If she’s hanging around hoes, she is one too. Simple.
I don’t care how special you think she is, I don’t care if she meditates once a month or occasionally reads a book. If her friends vape, party, cheat, post thirst traps, and do all that low-quality degenerate stuff, so does she (or she will eventually). Because you are the average of the five people you spend the most time with.
And don’t lie to yourself thinking you’ll “fix” her. You’re not going to put her on self-improvement. If she wasn’t doing it before she met you, she’s not doing it after. You can try to pull her away from her degen friends, and she’ll pretend like she’s on board. But the moment there’s a rough patch in your relationship? She’s right back to them. And if she’s back with the girls, she’s back to the habits too like drinking, clubbing, entertaining other guys.
Another big red flag: she turns other guys on. That should be obvious. But I’ve seen so many guys allow this to happen and just accept it because they’re “secure.” Nah, bro. That’s not security, that’s weakness. If a guy approaches your girl, that’s fine. It happens. But if she entertains him, if she smiles, giggles, has a little flirty convo, that’s complete betrayal. A respectful girl shuts it down, quick. “Me and my boyfriend come here all the time.” That’s all it takes. But if she hides the fact that she’s taken, even for a second, she’s a hoe. She’s feeding that guy’s ego and his testosterone just for fun. That’s hoe behavior.
I’ve had relationships where a guy approached my girl at the gym, and I watched her engage, point, laugh, act all friendly. That destroyed me. I walked away. I talked to my friends, big so called masculine guys, and they tried to gaslight me like it wasn’t a big deal. But I knew deep down it was a massive deal. Because she spoke to that guy three days in a row. She never once mentioned I was her boyfriend. I ended the relationship then and there. Degen girls will call me over the top, but at least I’m not a cuck.
I’ve seen this multiple times. A girl I'm getting to know entertains other guys, doesn’t mention me, and I instantly lose respect. Because how your girl behaves when you’re not looking tells you everything. If a girl doesn’t rep you in the first ten seconds of conversation with a guy, she’s not wife material.
And social media? Don’t even get me started. If your girl’s posting provocative photos, ass shots, cleavage, thirst traps, then she’s out here turning on other guys on purpose. That’s digital cheating. She’s giving free testosterone boosts to other men, and you’re out here just liking her story thinking everything’s okay.
If she’s snapping guys who’d sleep with her if she bent over, that’s hoe behavior. You know it. She knows it. Every girl knows which guy wants to fuck her. They’re not stupid. They entertain these convos because they love the attention. Don’t let them gaslight you into thinking it’s innocent. If she’s texting dudes that she knows would smash if they had the chance, she’s cheating on you emotionally, and it’s just a matter of time before it becomes physical.
And no, you can’t change her. Don’t play the blue pill game. Don’t think that if you love her enough, if you talk it out and explain your feelings, she’ll stop being a hoe. That’s not how it works. You’re not her savior. And you shouldn’t want to be. If she’s mentally broken, addicted to attention, and texting other dudes for her ego, that’s not your burden to fix.
You need to date girls who already know better than this. Girls who already believe what we’re talking about. Virtuous, religious women who don’t even entertain the idea of talking to random guys who just want to fuck. They’re out there. I’ve met girls like that in places like Bali, girls who come home and tell you first thing when a guy spoke to them. Girls who dress respectfully, not half-naked in ass-revealing shorts. There’s a clear difference between women who crave male attention and those who value modesty and loyalty.
Dressing matters. Don’t let degenerates lie to you. If she says she dresses sexy “for herself,” ask yourself what that even means. Is she looking at herself in the mirror getting turned on? Of course not. She dresses like that for male validation. A respectful woman won’t be putting her ass out on display for every dude to see. That’s just the truth. Modesty reflects character.
Even “good girls” lie. You’d be shocked how many seemingly sweet, artistic, innocent girls are out here doing degen shit behind closed doors. And they use something I call trickle truths. They cheat, or flirt, or fuck another guy and then they tell you “we just kissed.” Then later it becomes, “okay, we cuddled.” Then, “okay, we had sex—but just once!” And eventually it’s, “he came inside me and I might be pregnant and it’s not yours, but I still love you!” That’s how it escalates. You get lied to step by step until you’re crushed.
I’ve seen it. I’ve lived it. My first girlfriend did this to me. I was a sweet, loyal simp bf and she trickle-truthed me into hell. Because I saw firsthand what these girls can do. She told me she was just texting an old friend. Then it was nudes. Then it was sex. And she acted like it was no big deal. That broke me, and I learned. That’s why I’m so redpilled now.
So what do you do about all this? You stop dating hoes. You stop ignoring your gut. You stop negotiating with girls who disrespect you. You don’t fix them, you replace them. With high-quality women who live by the same values as you.
Stop lying to yourself. Average guys out here are getting cheated on or will be soon, and they don’t even know it. They ignore their gut, believe her lies, and get played. Don’t be that average guy.
Do the hard work especially when you don’t feel like it.
Hamza
If she’s hanging around hoes, she is one too. Simple.
I don’t care how special you think she is, I don’t care if she meditates once a month or occasionally reads a book. If her friends vape, party, cheat, post thirst traps, and do all that low-quality degenerate stuff, so does she (or she will eventually). Because you are the average of the five people you spend the most time with.
And don’t lie to yourself thinking you’ll “fix” her. You’re not going to put her on self-improvement. If she wasn’t doing it before she met you, she’s not doing it after. You can try to pull her away from her degen friends, and she’ll pretend like she’s on board. But the moment there’s a rough patch in your relationship? She’s right back to them. And if she’s back with the girls, she’s back to the habits too like drinking, clubbing, entertaining other guys.
Another big red flag: she turns other guys on. That should be obvious. But I’ve seen so many guys allow this to happen and just accept it because they’re “secure.” Nah, bro. That’s not security, that’s weakness. If a guy approaches your girl, that’s fine. It happens. But if she entertains him, if she smiles, giggles, has a little flirty convo, that’s complete betrayal. A respectful girl shuts it down, quick. “Me and my boyfriend come here all the time.” That’s all it takes. But if she hides the fact that she’s taken, even for a second, she’s a hoe. She’s feeding that guy’s ego and his testosterone just for fun. That’s hoe behavior.
I’ve had relationships where a guy approached my girl at the gym, and I watched her engage, point, laugh, act all friendly. That destroyed me. I walked away. I talked to my friends, big so called masculine guys, and they tried to gaslight me like it wasn’t a big deal. But I knew deep down it was a massive deal. Because she spoke to that guy three days in a row. She never once mentioned I was her boyfriend. I ended the relationship then and there. Degen girls will call me over the top, but at least I’m not a cuck.
I’ve seen this multiple times. A girl I'm getting to know entertains other guys, doesn’t mention me, and I instantly lose respect. Because how your girl behaves when you’re not looking tells you everything. If a girl doesn’t rep you in the first ten seconds of conversation with a guy, she’s not wife material.
And social media? Don’t even get me started. If your girl’s posting provocative photos, ass shots, cleavage, thirst traps, then she’s out here turning on other guys on purpose. That’s digital cheating. She’s giving free testosterone boosts to other men, and you’re out here just liking her story thinking everything’s okay.
If she’s snapping guys who’d sleep with her if she bent over, that’s hoe behavior. You know it. She knows it. Every girl knows which guy wants to fuck her. They’re not stupid. They entertain these convos because they love the attention. Don’t let them gaslight you into thinking it’s innocent. If she’s texting dudes that she knows would smash if they had the chance, she’s cheating on you emotionally, and it’s just a matter of time before it becomes physical.
And no, you can’t change her. Don’t play the blue pill game. Don’t think that if you love her enough, if you talk it out and explain your feelings, she’ll stop being a hoe. That’s not how it works. You’re not her savior. And you shouldn’t want to be. If she’s mentally broken, addicted to attention, and texting other dudes for her ego, that’s not your burden to fix.
You need to date girls who already know better than this. Girls who already believe what we’re talking about. Virtuous, religious women who don’t even entertain the idea of talking to random guys who just want to fuck. They’re out there. I’ve met girls like that in places like Bali, girls who come home and tell you first thing when a guy spoke to them. Girls who dress respectfully, not half-naked in ass-revealing shorts. There’s a clear difference between women who crave male attention and those who value modesty and loyalty.
Dressing matters. Don’t let degenerates lie to you. If she says she dresses sexy “for herself,” ask yourself what that even means. Is she looking at herself in the mirror getting turned on? Of course not. She dresses like that for male validation. A respectful woman won’t be putting her ass out on display for every dude to see. That’s just the truth. Modesty reflects character.
Even “good girls” lie. You’d be shocked how many seemingly sweet, artistic, innocent girls are out here doing degen shit behind closed doors. And they use something I call trickle truths.
They cheat, or flirt, or fuck another guy and then they tell you “we just kissed.”
Then later it becomes, “okay, we cuddled.”
Then, “okay, we had sex—but just once!”
And eventually it’s, “he came inside me and I might be pregnant and it’s not yours, but I still love you!”
That’s how it escalates. You get lied to step by step until you’re crushed.
I’ve seen it. I’ve lived it. My first girlfriend did this to me. I was a sweet, loyal simp bf and she trickle-truthed me into hell. Because I saw firsthand what these girls can do.
She told me she was just texting an old friend.
Then it was nudes.
Then it was sex.
And she acted like it was no big deal. That broke me, and I learned. That’s why I’m so redpilled now.
So what do you do about all this? You stop dating hoes. You stop ignoring your gut. You stop negotiating with girls who disrespect you. You don’t fix them, you replace them. With high-quality women who live by the same values as you.
Stop lying to yourself. Average guys out here are getting cheated on or will be soon, and they don’t even know it. They ignore their gut, believe her lies, and get played. Don’t be that average guy.
Do the hard work especially when you don’t feel like it.
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