Shahrzad Jalali PsyD

Some traits people praise may have started as coping mechanisms.

#mentalhealth #psychology #shorts

Skip the Carousel

1 2 3 4 5 6 7

10 hours ago | [YT] | 0

Shahrzad Jalali PsyD

Some habits that look like discipline may actually be stress responses in disguise.

#mentalhealth #psychology #shorts

2 days ago (edited) | [YT] | 0

Shahrzad Jalali PsyD

We often think the answer to being stuck is more pressure. But pressure is usually what triggers our "safety alarm" in the first place.

Instead of pushing harder, try asking: "What does this part of me think will happen if I actually move forward?"

The work isn't to override your fear—it's to give yourself permission to exist outside of it. You are allowed to be seen. You are allowed to say no. You are allowed to change.

What is one thing you’re giving yourself permission to do (or not do) this weekend?

#Psychology #SelfPermission #MentalHealth #MindsetShift #DrShahrzadJalalii #Healing

5 days ago | [YT] | 1

Shahrzad Jalali PsyD

Skip the Carousel

1 2 3 4 5

1 week ago | [YT] | 1

Shahrzad Jalali PsyD

“I’ll do it later” is rarely a time-management problem. It’s a safety problem.

When you delay that email, that boundary, or that big step, you aren't being lazy. You are in a 2-second negotiation with your past self. You are choosing the "safety" of staying stuck over the "risk" of growing.

Your "later" usually means one of three things:

I’m afraid of failing.

I’m afraid of being seen.

I’m afraid of the person I’ll have to become if I succeed.

Your life is shaped in the moment you decide to stop negotiating and start acting.

The question is: What is your "later" actually protecting you from?

👇 Let’s talk in the comments.

#Psychology #Procrastination #MentalHealth #PersonalGrowth #DrShahrzadJalali #Mindset

1 week ago | [YT] | 0

Shahrzad Jalali PsyD

If you have to overthink it…
it’s already unclear.

Real connection doesn’t confuse you.
It feels steady. It feels clear.

So ask yourself:
Are you choosing peace…
or staying in confusion?

#relationshippsychology #situationship #datingadvice #emotionalhealth #selfawareness #attachmentstyle #healingjourney #mindfuldating

1 week ago | [YT] | 0

Shahrzad Jalali PsyD

Not every strong feeling is love…

Sometimes it’s inconsistency.

Mixed signals keep you stuck—
you wait, you hope, you overthink.

But real connection isn’t confusing.
It’s clear.

So ask yourself:
Are you feeling connection…
or reacting to inconsistency?

#relationshippsychology #situationship #datingadvice #emotionalhealth #selfawareness #attachmentstyle #healingjourney #mindfuldating

Skip the Carousel

1 2 3 4 5

2 weeks ago | [YT] | 0

Shahrzad Jalali PsyD

Why do mixed signals feel so hard to walk away from?

Because your brain thinks:
“Let me figure this out…”

But that’s exactly what keeps you stuck.

Almost right…
can feel more powerful than clear.

#relationshippsychology #situationships #emotionalhealth #datingadvice #psychologyfacts #selfawareness #healingjourney

2 weeks ago | [YT] | 1

Shahrzad Jalali PsyD

How many times have you watched one reel, related instantly, and wondered if it explained everything?

As a psychologist, I see how powerful social media can be in giving people language for what they feel. Sometimes, that language is validating—it helps you feel seen, understood, and less alone.

But there’s a line we don’t talk about enough.

Not every relatable video is accurate, complete, or meant to be used as a diagnosis. Some content creates self-awareness. Other times, it creates over-identification—where you start to see yourself only through that label, without fully understanding your own context.

And that’s where it can become limiting.

When we label ourselves too quickly, we often stop getting curious. We stop asking deeper questions like:
Where did this come from?
When does it show up?
What else could be influencing this?

A reel can reflect a piece of your experience—but it cannot hold your full story. It doesn’t know your history, your environment, your patterns, or the nuances of what you’ve been through.

Awareness should open you up, not box you in.

So yes—learn, reflect, stay open.
But don’t confuse recognition with diagnosis, or information with healing.

If this shifted your perspective, comment “AWARENESS” and I’ll share something to help you go deeper.

Watch the full video on YouTube for a deeper breakdown—link in bio.

Be honest—have reels helped you understand yourself, or made you label yourself too fast?

#MentalHealth #SelfAwareness #Psychology #HealingJourney #TherapyLanguage #EmotionalWellness #SelfDiagnosis #InnerWork

2 weeks ago | [YT] | 1

Shahrzad Jalali PsyD

You watch reels, learn the words, and become more self-aware… but self-awareness is only the first step. Healing happens when you stop just identifying the pattern and start practicing something different.

Knowing your triggers is helpful. But real change comes when you regulate your body, pause your usual reaction, and choose a new response.

What do you think is harder: awareness or actual healing?

#SelfAwareness #HealingJourney #MentalHealth #TraumaHealing #Psychology #EmotionalRegulation #NervousSystem #TherapyTok

Skip the Carousel

1 2 3 4 5 6 7

3 weeks ago | [YT] | 1