Mirror Dearest
I’m a 40+ psych student, trauma survivor, and empath who traversed the dark side and returned with a few good stories. This blog mostly focuses on content and insights to help women (and some men) with the challenges of aging, trauma, and healing.
I am not a guru, but rather, a curious spirit determined to heal - and help others by sharing my journey. My greatest strengths are self-awareness and a motivation to understand those who have harmed me, so that forgiveness comes naturally.
I embrace the path of Heyoka - a term I recently learned, love, and relate to.
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Mirror Dearest
You are sicker than the toxic lover or friend you believe you're going to change.
Some people are at peace with their demons or even enjoy them. That's their prerogative so long as they don't harm unwilling participants with their chaos.
The moment they show you who they are, and you choose to stay - you become a willing participant. An incidental masochist and victim to *your own* arrogance, fear of scarcity, and desire to control others.
Let go of people who are not right for you. Don't expose yourself and those around you to avoidable traumas simply because you're afraid to lose the catch that isn't meant for you. Unless it's your child, literally nobody wants to be molded by you - no matter how great you believe you are at it.
Break up and take up pottery. And stop calling people narcissists just because they didn't want to live life to your design.
You’re the ‘narcissist.’
#fyp #narcissist #love #relationships #wisdom
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