Look, I've read the attachment books. I've also lost my temper and then spent 20 minutes spiraling about whether I just ruined my kid forever.
You don't need another expert telling you what you're doing wrong.
On this channel, I talk about what actually works when you're exhausted. The tiny repair moments. The weird things your toddler does that are actually signs of attachment (not manipulation). And the stuff I mess up because I do, constantly.
The goal isn't to be a "secure base" perfectly. It's to be one enough.
I'm your secure base. Pull up a chair. The coffee's cold and the kids are probably fighting.