I find that if the effort and consistency are there, usually everything else is as well. But you rarely see any of the other three if there's no effort and consistency
2 weeks ago | 33
self love due to past experiences, inner strength which comes from low self esteem from past events and when those r found within then all traits appear and then they align with clear lenses ohhh and it’s vice versa too
2 weeks ago (edited) | 5
@SomeClownBehindTheTellerLine3
Because most men are wired to think logically and factually, it can sometimes be difficult for them to clearly articulate their thoughts and feelings - especially if what they're thinking and feeling doesn't align with the factual situation in their mind. Also, it has been scientifically proven that men emotionally and mentally mature at a pace much slower than women. So I would say that lack of maturity to handle conflicts is also a prominent issue with today's men. This also kind of ties in with lack of clear communication as well. If men aren't used to communicating their thoughts and feelings or they aren't comfortable doing so, chances are they're going to lack the emotional depth required to communicate in conflicts as well. Someone also made a good point about the lack of effort and consistency as well - If there's a lack of effort and consistency, then chances are the other areas are also lacking in some way.
2 weeks ago | 4
Inner work and relationship with God 🙏🏽 to strive to be an amazing husband and fath
2 weeks ago | 4
No loyality Is not a problem nowdays. Communication and consistency, they want you but in one month they run away because they can't be in the relationship or you are "too good" or they can't give you more but they wont say what is wrong. It's like in those memes "the guy one day before ghost you"
2 weeks ago (edited) | 4
The modern dating world is broken. It’s not the same as when my grandparents got married
2 weeks ago | 20
As a happy married woman who was single the first 33 years. The wrong guy all above. The right guy will do everything to be better. That's the difference. Also most people (back to grandparents time it wasn't better) aren't able to trust and communicate. Men and women think differently. It's about each one to learn the language of the other. Also what's the most important part is to choose wisely. Due to unhealthy childhood trauma we choose the wrong guys unconsciously. Love it or hate it but that's the truth.
2 weeks ago | 2
I picked lack of maturity (to handle conflicts) because the main problem I see is lack of maturity- people walking around in adult bodies but with child like mentalities leads to all sorts of unnecessary drama and poor outcomes.
1 week ago | 0
Ismael Gomez III
Ladies, what do you think is the #1 thing most men lack in relationships today?
2 weeks ago | [YT] | 252