Let's be honest, everything around gender and sexuality is a construct.
If you're a trans guy, being or liking 'feminine' things doesn't make you any less a man. Like wearing makeup or frilly clothes? Still a man. Small shoulder? Boobs? Curves, thick thighs, big butt? Still a man!
And this also applies to cis men! It doesn't make you any less of a man to like quote unquote 'feminine' things.
Trans girl that likes 'masculine' item? Plays 'masculine' sports? Dresses masc? She's still a girl!!
Is that a non-binary person who doesn't look androgynous?! Who uses pronouns that aren't solely they/them?? Crazy concept, but they're still non-binary!
Maybe you're a cis woman who wants to be on T - who am I to tell you what to do with your own body! Maybe you want top surgery as a gender fluid person who may have feminine days. Whatever makes you feel comfortable in your body, go for it!
That agender person calls themselves lesbian instead of an extremely specific label? That's fine! Whatever you're comfortable with. Maybe you love microlabels; even if people don't know them, it feels nice that they describe you! Also totally okay!!
It's so funny how we like to put items and colors and stupid shit into unnecessary boxes. Boxes are suffocating.
No matter your identity, you're valid. These labels are meant to help you express yourself, not make you twist and contort yourself to fit into them!!
TLDR; be yourself unapologetically, as long as it's not hurting others or yourself.
Share if you want, and I hope I don't sound like a crazy man ranting :3
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Let's be honest, everything around gender and sexuality is a construct.
If you're a trans guy, being or liking 'feminine' things doesn't make you any less a man. Like wearing makeup or frilly clothes? Still a man. Small shoulder? Boobs? Curves, thick thighs, big butt? Still a man!
And this also applies to cis men! It doesn't make you any less of a man to like quote unquote 'feminine' things.
Trans girl that likes 'masculine' item? Plays 'masculine' sports? Dresses masc? She's still a girl!!
Is that a non-binary person who doesn't look androgynous?! Who uses pronouns that aren't solely they/them?? Crazy concept, but they're still non-binary!
Maybe you're a cis woman who wants to be on T - who am I to tell you what to do with your own body! Maybe you want top surgery as a gender fluid person who may have feminine days. Whatever makes you feel comfortable in your body, go for it!
That agender person calls themselves lesbian instead of an extremely specific label? That's fine! Whatever you're comfortable with. Maybe you love microlabels; even if people don't know them, it feels nice that they describe you! Also totally okay!!
It's so funny how we like to put items and colors and stupid shit into unnecessary boxes. Boxes are suffocating.
No matter your identity, you're valid. These labels are meant to help you express yourself, not make you twist and contort yourself to fit into them!!
TLDR; be yourself unapologetically, as long as it's not hurting others or yourself.
Share if you want, and I hope I don't sound like a crazy man ranting :3
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