For everyone it’s gotta be looks because the first thing we see when we see someone is there physical features, not there personality. You can’t walk down the street, see a girl, and be like” oh, that’s a cute personality”. No, you walk down the street and think” damn, she’s cute”. Your obviously attracted to the physical beauty first then if you decide to get to know her than you will find out what her personality is like.
4 years ago | 414
Its impossible to FIRST be attracted to personality cos that means you'll have to spend a good amount of time with them. Spending a good amount of time with them already means you're attracted to their physical features because why would you waste your time with someone you're physically not attracted to in the first place.
4 years ago | 46
I think using the word “attraction” in this question throws off the entire question itself. Obviously when you see somebody you’ve never met your human instinct just judges them off of their looks, wether they look cute, quirky, mean or even aggressive. If you’ve have the chance to meet someone and have a few conversations with them, that’s when the idea of being attracted to one’s personality can come into play. You can converse with somebody you are not necessarily “attracted” to and eventually this may lead to you appreciating the other person for who they are and you would now be attracted. Goodluck to all of my fellow brothers and sisters out there looking for something to believe in. God is good. Life is beautiful. 🙏
4 years ago | 8
You see beautiful women everyday, it’s not that special, but what is special and rare is a girl that’s good hearted and shows genuine love and care. That’s what can steal my heart
4 years ago | 2
Im attracted to people who trick the YouTube algorithm into recommending their channels to more people by using polls to ask dumb questions that make sheep argue in the comments and which in turn increases your engagement rate.
4 years ago (edited) | 8
Physical beauty leads me to infatuation genuine attraction comes once I get to know the person
4 years ago | 10
Definitely physical is first but you can actually see a bit of their personality by looking at their vibe, the way they talk or even the way she look at others. You can actually know if someone is for you if it the conversation become awkward or without context, in the first minute you can acknowledge that.
4 years ago | 1
Being completely honest probably looks even tho it should be personality
4 years ago | 10
The question answers itself. Can’t be attracted to a personality first, u don’t see someone’s personality across the street lol
4 years ago | 1
For me it takes at least a small amount of time to get an idea of personality, so appearance will be the first/initial attraction, strengthened by the personality afterwards. If thats what you meant, but personality is more important i think :)
4 years ago (edited) | 1
You can’t be immediately attracted to personality but that is what keeps the relationship going
4 years ago | 0
First is looks but what gets you to like or love your spouse is personality
4 years ago | 1
To be fair appearance and facial features are the first things we notice when we first see someone
4 years ago | 4
The girls I fell for the hardest were the ones I was not physically attracted to at first but after spending time with them their personality made me crush on them hard, like train hitting you hard, like I just fell off a plane with no parachute hard, like taking the SAT exam with no sleep hard
4 years ago | 1
I’ve spent most of my life surrounded by pretty faces with diabolical souls; so I prefer personality over physical beauty
4 years ago | 0
most of the time a persons not going to walk up to a girl if she’s not already slightly pretty a personality girl usually starts with a friendship and gradually turns into a relationship
4 years ago | 1
Looks don’t change, but opinion about someone’s personality can. So I think you decide after looks, how they are as a person.
4 years ago | 1
George Janko
What are you attracted to first?
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