Be the one who wakes up every day, Don't let the living corpses, Earth zombies of life get you down.
The thing is people who want to be mean and distract from their own wrong doing in order to not be held accountable will never change. Those who do not want to be held accountable will hire people to change the subject from what they did so that their crimes don't seem quite so rotten and yet they are fully guilty.
When you experience people in the deepest ways you will never be the same, Some of them want to live and let live while others refuse not to be the enemy no matter how hard you try to make them happy and be at peace. Remember just because you leave or press charges doesn't mean you did not love them or that you were any less... The simple fact is should the situation reach that level they did not love you so evict that story, You are loyal to the lie they pretended to be until they chose to drop that mask and break out their claws. No judgement zone even if you stay.