Marlene Uncensored

Marriage & engagement & men

I think many don’t realize that for many men-MARRIAGE IS BORING AF!

It’s not different than a diet! Everyday, you got to eat the same food-MONOGAMY!

How many women can make that food that’s so predictable be exciting every single day? Not that many!!

So when that man gets BORED-what will he do?

I argue he will revert to his CULTURE!

Marriage is not that exciting!
It’s not a Tom Cruise Mission Impossible Movie 🎥
It’s freaking MARRIAGE.
It can’t get monotonous.

So when he’s bored, he still needs to have the discipline to commit.

That discipline will not exist nor be sustained by the “love” he has for you but the CULTURE he has.

Why do some people go to the gym faithfully and some don’t? The answer is CULTURE!

Fit people have a culture of COMMITMENT. They probably hate that ish as much as a fat person but they can commit no matter the weather, their feelings, their busy schedules!

Same applies to men in marriage.
Faithful men see temptation EVERY DAY!

Just because he married you-don’t mean you’re the prettiest or the most sexy thing. Nope! You the one he chose.

So when a faithful man sees temptation and walks away, it’s not because he loves you but because he loves himself. He’s a man of commitment.


No woman can force commitment out of man.
Don’t ever lie to yourself like that.
He’s faithful because he’s a man of HONOR.

You’re not responsible as his wife for making him honorable. When you met him he already went through his formative years.

We need to seriously be serious before 2026.

This is why women lose it when they get cheated on and their egos are so bruised because they think they’re so special of course he should be only faithful to me! Yeah right!


Pretty girls get cheated on every single damn day of the year.

Don’t be delulu

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I keep getting DMs about a young black influencer getting proposed to!

Yall need to GROW UP and stop chasing “romance” or “fairy tales” because you have this deep need for validation through a man’s love or affirmation.

You’re a bit weird and off Kilter!

If a young man doesn’t have a culture of marriage, be prepared for what comes with your choice.

You love to pick who have a culture of infidelity and then think that since he loves you-he will be faithful to you!

You need meds of lucidity!

You think most men who cheat on their wives don’t love them?

Most do-they just lack the culture of sexual discipline.

People hurt people they love every single day!

You’re not that special.
His love for you will never overwrite the code of his culture.

He grew up around men who cheat…under pressure he will too!

You need to understand that and accept-then accept his proposal!

Amen!

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Cynthia Bailey divorced him because he cheated.
Only to end up with Peter who not only cheated but stole her money. Peter is currently in prison.
Then she married Mike hill who only stayed married to her for 12 months then asked for a divorce!

Unbelievable!

I’m coming outside tomorrow.

1️⃣ Cynthia left Jayson to get abused in so many ways by Peter Thomas!

2️⃣ Latoya left Slim because he cheated only to get cheated on multiple times as a wife by her midget TOMICUS!

3️⃣ Tyra left Chris Weber because he cheated!

4️⃣ Ashanti left Nelly cause he cheated!

I’m sure other names will come to my mind before tomorrow’s live!

I repeat: every man can’t give you strict monogamy! You need to understand that before you fall in love with him. In the future, with time, patience, counseling and a lot of talking, he might be able to!

But dayuummmmm

Leaving rich folks for cheating to go get cheated on by broke dusties!

How do these women do math?!


I’m sure other names will come to mind!

GO TO COUNSELING FIRST!
Stop being so emotional and foolish!


I have some THINGSSSSSS to get off my chest.

FYI Jayson’s net worth is $60,000,000

Unbelievable

Imagine being so hurt you don’t see the long term vision.

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Awwwww 😭 they’re so stunning
My childhood awwww

When I tell you soundtracks in the 90s were just everything
Wow!

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PeriodT

Where there is a WILL
There is a WAY

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Great message

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I must be prophetic. This young lady had a serious eating disorder. I looked up her family’s last name-yup…they owned slaves! I’m sure they starved their slaves especially children.

Now here is there descendant with a serious eating disorder!

We pay for our sins so our children and our grandchildren and our great grandchildren.

Historical records and genealogical research confirm that some individuals with the Ostrander surname in America were slave owners, particularly in areas with early Dutch settlement like New York and New Jersey, as slavery was a widespread institution among various families, not just famous figures, and Ostranders participated in this system, with some family members being documented slaveholders.
Evidence of Ostrander Slave Ownership:
Colonial Records: Early Ostrander families, especially in New York and New Jersey (areas with Dutch colonial roots where slavery was common), appear in records as slaveholders, alongside prominent families.
Specific Examples:
Johannes Hardenbergh Jr. (a relative in the broader Dutch colonial network where Ostranders lived) owned enslaved people, including Isabella Baumfree (later the famous abolitionist Sojourner Truth). While not directly an Ostrander, this shows the slaveholding context of their communities.
Research into colonial New York and New Jersey census and property records often lists Ostrander family members as owners of enslaved individuals.
Widespread Practice: Slavery was deeply embedded in American society, especially in the North during the colonial era, and many ordinary citizens, not just wealthy elites or Founding Fathers, owned slaves.
How to Find More Information:
Genealogical Sites: Ancestry.com, FamilySearch.org, and similar sites often have colonial-era records, wills, and property deeds mentioning enslaved people by name or number, searchable by surname.
Slavery Records Databases: Resources like New Jersey Slavery Records (mentioned in Source 10) document specific instances.
Local Archives: County historical societies and state archives in places like New York (Ulster, Dutchess counties) and New Jersey hold primary source documents.
In essence, yes, some Ostranders were slave owners, reflecting the pervasive nature of slavery in early America.

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Hummm folks love to give me content 😆😆😆

2 days ago | [YT] | 1

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We truly have a commitment crisis and I blame the previous and current generation-bunch of quitters!

You don’t have a choice but to think about the children.
They’re watching.
If all you do is quit-they,too, will QUIT!

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