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Holly Pilarski Counseling
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I am a mental health therapist sharing information about all things mental health. I hold certifications in PTSD and Intimate Partner Violence so those areas I share more often but I have worked in most areas of mental health since 2007. Welcome to my page!

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30 Guided Conversations to Rebuild Connectedness in Your Marriage-Sexual Intimacy, Trust, Boundaries

Holly Pilarski Counseling

Shared 5 months ago

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When Your Partner Is Charming in Public but Abusive at Home | Covert Abuse Explained

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Shared 5 months ago

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Red flags for the stay at home parent!

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Shared 5 months ago

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30 Guided Conversations for Couples! Topics on Communication, Conflict and Defensiveness (15,16,17)

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Shared 5 months ago

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Meditation Reading-Loving Yourself through Another's Eyes

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Shared 5 months ago

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14:35

30 Guided Conversations to a Healthy Relationship! (12,13,14)

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Shared 6 months ago

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11:08

Healthy self esteem versus unhealthy self esteem

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Shared 6 months ago

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14:33

30 Conversations to Building a Healthier Relationship!!

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Shared 6 months ago

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30 Guided Conversations to Build a Healthier Relationship!!

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Shared 6 months ago

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4:43

Building a Healthier Relationship-Empathy

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Shared 6 months ago

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5:10

Building Healthy Relationships-Acceptance

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Shared 6 months ago

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6:50

Weaponizing the Court System

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Shared 6 months ago

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4:52

30 Conversations to Build a Healthy Relationship-Caring and Affection

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Shared 6 months ago

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4:53

Building a Healthier Relationship-Friendship

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Shared 6 months ago

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5:43

Marriage Building Conversions-Falling in Love

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Shared 6 months ago

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9:00

Healthy VERSUS Unhealthy Parenting

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Shared 6 months ago

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8:04

5 NOVEL (And a bit WEIRD) IDEAS to lean in to MANAGE seasonal depression

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Shared 6 months ago

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11:11

10 Different Forms of Reactive Abuse AND Why Abusers Love it?

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Shared 6 months ago

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1:53

What Should Be Deal Breaker Behavior?

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Shared 7 months ago

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9:59

***Disclaimer!!! Marital Rape and the Bible

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Shared 7 months ago

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February 3, 2025

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Shared 1 year ago

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4:51

Is AGGRESSIVE driving Abusive? Let’s talk!

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Shared 1 year ago

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4:47

What are you entitled to in a DIVORCE?

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Shared 1 year ago

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What if you are the one who broke the trust in the relationship?

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Shared 1 year ago

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10:36

"They Say They Love Me, But..."

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Shared 1 year ago

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10:17

Does Your Partner Bring Up the Past Over and Over Why?

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Shared 1 year ago

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9:45

Helping Partners Heal from Trauma

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Shared 1 year ago

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11:35

Boundaries-We Train People How to Treat Us

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Shared 1 year ago

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2:52

Warning if you are a remote worker or isolated!

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Shared 2 years ago

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How did I become a DV counselor?

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Shared 2 years ago

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What did you try to do to please a narcissist?

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Shared 2 years ago

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1:57

How do you survive the lows of a trauma bonded relationship?

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Shared 2 years ago

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How does “survival mode” affect your relationship?

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Shared 2 years ago

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According to the narcissist…the past is in the past…

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Shared 2 years ago

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3:36

A narcissist will say this during the devalue/discard stage

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Shared 2 years ago

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2:56

Tactics someone uses to isolate you from your family

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Shared 2 years ago

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Narcissistic Rage

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Shared 2 years ago

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Love Bombing

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Shared 2 years ago

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My new workbook and journal have arrived!

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Shared 2 years ago

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Fear of rejection and abandonment…and it’s costing you.

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Shared 2 years ago

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PTSD vs Abuse

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Shared 2 years ago

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BEWARE of telling someone you’re just meeting information.

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Shared 2 years ago

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2:56

“Only you can let someone make you feel bad”???

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Shared 2 years ago

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2:03

How Much Did I Make on TikTok my FIRST month in the Creator Beta Program?

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Shared 2 years ago

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3:44

Narcissists and your birthday and the holidays

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Shared 2 years ago

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Beware if your abuser thinks you need psychiatric medications

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Shared 2 years ago

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5:34

The neglectful narcissist

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Shared 2 years ago

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How do you feel when your narcissistic partner isn’t home may be a tell tale sign…

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Shared 2 years ago

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How are you advocating for your children you had BEFORE you met your narcissist?

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Shared 2 years ago

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Why did the narcissist pick you?

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Shared 2 years ago

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Narcissists Show Their Double Standards when it Comes to Money

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Shared 2 years ago

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1:44

Friends and family can try to influence you when you’re dating and not always in a good way!

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Shared 2 years ago

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A tell tale sign your partner is a narcissist?

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Shared 2 years ago

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3:44

Get Ready with Me!

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Shared 2 years ago

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Have you been in a traumatizing abusive relationship?

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Shared 2 years ago

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2:56

Task: Begin Accepting compliments

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Shared 2 years ago

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When is Couples Therapy NOT Advised

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Shared 2 years ago

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Do you feel like a burden? Let’s explore that…

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Shared 2 years ago

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4:57

Spiritual Abuse by twisting words in the Bible

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Shared 2 years ago

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Toxic Relationships are NOT just Intimate Relationships!

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Shared 2 years ago

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