Candice Oneida

Dear Woman,
The times we are living in are absolutely unprecedented.
Daily, we swirl in limitations, strife, racial injustice, economic and social inequity, overt systemic misogyny, declining leadership – all against the backdrop of an unrelenting global pandemic.
Your job right now is self-care.
And yes, I know, I know. You don’t feel like it. You just can’t. The best you can do is…snack.
I hear you. I feel you. I am with you.
But.
Woman, you are source. You are the source of light, of life, of radiance.
Your job right now is self-care.
And yes, I know, I know. You don’t feel like it. You just can’t. The best you can do is…snack.
I hear you. I feel you. I am with you.
But.
Woman, you are source. You are the source of light, of life, of radiance.
We are in this upheaval, together.
You are a miracle. A joy. A treasure. A brilliant, creative vessel of love.
And your job right now, is not to join forces with all of the beguiling voices of darkness that want to intoxicate us with global despair.
Your job right now is self-care.
And yes, I know, I know. You don’t feel like it. You just can’t. The best you can do is…snack.
I hear you. I feel you. I am with you.
But.
Woman, you are source. You are the source of light, of life, of radiance.
Your joy matters.
When we withdraw our self-care, it is instantly replaced with self-criticism.
I have done this experiment endlessly.
And when I ignore my own inner holy, my humanity suffers.
I do not have the patience to stand in love in the face of being misunderstood.
I do not have the endurance to find hope in the midst of despair.
I am cranky as f*%ck.
What feeds the holy in a woman?
Why? If we disregard the sacred within us, we cannot connect to our ability to turn on. And when we are not turned on, we are not connected to our life force.
And if we are not connected to our life force, it means we are not owning our power.
It is our sacred responsibility to look and feel as magnificent as possible so we can connect to the sacred within ourselves. To shine our radiance on the world.
Why? If we disregard the sacred within us, we cannot connect to our ability to turn on. And when we are not turned on, we are not connected to our life force.
And if we are not connected to our life force, it means we are not owning our power.
If we are not owning our power, it means someone else is.
Powered by pleasure, our chemistry changes. It hoists us into a higher orbit, where it’s easier to leave the victim and become the heroine.e a sense of ourselves as the victim, rather than the heroine of our lives.
We blame others rather than taking full responsibility.
Victim is our cultural norm. It’s how women in the patriarchy are raised to feel.
We have not been raised to believe we are the source of our own power, the determiners of our own emotional state. But in truth, that’s exactly who we are.
All it takes to know this is to plug back into our radiance.
Powered by pleasure, our chemistry changes.
It hoists us into a higher orbit, where it’s easier to leave the victim and become the heroine.
You, me, we, are living breathing prayers.
Just look around – we all know – this is no time for any of us to quit praying.
So tell me, my love, how will you feed the holy in you today?
How will you replace self-criticism with self-care?
Let us pray, together.
With so much love and pleasure,
Your job right now is self-care.
And yes, I know, I know. You don’t feel like it. You just can’t. The best you can do is…snack.
I hear you. I feel you. I am with you.
But.
Woman, you are source. You are the source of light, of life, of radiance.
Powered by pleasure, our chemistry changes. It hoists us into a higher orbit, where it’s easier to leave the victim and become the heroine.
You, me, we, are living breathing prayers.
Just look around – we all know – this is no time for any of us to quit praying.
So tell me, my love, how will you feed the holy in you today?
How will you replace self-criticism with self-care?
Let us pray, together.
With so much love and pleasure,
Regena Thomashauer, aka “Mama Gena”
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