If you're not dating for life, you're dating for break up, let that sink in...
2 days ago
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When you mature, you will realise how "peaceful" the "boring" relationship will be.
2 days ago | 14
I have a life long one of 40 years, but it’s certainly not boring. We’re now both retired, living in Thailand and having the time of our lives. Scuba diving, motorbike riding, travelling, among other things. Longevity doesn’t necessarily = boring.
2 days ago | 7
There's no reason why a long love needs to be boring. We create our experiences
2 days ago | 7
Having both will create a longer stronger bond! But you need the right partner that can match those 'dance moves' wit u !!! ❤️ ❤️ ❤️
2 days ago | 1
Literally either. I'm 3 decades single against my will at this point.
2 days ago | 3
You do realize there is a massive difference between peaceful and boring right?
2 days ago | 2
If you’re passionate about the person than a lifetime wouldn’t be boring. Every new thing you’d learn/discover would be interesting or exciting.. you’d love it, because it’s about someone you love. Have you never really known what love is? I’ve been alone- almost my entire life in a literal sense, and I’ve felt it. Maybe you should ask better less broadly generic questions? Things like: can you love someone more or less? or: does love have a limit? Would you rather mutually fall in love with someone you’ve known your whole life, or someone you have to learn about for the rest of your life? Questions like that.. Just a suggestion. You do you.
1 day ago | 0
I prefer not having to choose or settle. Having someone who recognizes the importance of having a bit of both is what I prefer.
2 days ago | 0
Let’s stop fantasizing about love. Let’s live the love we have, instead of fantasizing about the love that could be.
2 days ago | 2
A peaceful relationship is only boring if one has undealt with childhood issues and/or a korn brain. Peaceful is amazing
1 day ago | 0
I lost the love of my life young. I still wake up and go to sleep everyday thinking of him. His picture is still right next to my bed. I still havent met anyone who even compares to him on ANY level. He would have wanted me to be taken care of but I cant explain how in my core I would be at peace living the rest of my life with my animals, completely alone. My last breath will be a sigh of relief because Ill finally just be able to see his face again. Im many ways it was quick and passionate but it was also a peace that I cant explain. If we had gotten the chance our lives could have been the most boring thing you can think of and I still would have felt alive and trust me I had enough time while he was here to ponder it, and plenty of time since hes been gone to ponder it. What I had with him was far from boring though and Im pretty hard to excite. Excitement with him was never fear or uncertainty or pain or fighting. "Fighting" with him was even peaceful. I cant help but believe that there just arent men like him anymore. He was traditional without the negatives, there were no double standards, there was never any question or feeling unsafe. He had a deep respect for "courting" so to speak, not because he was particularly emotional (he did hard labor more everyday but his real passion was music) or old fashioned due to religion or anything... he just saw the honor and value in courting someone and proving himself because he knew what to look for to know he was getting something that was worth it. And he didnt just throw money or fancy dinners around, he actually cared. He listened and showed his character and values through seeing a problem and acting in a way that said "I know you can handle this but I want to do it FOR you". In so many ways, those actions in the beginning showed me who he was as a person, his value, the immense level of respect he deserved, how safe he was... He was one of the few men that I trusted for advice/opinions/perspectives. He never hesitated when it came to doing the right thing, even when no one saw, when he didnt get recognition or a reward for it. He was truly an angel. But no one would have guessed that just based off of looks or his way of speaking/sense of humor. I think everyone would have assumed he was mysterious, self-reliant, introspective, maybe even a little dark with a hard exterior. I always loved that juxtaposition. He would sit down with you and listen to a song and truly listen to the lyrics and give you his full attention. I also never once heard him ever make an excuse....for anything. And trust me he had his priorities straight and nothing ever made him waver on that, but if he could do something he would. If he did something he felt he shouldn't have, hed say it and immediately show remorse even if it was something small. He knew that trust was gained in drops and lost in buckets. He had a system that he lived by that wasnt brainwashed into him or branded into him due to politics. He really thought for himself and you couldnt put him into a box. I could write books about him. All of this to say, sometimes the peaceful is passionate. You dont always have to have one or the other, although its rare today...
2 days ago | 2
KETNEL 🎶
Would you rather have a short passionate love or a long peaceful one? ⏳
3 days ago | [YT] | 33