Yes! I'm my late 20s, I figured out to basically hope for the best, but expect the worst. Cautiously optimistic... Remember your early excitment may just be the positive things you are seeing about him and you. Dont let your imagination build him up too early on. Give him time to show you he deserves you.
3 years ago | 2
Dear Adam, I hope you could make some videos on how to meet guys. Especially for women who are in their 30-40s. Like are there some good places that guys like to hang around and likely to expect romantic relationships? I find it sooo difficult to meet guys, but that’s the first step of any romantic relationship, right?. I really hope to hear your suggestions. Thank you for your consideration!
3 years ago (edited) | 0
Love Strategies
Last night I hosted a Love Accelerator mastermind session and had an eye-opening discussion I wanted to share with you. One of my clients, Mona, asked me:
“Adam, I’ve been following the Little Love Steps for the past few months, and so far, it’s working like magic. I have more guys pursuing me than I’ve had in my entire life combined. But there’s one guy I REALLY like, and I’m ready to move things forward. I’ve been following your strategy, and I haven’t been chasing him, but I feel like I’m checking my phone every 10 minutes to see if he texts me. All of this is driving me crazy with anticipation!
He didn’t text me last night, and I’m not sure how what to do here. Should I check in with him? Please help!”
Here’s what I told her...
"Mona, I'll answer your question directly, then we can zoom out and think about your overall strategy for attracting love.
Here’s my direct answer: do NOT initiate contact - it’s been less than 24 hours. He’s OK, you’re OK - everything is going to be OK. Nothing to do here - just HOLD. If a week has gone by without hearing from him, let me know in the private community forum, and we can work out a game plan to re-engage him.
Now, let’s talk about the broader implications of your question. I hate to break it to you, but you are STILL chasing this man. You might not be calling/texting him, but you’re emotionally chasing him.
I get it, and I empathize with your situation, but I'm here to remind you that a high-value woman never invests this much into a man this early on. I don’t care if he’s Ryan Gosling: never invest more in a man than he's investing in you.
You are the PRIZE he is begging to win over <— never forget it. When you maintain this mindset, everything else will follow."
These are the types of conversations we have twice a week on my Love Accelerator mastermind sessions. Ready to follow the Little Love Steps and join the thousands of other women who have attracted long-lasting love?
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