Helping you make sense of your life when the rules you’ve always followed suddenly betray you. Honest, dark-humored commentary on midlife, reinvention, mental health, and money.
This channel is about saying the quiet parts out loud.
Career detours, burnout, aging, mental health, money, starting over — it’s all here. You’ll get honesty with humor, side-eye, and a few stories that make you mutter, "oh my God, same!".
I’ve spent 50+ years surviving things I never signed up for — a traumatic childhood, mental health struggles, and a shiny, toxic corporate career that nearly broke me. Thirty years in tech taught me how power, performance, and reinvention actually work. Real life taught me what it costs to stop performing.
Now I talk about that cost — and what becomes possible when you finally tell the truth instead.
For questions about collaborations, 1:1's, workshops, or business inquiries: Sheila@SheilaHammond.com
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Members: YOU MUST REGISTER WITH ME TO ATTEND tomorrows ZOOM livestream!
📅 Wednesday, April 8
⏰ 5:30 PM MT / 4:30 PM PT / 6:30 PM CT / 7:30 PM ET
If you want in, email me at sheila@sheilahammond.com with your YouTube username so I can confirm you’re a member and send you the Zoom link.
Even if you’re not sure you can make it, sign up anyway so you have it! Again, this is only for members so please don't share with your friends.
See you soon!
🖤 Sheila and Posey
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This post is sponsored by A Place for Mom.
Last week my 76 year old step-mom passed out on a ski slope.
She’s okay. Tests were clear. No big diagnosis. But it was enough to make me realize something uncomfortable: I didn’t have a plan. I had optimism. Those are not the same thing.
And that part stuck. Because when something does happen, you're not calm. You're not strategic. You're scared and emotional. You're reactive. You're trying to make smart decisions without all the information. I don't want to learn that lesson in the middle of a crisis.
So instead of waiting for an emergency, I started looking into senior care options and that’s how I found A Place for Mom. I’d seen the commercials, but I didn’t realize it’s a free service that connects families with Senior Living Advisors who help you understand senior living options based on needs, location, and budget.
If you want to look into it before you’re in crisis mode, you can learn more at aplaceformom.com. There's a different kind of peace of mind that comes from being prepared.
Here’s my link if you want to take a look and bookmark it for later: upf.ai/tes9engc
We’re not making any big moves. I hope we’re years away from that conversation. But pretending we’ll just “figure it out later” isn’t a strategy.
If you’ve had that moment where aging stopped being abstract and started feeling logistical, you’re not overreacting. You’re paying attention.
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🟡 THE CHECK-IN — Episode 10: It’s Been a Minute
It’s been a minute since we’ve done a public livestream, so come sit with your internet auntie for a bit.
Let’s talk about what’s been going on — all of it.
Come with your questions and get ready to hopefully laugh until you pee.
🕕 Thursday, April 2 at 6:00 PM MST
(5:00 PM PST / 7:00 PM CST / 8:00 PM EST / 1:00 AM GMT)
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Well… THAT was a plot twist.
My YouTube channel was hijacked, taken down, and disappeared for two weeks.
And now it’s back.
I have a lot to say about what happened, but right now I’m mostly just relieved and a little stunned.
What got me through this was you.
The messages. The check-ins. The people noticing something was off and taking the time to reach out.
That mattered. A lot.
I’ll talk about the rest soon. Trust me… there’s a story here.
For now, I’m just really glad to be back.
— Sheila
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We were taught to be easy to love.
Low maintenance. Understanding. Grateful.
We learned to edit ourselves before anyone else had to.
Now we confuse peace with staying quiet.
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Quick update on the ketamine treatment process I shared about recently.
I was trying to get access to Spravato, the FDA-approved form of ketamine for treatment-resistant depression. If you meet a very narrow set of criteria, some insurance plans will cover it. Traditional ketamine infusions usually aren’t covered, and right now I genuinely don’t know if that option would be financially possible for me.
I was denied Spravato coverage by my insurance, and I’m appealing the decision now.
So the next steps are a bit uncertain while the appeal process plays out.
I’m sharing this not for advice or workarounds, but because this is part of the real experience too. Access, coverage, and cost are often the hardest part of treatment, not the treatment itself.
I’ll update when I know more.
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I keep seeing the same comment: “I’ll be working forever, so what’s the point of saving for retirement?”
I didn’t plan to make a video about that, but here we are.
I’ve got thoughts and a conversation coming this week.
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