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Dan and Can

Dan and Can is a space for people living in the middle — spiritually, relationally, culturally, and politically.

We’re a married couple (together over 30 years), parents of five, middle-aged, middle-class, living in middle America… navigating life after leaving Christianity without swinging to atheism. We didn’t lose our spirituality — we shed control, certainty, and shame and found something quieter, deeper, and more honest.

This channel brings together our podcasts, candid conversations, and more on marriage, parenting, nervous system healing, and spiritual awakening — all with nuance, compassion, and a good sense of humor.

Candace is a certified hypnotherapist and deconstruction coach, holding space as people heal themselves and reconnect with their inner wisdom.

This channel exists because deconstruction and awakening can feel lonely. We’re in the trenches with you — so you don’t have to walk the middle alone.

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Dan & Can Podcast 170: When Power Meets Prophecy: Trump, Ego, and the End Times Mindset

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Candid Conversations 158: The Cult Checklist: How Evangelical Christianity Matched Every Sign

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Dan & Can Podcast 169: Our Marriage Got Better After We Left Christianity (Here’s Why)

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3 Things to Help You Heal After Leaving Christianity

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Candid Conversations 157: Deconstruction Gave Us Our Curiosity Back (And Changed Everything)

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Dan & Can Podcast 168: What Happens When You Suppress Human Nature?

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Candid Conversations 156: Are We Humanists Now? (We Took the Test…)

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Dan & Can Podcast 167: The Manosphere Is a Lie (Louis Theroux Exposes the Truth)

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known by love #faithdeconstruction #exvangelical #deconstruction #religioustrauma #exchristian

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Dan & Can Podcast 166: Masculine Energy Is Out of Control…Here’s What Happens Next

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Candid Conversations 155: What We Took With Us After Leaving Evangelical Christianity

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Candid Conversations 154: If Hell Is Real… Why Did My Life Get Better After Leaving Christianity?

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Dan & Can Podcast 165: TikTok Theology, Purity Culture & Projection: Laughing Through Church Culture

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Candid Conversations 153: From Pick-Me to Sisterhood: What Deconstruction Taught Me About Women

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Dan & Can Podcast 164: Reacting to Christian TikTok

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Candid Conversations 152: Would You Date an “Illegal Immigrant” or a Liberal?

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Dan & Can Podcast 163: Christian TikTok Reactions: Deconstruction, Purity Culture,

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Candid Conversations 151: TikTok Reactions on Leadership & Accountability

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Dan & Can Podcast162: Does Power Corrupt Or Reveal? Epstein, Politics, & the Dark Side of Influence

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February 28 Why I’m Ending This Devotional Series | Devotions for Deconstructing

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Candid Conversations 150: Mark Driscoll Says Stimulus Checks Are Ungodly

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February 27 Beauty, Truth & Being Enough | Devotions for Deconstructing

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February 26 Slow Down, Stop Worrying & Trust the Process | Devotions for Deconstructing

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Dan & Can Podcast 161: From Outrage to Understanding: Diversity, DEI, and Transforming the Mind

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February 25 Finding Your True Self, Gratitude Without Pressure | Devotions for Deconstructing

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February 24 Slow Down When Life Feels Urgent | Devotions for Deconstructing

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February 23 Holding Nothing Back, Self-Pity, and True Service | Devotions for Deconstructing

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February 22 Paradox, Perseverance, and Inner Clarity | Devotions for Deconstructing

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February 21 Truth, Trust, and Love Beyond Fear | Devotions for Deconstructing

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February 20 True Self, Inner Peace, and Moving Beyond Daydreaming | Devotions for Deconstructing

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Episode 76 Finding Balance Again in a Chaotic World (Nervous System & Emotional Reset) | CC Podcast

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February 19 Facing Yourself and Finding Growth in Ordinary Life | Devotions for Deconstructing

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Dan & Can Podcast 162: Does Power Corrupt — Or Reveal? Epstein, Politics, Dark Side of Influence

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Dan & Can Podcast 160: Why the Gospel Story Starts to Fall Apart When You Look Closer

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February 18 Judgment, Wholeness, and Letting Yourself Change | Devotions for Deconstructing

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Candid Conversations 149:Christian Nationalism vs. the Teachings of Jesus: James Talarico on Colbert

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February 17 Change, Depression, and Choosing Life | Devotions for Deconstructing

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February 16 Perspective, Suffering, and Inner Strength | Devotions for Deconstructing

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February 15 Courage, Authenticity, and Letting Go of Control | Devotions for Deconstructing

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February 14 Love at First Sight Reimagined | Devotions for Deconstructing

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Candid Conversations 148: Freedom of Speech Includes the Speech You Don’t Like

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Episode 75 Why Speaking Your Truth Repairs Relationships | Candid Coaching Podcast Video

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February 13 What Is Not Expressed Is Depressed | Devotions for Deconstructing

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February 12 Steeping Life with Curiosity, Not Shame | Devotions for Deconstructing

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Dan & Can Podcast 159:Valentine’s Day Without Shame: Sex, Connection & Deconstructing Purity Culture

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February 11 Simplicity, Peace, and Ownership | Devotions for Deconstructing

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February 10 Authenticity, Rest, and the Battle for Your Mind | Devotions for Deconstructing

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February 9 Suffering, Barriers & Exhaustion | Devotions for Deconstructing

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February 8 What Are You Chasing? | Devotions for Deconstructing

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February 7 When You’re Carrying What Was Never Yours | Devotions for Deconstructing

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Candid Conversations 147: Fear, Mice, and the Nervous System: Staying Grounded in Uncertain Times

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February 6 Off the Beaten Path, Surrender, & Losing Yourself | Devotions for Deconstructing

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Episode 74 Your Nervous System Writes the Story You Believe | Candid Coaching Podcast Video

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Dan & Can Podcast 158: When Faith Prevents Self-Awareness

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February 5 Feeling Pain Without Losing Yourself | Devotions for Deconstructing

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February 4 Breaking the Cycle, Facing the Truth | Devotions for Deconstructing

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February 3 Yearning to Be Seen & the Fear of Being Known | Devotions for Deconstructing

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