This quote is exactly how I feel. This is why I cannot forgive anyone who does not feel compassion for my hurt. Letting my mother go is healing me, not forgiveness.
7 years ago | 1
Forgiveness brings one his/her own freedom...Once forgiven, we release their projection that feed our soul.....Their soul is not for our own projection......Peace we find our own SHADOW SELF....Thank you Sacha Slone...THE BEST!
5 years ago | 0
They probably enjoy that they still bother people and had a big enough impact on them to have people not let go. I’d imagine a narcissist to be proud of your hatred and grudge for them because it’s bothering the person still and they aren’t even in their lives anymore to do so. It’s still a reaction they want in my opinion. The best way to get back at a narcissist is to make them insignificant in your life, not letting any emotions arise at the thought of them, make it seem as if it doesn’t affect your life or thoughts, as if they were a random face at a grocery store. Making a dramatic exit or going out of your way to make it so you win or dramatic will just be amusing to them.
7 years ago | 1
I'd like to forgive where though they are sorry or not. Because forgiving them either way 'Free's Me'. It feels healthier for me.
7 years ago | 8
I can forgive if they understood the pain they caused me n at least pretend to care to apologize to me for what they put me throu. :(
7 years ago | 0
I'm not forgiving someone who isn't even sorry and I can live with my decision.
7 years ago | 16
I agree but forgiving them isn’t helpful in the beginning because everytime u do forgive it leaves you wide open for a hoover and more abuse it’s so hard when it’s not in ur nature to hate but yes forgiveness is definitely the way to move forward as hard as it is. But there comes a point where the lata becomes something u can’t unsee and it becomes so draining that u have no choice in the end but to let them go and then try and forgive working through the damage they have caused.
7 years ago (edited) | 0
Forgive ourselves for opening ourselves up to very bad, dark people. Forgive ourselves for having the innocence to want to see good in a person who is telling us ( even when they are wearing a mask) that they are bad, and goading us on to love someone that pathetic, and we do. Forgive ourselves for not knowing how to make boundaries, or even knowing. We needed to make boundaries. The universe will take care of them, they are puny, pathetic, small unconscious beings infiltrated by fear and darkness. I don’t believe we have to forgive them. Forgive ourselves and let them go. Karma, God, universe, their unconscious whatever you want to call it will ultimately somehow take care of them, teach them perhaps and forgive their pathetic soul-less souls.
7 years ago | 2
Don't forgive them if they aren't sorry. God's the forgiving one and I bet he wouldn't either.
7 years ago | 2
My new self forgives my old self for not being aware such toxic ennities had a premeditated agenda of habitual inversion of their own self loathing onto a willing participant who only had normal hopes & dreams our culture deems normal. But due to the nature of the beast, who will always perpetuate chaos & mind fuckery for reasons of their own lack, the revenge of exposure & general participation in public awareness shall be the lasting legacy in a war I did not start but will not run from. I would not forgive myself if I treated any innocent being human or beast with such disdain, such indignity, as done by the enemy with whom this battle is waged.
7 years ago | 7
Hi Sacha are you oké? I have not seen new video's for a while. Best regards Ger
7 years ago | 1
U should not forgive one who does harm internationally. God has warned punishment for such ones.
7 years ago | 4
Lol, me not forgiving them is their problem, not mine. I can move on and forget them. If they get eaten alive for not being able to gain my trust or forgiveness then let that be a lifetime lesson for them and everyone else. They made their mistake for trying to take advantage of my forgiveness (although I felt like I was pushed to do it) and they get no second chances. They're going to live with it. I can forgive myself for not seeing it, but the only words they're going to hear from me is "rot in hell."
7 years ago (edited) | 0
You should be looking for help from a psychiatrist, not a YouTube personality. This is sickening.
7 years ago | 0
Sacha Slone
What does 'forgiving a narcissistic abuser' mean to you? Watch Video: https://youtu.be/PTjh_xQukdI
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