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4 months ago | 0
Learning what it was you were dealing with definitely helps. I no longer think it was me as he always cut me down and nothing was ever enough. Then discarded. Been married three times. What affects leaving it all behind is when you have even grown kids who still don’t understand and the ex has remarried and seems to treat her better than you. She’s a step down, but he seems to like the cheapness better. Then the kids think it was just two people who didn’t get along. Also, he had isolated me 1,200 miles from home and family. The girls didn’t want to move to a country area after living in Fort Lauderdale, so though I tried to move home, they wouldn’t stay so I came back down to be with my daughters and grand children. Many years lost with my family, parents and a brother have passed away and my second brother has stage 4 cancer. These are things that can’t be fixed. Add to that that all three of my daughters have narcissistic traits. So, I’m dealing with bad attitudes, anger, blame, self centeredness, little gratitude, etc., with bouts of some normalcy in between. I love them so I put up with the “crap.” When I married that narc and had children with him, it was a life sentence.
4 months ago | 1
I spent the past 5 years weeding out every last toxic relationship. I only found the courage to do that with all the education. Taking my power back and fully processing trauma wouldn’t have happened without faithfully educating myself. I maintain my boundaries with people and myself better than ever and occasionally dive into a video on such topics. I pray you all realize you are more powerful over your life than you think! Practice: patience, persistence and perspective is the path to peace and fulfilling relationships
4 months ago | 6
After a narc relation perhaps it's time to discover yourself and fill yourself and your life with yourself, simple things like find out your favourite colour, music etc. find your voice if you need to it makes a huge difference. Also you could need nutrition/exercise etc. it will be about different for everyone for me natural b vitamins and vitamin d from the sun, sometimes copper and selenium. Re-regulate-mindful breathing etc but mostly just find yourself everyone is a universe within themselves many gifts, talents,likes and good desires.
4 months ago | 4
I just found your videos christmas eve, which I identify with 💯. My question is how many types of narcissist are there and what is each types behavior versus another type? My ex was covert narcissist but I think I have encountered other narcissist types in other relationships
4 months ago | 2
Don’t get stuck ruminating! Don’t get stuck in victimhood! Take responsibility for your choice in relationships and trust yourself again 🙏
4 months ago | 4
I don’t know about healing. After seven or eight years I lost interest and focus on hobbies. It’s complicated.
4 months ago (edited) | 4
When someone says healing is not going to be easy, I nod wisely within and think I got it, but when it' not easy I can freak out in disbelief sometimes.
4 months ago | 0
I either have or have had all of these symptoms except for amnesia. Time to get back to therapy lol
4 months ago | 1
The psyop is so intricate and layers in depth, it's impossible to completely figure out, and ultimately dwelling on the abuse is a waste of time. Because it will never be figured out.
4 months ago | 0
Too many narcissistic abuse content producers focus too heavily on the narcissist and not enough on strategies to heal.
4 months ago (edited) | 1
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