmute: Reclaim Your Voice After Growing Up as the Scapegoat to a Narcissistic Parent

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Shared 1 year ago

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17:01

What if Scapegoat Survivors of Narcissistic Parents Can’t Find Safe People Today?

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Shared 1 year ago

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19:03

Overcoming Scapegoat Survivors’ Fear of Not Loving Enough

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Shared 1 year ago

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16:43

Making Self-Direction Less Scary for Scapegoat Survivors

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Shared 1 year ago

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17:30

Breaking the Stressed-Out Habit of Mind for Scapegoat Survivor

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Shared 1 year ago

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20:50

Why Scapegoat Survivors Relocate Their Good Qualities into Others

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Shared 1 year ago

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Safe Relationships for Scapegoat Survivors

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Shared 1 year ago

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14:52

When scapegoat survivors' diagnosis of their problem reflects the problem

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Shared 1 year ago

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16:25

Life After Narcissistic Abuse for Scapegoat Survivors: Freedom to be Disappointed

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Shared 1 year ago

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14:33

How Therapy Helps Scapegoat Survivors Think What Used To Be Unthinkable

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Shared 1 year ago

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17:27

Overcoming Betrayal of the Scapegoat Survivor’s Real Self

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Shared 1 year ago

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15:25

How Survivors of Narcissistic Abuse Learn To Breathe New Air

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Shared 1 year ago

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17:06

When the Scapegoat Child Sees No Gleam in Their Parent’s Eye

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Shared 1 year ago

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