Marlene Uncensored

Marriage & engagement & men

I think many don’t realize that for many men-MARRIAGE IS BORING AF!

It’s not different than a diet! Everyday, you got to eat the same food-MONOGAMY!

How many women can make that food that’s so predictable be exciting every single day? Not that many!!

So when that man gets BORED-what will he do?

I argue he will revert to his CULTURE!

Marriage is not that exciting!
It’s not a Tom Cruise Mission Impossible Movie 🎥
It’s freaking MARRIAGE.
It can’t get monotonous.

So when he’s bored, he still needs to have the discipline to commit.

That discipline will not exist nor be sustained by the “love” he has for you but the CULTURE he has.

Why do some people go to the gym faithfully and some don’t? The answer is CULTURE!

Fit people have a culture of COMMITMENT. They probably hate that ish as much as a fat person but they can commit no matter the weather, their feelings, their busy schedules!

Same applies to men in marriage.
Faithful men see temptation EVERY DAY!

Just because he married you-don’t mean you’re the prettiest or the most sexy thing. Nope! You the one he chose.

So when a faithful man sees temptation and walks away, it’s not because he loves you but because he loves himself. He’s a man of commitment.


No woman can force commitment out of man.
Don’t ever lie to yourself like that.
He’s faithful because he’s a man of HONOR.

You’re not responsible as his wife for making him honorable. When you met him he already went through his formative years.

We need to seriously be serious before 2026.

This is why women lose it when they get cheated on and their egos are so bruised because they think they’re so special of course he should be only faithful to me! Yeah right!


Pretty girls get cheated on every single damn day of the year.

Don’t be delulu

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