Esther Perel - Invidious

Esther Perel

Hello, I'm Esther Perel. I am a relationship therapist and New York Times bestselling author of The State of Affairs and Mating in Captivity. You may also know me from my TED talks or my podcast, Where Should We Begin.

On this channel, you'll find a range of videos: short Q&As answering subscriber questions, longer explorations into the future of modern relationships, and interviews with therapists and other experts in the field. This is a conversation that is so important in this moment. I welcome you to ask questions, participate, and join me as we explore the intricacies of love and desire.

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42:55

Never Been in a Long-Term Relationship & I Don't Know How: Where Should We Begin? with Esther Perel

Esther Perel

Shared 6 days ago

21K views

48:28

Esther says "Run!" | Where Should We Begin? with Esther Perel

Esther Perel

Shared 1 week ago

71K views

56:00

A Single Mother By Choice: What Does It Mean For Dating? | Where Should We Begin? with Esther Perel

Esther Perel

Shared 2 weeks ago

17K views

49:35

First He Loved Bombed Me And Then It Was Over | Where Should We Begin? with Esther Perel

Esther Perel

Shared 3 weeks ago

85K views

46:03

What We All Need to Know About Modern Dating | Where Should We Begin? with Esther Perel

Esther Perel

Shared 1 month ago

37K views

45:49

I Waited for You to be Ready but Now I’m 40 and Childless I Where Should We Begin? with Esther Perel

Esther Perel

Shared 1 month ago

176K views

47:44

I Leave First So You Can't Abandon Me: Friendships I Where Should We Begin? with Esther Perel

Esther Perel

Shared 2 months ago

27K views

42:09

Stuck Between My Daughter and My Husband: Family Conflict. Where Should We Begin? with Esther Perel

Esther Perel

Shared 2 months ago

13K views

58:06

I Can't Love You the Way You Want Me To: Couple Dilemma | Where Should We Begin? with Esther Perel

Esther Perel

Shared 2 months ago

81K views

57:38

Vocal Criticism & Silent Compliments: Family Dynamics | Where Should We Begin? with Esther Perel

Esther Perel

Shared 3 months ago

37K views

53:26

Esther Perel Invites Us to Imagine Our Preferred Future: Where Should We Begin? Live from SXSW 2025

Esther Perel

Shared 3 months ago

28K views

41:08

No Longer Daddy's Little Girl: Family Cutoffs & Conflict | Where Should We Begin? with Esther Perel

Esther Perel

Shared 4 months ago

20K views

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I Can Break up with Him but I'm Still Stuck With Myself - Where Should We Begin with Esther Perel

Esther Perel

Shared 4 months ago

44K views

56:35

When the Turn On Becomes a Turn Off: Our Sexual Fantasies | Where Should We Begin? with Esther Perel

Esther Perel

Shared 4 months ago

45K views

46:33

Say More - Esther Perel on fantasy with Gillian Anderson | Where Should We Begin? With Esther Perel

Esther Perel

Shared 4 months ago

69K views

57:01

Is This Worth a 2nd Chance? Post Break-Up Reconciliation: Where Should We Begin? with Esther Perel

Esther Perel

Shared 5 months ago

72K views

45:59

A Live Conversation with Esther Perel and Trevor Noah: Where Should We Begin? | SXSW 2024

Esther Perel

Shared 1 year ago

424K views

2:51

Where Should We Begin? is BACK.

Esther Perel

Shared 1 year ago

43K views

3:14

Let's Talk About Depression

Esther Perel

Shared 2 years ago

53K views

4:39

The Paradox of Security vs. Freedom

Esther Perel

Shared 2 years ago

160K views

6:56

Three Types of Relationship Fights — And What To Do About Them

Esther Perel

Shared 2 years ago

149K views

2:27

Two Types of Relationship Revolutions

Esther Perel

Shared 2 years ago

68K views

6:34

Dating Advice: How To Turn a Spark into a Flame

Esther Perel

Shared 2 years ago

416K views

3:39

The Paradox of Masculinity

Esther Perel

Shared 2 years ago

163K views

3:38

The Happiness Mandate

Esther Perel

Shared 2 years ago

113K views

1:05

Taking a Break

Esther Perel

Shared 3 years ago

70K views

4:41

Rituals for Breakups - Esther Perel

Esther Perel

Shared 4 years ago

240K views

3:45

Rituals for Relationships - Esther Perel

Esther Perel

Shared 4 years ago

95K views

1:49

Rituals for Dating - Esther Perel

Esther Perel

Shared 4 years ago

119K views

3:36

Loneliness Under Lockdown - Esther Perel

Esther Perel

Shared 5 years ago

95K views

6:54

Building and Dissolving Boundaries with Partners During Quarantine - Esther Perel

Esther Perel

Shared 5 years ago

38K views

4:20

How Couples Can Create Mystery, Distance, and Intimacy Under Lockdown - Esther Perel

Esther Perel

Shared 5 years ago

48K views

8:51

How To Turn Relational Differences into Resources During Coronavirus - Esther Perel

Esther Perel

Shared 5 years ago

36K views

2:59

On Grandiosity and Shame - Esther Perel & Terry Real

Esther Perel

Shared 5 years ago

109K views

2:52

Supporting a partner who has experienced sexual trauma - Esther Perel & Holly Richmond

Esther Perel

Shared 5 years ago

63K views

2:20

What to do when your partner is depressed - Esther Perel

Esther Perel

Shared 5 years ago

446K views

43:54

The Masculinity Paradox: Closing and Q+A - Sessions Live by Esther Perel

Esther Perel

Shared 5 years ago

123K views

20:58

The Masculinity Paradox: Lightning Talk with David Ley - Sessions Live by Esther Perel

Esther Perel

Shared 5 years ago

26K views

21:55

The Masculinity Paradox: Lightning Talk with Sara Nasserzadeh - Sessions Live by Esther Perel

Esther Perel

Shared 5 years ago

19K views

21:45

The Masculinity Paradox: Lightning Talk with Virginia Goldner - Sessions Live by Esther Perel

Esther Perel

Shared 5 years ago

17K views

59:55

The Masculinity Paradox: Terry Real, Doug Braun-Harvey, Erlanger Turner - Sessions by Esther Perel

Esther Perel

Shared 5 years ago

64K views

3:34

Making Connections - Esther Perel & Christina Pierpaoli Parker

Esther Perel

Shared 5 years ago

70K views

43:44

The Masculinity Paradox: Warm Up with Paul Browde - Sessions Live by Esther Perel

Esther Perel

Shared 5 years ago

31K views

21:30

The Masculinity Paradox: Welcome - Sessions Live by Esther Perel

Esther Perel

Shared 5 years ago

46K views

3:36

Healing After a Traumatic Event - Esther Perel & Julia Samuel

Esther Perel

Shared 6 years ago

86K views

3:22

Supporting a Grieving Friend - Esther Perel & Julia Samuel

Esther Perel

Shared 6 years ago

48K views

5:53

Understanding Our Inner Critic - Esther Perel & Dick Schwartz

Esther Perel

Shared 6 years ago

212K views

7:27

Communication: Learning from the BDSM Community - Esther Perel & Margie Nichols

Esther Perel

Shared 6 years ago

83K views

4:55

Once a Cheater, Always a Cheater? - Esther Perel

Esther Perel

Shared 6 years ago

789K views

4:10

What is Polyamory? - Esther Perel & Margie Nichols

Esther Perel

Shared 6 years ago

128K views

2:50

Trusting in a New Relationship...After an Infidelity in Your Last One - Esther Perel

Esther Perel

Shared 7 years ago

162K views

1:07

Welcome to my channel - Esther Perel

Esther Perel

Shared 7 years ago

190K views

4:51

Dating: Setting the Pace Without Scaring Someone Away - Esther Perel & Dr. Alexandra Solomon

Esther Perel

Shared 7 years ago

398K views

5:50

How To Be Assertive Without Being Aggressive - Esther Perel

Esther Perel

Shared 8 years ago

915K views

5:54

How to Overcome Male Performance Anxiety - Esther Perel

Esther Perel

Shared 8 years ago

622K views

4:16

Finding "The One" - Esther Perel

Esther Perel

Shared 8 years ago

1.2M views

7:07

Fight Smarter: Avoid the Most Common Argument Patterns - Esther Perel

Esther Perel

Shared 8 years ago

1.6M views

5:33

Stop Bickering. It's Killing Your Relationship - Esther Perel

Esther Perel

Shared 8 years ago

1.3M views

6:29

Fight Smarter: Put Escalating Fights on Ice - Esther Perel

Esther Perel

Shared 8 years ago

312K views

2:28

How to Be Certain About a Potential Partner - Esther Perel

Esther Perel

Shared 8 years ago

1M views