Susan Winter

Happy #FanMailFriday everyone!

I hope you all are enjoying the first hints of autumn! As we start to wind down the year, take account for all you’ve accomplished, learned, and be appreciative for the person you’ve become—even if it’s not the person you expected to be. I love you all ♥️

1 week ago | [YT] | 16



@dumpling.monster

This is so beautiful, Susan ❤ This gives me the idea for a video request... I am a 30 year old woman and I am single. I've decided that I'll remain single and unmarried until it feels right and aligned. I have had an abusive and traumatic childhood so I don't want to put myself through more trauma by being in a romantic relationship that isn't healthy or fulfilling. Because of my wounds, till now I've found myself in some toxic and unhealthy romantic dynamics. That's why I'm taking a break from relationships and healing myself. I'll be open to a relationship if something develops naturally and organically but I don't consider being married as something mandatory for myself anymore. But I still feel pressure from friends, family and the 'society' alike to be in a relationship and get married. And like the person who wrote to you, I also sometimes feel guilty about being single. Not because I necessarily want a partner, but because of the well intentioned but still ill serving pressure and concern and judgement that I face from others around me. And the last thing I wanna do is get into a relationship influenced by others. So here's the video idea - Could you please share why do we feel so guilty about being single even by choice and how do we overcome it and not let others pressure us into making the wrong decisions?

6 days ago | 0