*Listen to your gut.....its your best friend and wont lead you wrong *Stop doubting yourself *Go for it.....take the chance and see the world *Live life and enjoy *Smile more And most importantly **Love yourself FLAWS AND ALL***
4 years ago
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Don’t break the heart of the boy who’s loved you from afar on the last day of senior year. I’m really sorry, Erik J.
4 years ago | 31
Don't give more than you get back where relationships are concerned. You deserve to be equally balanced. If they aren't giving , then it's a waste of time. Giving goes both ways.
4 years ago (edited) | 26
For myself its: don't give a damn about other people's opinions. do what makes you happy because at the end of the day it's your life NOT theirs. I hope this piece of advice will possibly help someone who reads it. I PROMISE YOU. You'll be a much happier person if you just tell the person whos overly opinionated of you "F*CK YOU"
4 years ago (edited) | 24
Just because you don’t quite fit in with anyone, doesn’t mean you should close yourself off, or act insane, because after a while, it becomes the only thing you can do anymore around others, even if it’s not what you really act like.
4 years ago
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I would tell myself that I am actually mentally ill and the meds will help a lot. Ask for them when young. Life will be so much easier
4 years ago | 10
Go to college after highschool, won't be easy but it will help make things better for your life in the future. But not mentally, not sure you can avoid that.
4 years ago
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Just because you don't fit the mould where you went to school doesn't mean you're a freak. You will bloom and grow and find friends who love and nurture who you are instead of forcing you to conform. Be easy. Your time will come.
4 years ago
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Middle school years bullying and abuse made me feel so ugly and I ended up in a bad place because I let someone make me feel so worthless that I numbed myself to pain and easily could have died. I would go back to that little girl and tell her she's beautiful, I'd make her tell her parents and get help deep down I so angry that I ended up just hating my mom. Who is now my rock and best friend. I'd hold that little girl and tell her how important she is, in this very sad but beautiful world. Most of us think we're so small that our one life doesn't matter compared to the billions of people in this world. But you matter so much, you matter your beautiful and deserve to be here on this earth.
4 years ago | 4
Don't worry so much, don't be so sensitive... Yet, when I told myself all that back then I was unable to integrate those thoughts into my life.
4 years ago | 3
Don't attend that highschool, convince your parents with any way possible, and go to another school, or you'll have the worst three years of your life.
4 years ago | 7
You're not crazy. You'll get out of there in no time, just excercise and look into culinary school. Your passions are worth it.
4 years ago
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Use the money in the trust to move away from home ASAP and don’t hesitate in any decision. I wish I’d done that way sooner.
4 years ago | 8
Never move out of state for a man claiming to love you or says he wants to spend the rest of his life with you. He really means that he wants to keep you dependent on only him, use you for years to get whatever he wants & then drops you when he’s done making you feel miserable. (I’ve had 2 ex boyfriends who did exactly that & because of them I’ve lost more than 10 years of my life with nothing but misery to show for it. But don’t worry! I’m doing well now but thanks to their narcissism & selfishness I dodged a huge bullet since neither wanted marriage so I didn’t get stuck with dealing with them after it was over.)
2 years ago | 0
Hmm well I guess I'd tell myself not to take him back after he left the first time...it only leads to pain.
4 years ago
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Run away from home, you'd be so much happier alone than with those monsters.
4 years ago
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Don’t hang around anyone who makes you feel like you have to walk on eggshells, life is too short to not be your true self.
4 years ago | 5
There is someone out there who will cherish you. Don’t settle for what is tolerable, wait for the one who will treat you like treasure. And don’t stay silent when those in your life hurt you. Stand up, say no, and get help. You do not have to ever take that from anyone.
4 years ago | 2
DarkFluff
If you could go back in time, what's one piece of advice you'd give your younger self? (Nothing Lotto or Bitcoin related)
4 years ago | [YT] | 755