Absolutely understand. You're entitled to take time off to regroup when life gets hard. ❤
5 years ago
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It’s always hard being the one left behind. Just know that you’ve done a really beautiful thing for a hooman & furrbaby ❣️🐾
5 years ago
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I’m so sorry Lou. We lost our bullmastiff 14 years ago. It still breaks my heart. My husband wanted another dog right away because he couldn’t handle not having a dog in the house. Three months later we got a pug. I definitely wasn’t ready for another dog but my husband really needed one. I found I couldn’t bond as well because opening my heart so soon had with the wound so fresh was too difficult. Of course he became my shadow and ignored my husband as all of our dogs have. I loved him but never to the extent that I did our bullmastiff. That one felt like I lost a child. I guess what I’m trying to say is don’t rush things. Grieve Abby. You’ll know when and if you’re ready for another dog. Sending you so much love ❤️ ❤️❤️❤️❤️
5 years ago
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My heart hurts with yours. We will be here when you're ready. If you need to talk about your grief please consider doing so if you think it will help. Please don't feel obligated to isolate yourself within your loss and pain. But if time is all you need please take as much of it as you can. Will be thinking of you and Abbey in the meantime.
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I’m so sorry that you’re going through this. It’s one of the hardest things, but it does get better and I have found that adopting another really helps. ❤️ My Boo will never take the place of Wally, but he really needed a home and I needed him. I hope that when you’re ready you can give another one what I’m sure is a very loving home.
5 years ago
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I understand what you're going through. The loss of loved ones takes time and doesn't have a time limit. We lost my uncle recently and it brought back memories that made us miss others who are no longer here, people and animals alike. Take your time, we'll be here when you return. 💜
5 years ago
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We are faithful Louzers! We will be waiting when you are ready! Love you, Lou! 💛#1 Louze
5 years ago
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I lost my 17 year old cat 2.5 years ago and I've even got a new cat that we adopted just under a month after my baby girl passed. But I STILL have the occasional melt down over the loss. I also lost my mother a year ago August. Actually, there have been quite a few losses in my life in the last 3 years. There is no time limit on grief. There are no rules to grief. You just take the time you need to grieve and feel all the feels. But I do highly recommend a new furbaby. As you learned with your son's pooch being around, it helps. Take care, Lou. We'll be here when you get back. ❤❤❤
5 years ago
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Oh Lou! You're an amazing lady, you don't have to be ON all the time, that's what makes you Real and Relatable, no pressure, just appreciation. Take care of yourself and I, for sure am willing to wait for your return! Hugs!
5 years ago
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I'm so sorry you're hurting! My heart breaks for you!!! I think you should take all the time you need. XO
5 years ago
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We love you and we’ll be here for you no matter how long it takes! I think you need time to grieve - really just be alone and wollar around in grief. I know some people think it’s okay just to brush off or get over the loss of a pet. But pets in my home are family and I’m sure they are for you, too. I’m so sorry about your loss. I’ll pray for my babies across the rainbow bridge to make sure they find Abby because they can all be buddies together until we get to see them again. xo xo xo
5 years ago
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We’ll be here when you return, losing a beloved pet is hard. I totally understand! Get some sunshine, do something you love. I hope you feel better soon!! ♥️🤗
5 years ago
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Take the time you need. You deserve it. You have brought me laughter when things were difficult and it is very appreciated so I hope you find something to make you smile and laugh in that same way. 😘
5 years ago
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heart hugs to you❤❤ it has been 2 years next week since I lost my fuzzy daughter. I have been thinking of her so much lately. I totally get it😥
5 years ago
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Oh Lou, I'm so sorry. I didn't know he was a foster, I thought he was your new baby. I'm sure it was so hard to say goodbye to him. I completely understand how much you're hurting, I lost both of my babies a year apart....and I lost my dad within that year, too. After 11+/12+ years of being their mom, their absence is physically palpable. It's been 6+ months without a dog in my house, and I just moved their dog beds out of my bedroom this past Sunday. Love and hugs to you, Lou...
5 years ago
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We do miss you but completely understand. I must say that it was obvious that he really lifted your spirits while he was with you and I was concerned when you told us they were moving. You have such a big heart. Don't worry about us. We will be here when you are ready.
5 years ago
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Hi Guys, it’s Lou. I’m sorry I haven’t been posting lately. I’ve been struggling a bit. I think I didn’t realize how much Jax was pacifying my longing for Abbey. He left with his dad two weeks ago and I guess having him here for 3 months was supplying me with some of the happiness that Abbey used to. I know we’ve been here before and I’m sorry for being here again, or maybe being here still. I am only letting you Louzers know this because I don’t want you to think I’m being lazy or having too much fun to upload. I think about you guys EVERY DAY. I’m just not very funny right now. I love you all and thank you for understanding my temporary inability to function. I will see you soon, I promise. 💕oxoxo Lou
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