Bronda Bessant
LOVE, LIFE, and LIGHT through TRAUMA
Understanding, Discovering, and Acknowledging My Trauma has helped me take accountability for unlearning negative trauma responses by replacing maladaptive coping mechanisms with adaptive coping skills while addressing and attending to my I.T.T.
As a result, I now fostering practicing and implementing viable healthy relationships with others. Life gets better with the understanding that LOVE, LIFE, and LIGHT Through TRAUMA is POSSIBLE.
I am a LIVING Testimony. I share the journey of my personal experience of overcoming trauma, neglect, and abuse by taking accountability and responsibility of my healing. Removing the guilt, shame, and stigma from my pain. You can do the same.
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Bronda Bessant
"The PERSONAL Foundational FORTRESS of ‘MY’ A'INTS and CAN'T'S is--" (Bessant)
"Where the LENSES of ONE'S SELF IMAGE BEGINS or ENDS in the EYE and SOUL of the Beholder" (Bessant)
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Bronda Bessant
"Life Life's IT!!! God's GRACE is a HEALING COMFORTER, Keeper, Sustainer, Provider, Everything, and Anything One Needs"(Bessant)
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#pray #getupeveryday #pressyourwaythrough #believeingod #trustgod #believeinyourself #trustyourself #believeinyourself #yourstrongerthanyouthink #embraceyourprocess #trustyourprocess #trusttheprocess #embraceyourjourney #yougotthis #keepyourfaith #nevergiveup #fightthegoodfightoffaith
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Bronda Bessant
L❤️VE 'YOURSELF'
#loved #theresonlyoneYOUforaReason #youmatter
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Bronda Bessant
Just a SINNER EVOLVING and SAVED by God's GRACE
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Bronda Bessant
"Please 'I'M' HUMAN" (Bessant)
Hello Beloved,
" Please ‘I'M’ HUMAN" (Bessant)
“I am sending prayers of love, peace, comfort, solace, and healing too and for everyone as we approach Mother's Day. I compassionately and empathically know that holidays and times that are meant to be celebratory are tailored to the heart of the beholder.
On November 12, 2005, I gave birth to an 11 oz baby girl. Her name is Amirah Essence Armstrong. Her birth and death certificates have the same date. A month later, I was pregnant with my third living child, who is a rainbow baby.
I don't UNDERSTAND God's thoughts or ways!!!!! But on November 12, 2005, I started living TRUSTING HIS WILL HIS WAY, over that of MY own. MY life has been BETTER EVERY SINCE that traumatizing time.
I have been sitting, reflecting, taking inventory of who I am and what makes ‘ME’, ‘ME’. Lord knows, ‘I’ have endured and experienced complex trauma, making me traumatized. Thereby unintentionally and unknowingly traumatizing others. Traumatizing others in a sense of not understanding the trauma of my pain. Other times, I was fighting, fleeing, and freezing, in order to find a sense of safety, feeling secure.
I was robbed of my identity before I knew how to spell or say my name, let alone who I was. So, one thing for certain and for sure, please don't mess with me. I am NOT here for it. I used to fight ALL the TIME. I saw every perceived threat as a battle and a fight.
I know now and understand that it is ME against the world. No longer FEARING the world is against ME. I don't have friends, per say. What I mean is that God, Jesus, and the Holy Spirit are ALWAYS ever present with ME. They supply ME with loving ANGELS true friends in MY times, which is discerning distress.
Mother's Day is Sunday, May 12, 2024. I have been praying for all of us near and far. I understand that this is NOT a time of celebration for EVERYONE, for various reasons. I am one who is deeply saddened and troubled😪😔 in MY role as a mother.
Honestly, with my trauma, I had NO business having children. I had NO idea I was deeply emotionally scared. I projected MY broken anger, rage, and dysfunctions onto my undeserving, beautiful children. I was a mother who cussed MY babies,youth, and adolescence out.
Thankfully, in God's loving, merciful saving grace, I am and have ALWAYS been present in Him being present, showing up for my babies, ladies always. However, this does not exempt me from the pain of their hurt and trauma experienced at my hands, in my presence.
But, one thing I will NEVER tolerate and have NEVER tolerated is disrespect from them. At this point, stage, and phase of MY life, I NO LONGER tolerate being around or in the presence of anyone or anything that disrespectfully compromises MY love of SELF, value, worth, joy, or peace.
Thereby compromising or blocking MY blessings. When people leave. Bye with a wave. No longer feeling abandoned or rejected. I LOVE being ALONE with MYSELF in MY Christ Jesus's LOVING presence. I am not a role, title, or position. Please ‘I'M HUMAN.
Lord, ‘I’ ask for forgiveness of MY sind, shortcomings, and indiscretions of commission and omission. I ask that YOU would create ME a clean heart and a renewed spirit. Lord, I need a fresh anointing this second at this minute, Jesus.
Heal, deliver, and free MY family, friends, enemies, foes, and Your people globally who are in NEED of Your loving presence, letting them know they are NEVER alone or forsaken. Lord, I thank You for total love, healing, deliverance, and recovery for ALL Your Will Your way, in Jesus' name I pray, amen.
The moral of this message is that God PERSONALLY knows the PAIN of YOUR HUMAN HEART. TRUST HIM with ALL of YOURSELF. YOUR HEART and ALL.” (Bessant)
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