Sacred Knowledge Tarot

Hey my beautiful friends… I wanted to come into this space with you today because something one of our community members said stayed with me, and the moment I read it, I knew so many others would feel the same way. They wrote:

“Everyone says, ‘let it go,’ but some things are not so easy to let go… and no one tells you how. Sometimes even if one wants to, one doesn’t know how.”

And I felt that in my chest because it’s true, we hear that phrase everywhere, in healing, in spirituality, in self development, in tarot.
But no one breaks it down.
No one explains what “letting go” actually looks like in real human life, inside a real nervous system, inside someone who has lived through real things.

So I want to sit with you here, slowly and gently, and talk about it in a way that feels human and doable, not mystical or vague, because every person deserves to understand how to release something without feeling lost or ashamed for struggling.

In my own life, I’ve held onto things far longer than I should have, not because I wanted to stay stuck, but because I was afraid of the version of myself I would have to grow into if I let it go. Transformation takes energy, awareness, courage… and sometimes we’re tired, or scared, or simply not ready yet. And that doesn’t mean you’re weak. It means you’re human.

So let’s take this slowly.

Letting go starts with understanding.
Letting go continues with honesty.
Letting go completes with repetition.

Here’s how the process really works:

1. Get clear about what exactly you’re holding onto.

Letting go isn’t a vague energetic action, it’s identifying something specific.
Is it a belief?
A habit?
A fear?
A person?
A memory?
A version of yourself that no longer feels right?

When you name it, it stops being a shadow and becomes something you can actually face. Most people never take this step, and that’s why they feel stuck.

2. Understand what it has been doing for you.

Even painful things offer comfort or protection.
Sometimes we hold onto something because it feels familiar.
Sometimes it gives us an excuse not to take the next step.
Sometimes it shields us from change we don’t feel ready for.

Letting go becomes easier when you realize, “I’m not weak, I was protecting myself.”

3. Let yourself grieve the version of you that lived with it.

Releasing something isn’t just about removing it, it’s about letting go of the identity attached to it.
The you who was afraid.
The you who fought to survive.
The you who accepted less because you didn’t know better yet.

Grief is part of releasing.
It’s normal to feel sadness, confusion, or emptiness on the way out of something.

4. Replace it with something you can hold instead.

Letting go creates a space, and your mind will fill that space automatically. So you want to choose what goes there.

A new thought.
A new boundary.
A new routine.
A new belief about who you’re becoming.

When you give your mind something better to hold, letting go stops feeling like loss and starts feeling like transition.

5. Practice micro release, not big dramatic moments.

Letting go happens in tiny, consistent shifts, not in one perfect breakthrough.

It sounds like:
“I don’t need to think that today.”
“I don’t respond to that anymore.”
“I choose differently this time.”
“I’m ready to walk in a new direction.”

Small choices, repeated daily, create the release you’ve been trying to force.

6. And remember… letting go doesn’t mean forgetting.

It means the thing no longer decides your life or your identity.
It means it doesn’t run the show.
It means you are choosing to live from your present instead of your past.

I hope this helps someone who needed a real explanation, not a cliché, not a pretty phrase, but an actual starting point for healing.

Now I want to open this space to you…

If you’ve ever let go of something heavy, a habit, a fear, a person, a mindset, or a version of yourself, what truly helped you release it? What was the moment or practice that made a difference?

Your experiences might be exactly what someone else needs to read today.

Love Always,
Rhea 💗

#lettingitgo #sacredknowledgetarot #howtoletgo

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@carladeroode8637

Thank you for explaining this so clearly. I let go of a old version of my self, after I lost my husband. I took small steps, change habits, food, thoughts. One step at the time. Sport, meditation and walks in nature really helped me to find the truth and path in myself to let go of the old en find the new version of me.💞

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@MadisonHankemeier

Always remember you are here for a reason, Someone above saw you in their vision, part of a remarkable mission; you must follow your intuition. Don't let fear consume your decisions and get caught in all of life's illusions. When you're faced with a difficult task, If you're not sure you're on the right path, Give yourself time, give yourself grace— We are all human; we all make mistakes. Be the one who learns the lessons, Ask yourself the right questions. In the end, just follow your heart; Do not ever give in to the dark. Love yourself, heal your demons, Be the light, be the beacon. Be the difference this world needs. You don't know how? Hear take it from me: No matter what you go through, always remember to stay pure and true. When someone you love shockingly hurts you, With words that were once so sweet, Making you feel seen and complete, Only then to come and see, That their actions aren't quite what they seem, Making you question your own reality— Those once kind words start to change, cutting you deep, making you bleed, slowly breaking your wings. No matter what, no matter how, You must find a way to fly out. Find the light that's always within; Shine so bright, shine so strong, —be the source That ignites the brokenness they suppress deep in their subconsciousness. What they've done is a reflection of them. Some people weren't shown love or affection. It's not their fault, and you know it, so you take it: again and again like a ritual battle. They feed their inner demons with substance to try to reason with their pain, Ignoring all their hurt and suffering. If they could take a moment to pause, to see in the root cause Instead of blaming you for the drama that their unhealed trauma has caused, With the numbness of each hit, he won't own up to his fucked up shit. This is the moment a woman awakens, the moment that stirs and shakens everything that man's been faking— The truth he's forgotten within himself, and it scares the hell out of him, So he runs, and abandons not just me, but also his son. Most women tend to fight back, over-explaining in their lack—it does no good, there is no purpose. That right there is the source of toxicity he needs to fuel his ego. So be the difference this world needs; It starts by planting tiny seeds. Follow your intuition, search for inner guidance, you are loved more than you know; you are something truly incredible. When you feel like you're all alone, Don't sit and replay all the violence Instead, calm it down, sit with the silence. Go to nature, breathe in all the precious miracles, and listen close. What you'll hear is divine’s pure love gentle whispers…

1 week ago | 11

@Greysonblack-r7r

I didn’t realize how much I needed this…

1 week ago | 11

@strawbrrybunny

Thank you. I truly needed this. I am letting go of illusions, the fantasy other people will do what's right. I'm letting go of abusive relationships in career, romance, and family. Ive decided to stop fighting for space in places I don't belong in. I deserve better: truth, love without pain in every area of my life. I am proud of who I am and I walk away from toxic work, romantic, and family relationships.

1 week ago | 11

@Ladyj_media

Thank you for a clear and hands on description of what “letting go” looks like. I started my healing journey five years ago. The seed was planted, five years ago, but the healing didn’t start until a year later after I started thearpy, which was five years ago. In essence, like a Gardner, not only did I planted the seeds of healing, but also planted a new version of myself, a new way of thinking, seeing, feeling, and the healing doesn’t stop, because a newer version of self is being planted everyday❤. Healing is powerful, take your time to plant the seed for your well-being.

5 days ago | 1

@LynetteSloss

Thank you Rhea!🙏 I started letting go 2 years after my husband's passing. I started doing Shadow Work. It really helped me to move through the grieving process. This year has been a year of incredible transformation for me and each time I feel stuck or stagnant, I use Shadow Work to let go. Last night I released to the full moon. ❤❤❤ Wishing you and your followers Love, Light and Blessings!!💜💜🕊️

1 week ago | 12

@mellowyellowbus

To me, letting go is grieving. Often it's grieving your hopes and expectations for something external and accepting what is...what is offered. For example, I grieve the version of family I had hopes and expectations of... and I accept what they can offer with boundaries.

1 week ago | 9

@amandawilson12

Thank you. This really hit home with me today. Sometimes I think my heart will never heal, then I read a post such as this one. You give me hope for better days. Letting go of someone very near and dear to me is not easy. They have their own healing to do before we can be together again. 😭💔 I know it's for the best, but that doesn't make it any easie

1 week ago | 13

@adriannehess4618

I sat in my closet and said I was ready to face one of my shadows. It came slowly but it did come. I was in tears. I went to my closet the next night and they told me I didn't need to be there now, so I left. I'm still working on what I was shown that night but what you have said will help me move past it. Thank you for your love and kindness. 💖🙏

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@AlluringLeo3

Rhea thank you. Even in my dark moments of healing and expansion that feel like everything is so hard or gets me down very very down, the Universe never leaves me to drown so I can get through to the light and this was that for me today.. the last two collective readings videos you posted have resonated very intensely especially yesterdays video it even left me in awe and I’m used to daily guidance so it was a beautiful experience to be aligned with your message and feel that spark again when I first started seeing synchronicities.. I watch your reading every morning it’s always the first video on my feed it never fails but I think it’s because you are definitely a part of my souls journey and one of my guides and I’m so grateful for your beautiful soul 💫

5 days ago | 1

@puckhamhall8010

💚 For me it is working the 12 step program rather than just paying it lip service

1 week ago | 5

@negarroshanzamir7884

Just what I needed to hear now! Thank you, thank you, thank you beauuuuutiful Rhea! 🙏💕🙏💕🙏💕🙏

1 week ago | 6

@Evesexton-7

This is a beautiful well articulated guide to letting go. Thank you Rhea. ❤

1 week ago | 1

@Indirani-m7i

Thank you for this message...the real change began when I started my healing journey from narcissistic abuse. I have been following your channel for a while now and the last few weeks have been especially helpful and supportive ❤

1 week ago | 10

@Marge505

I've never commented before but someone, as you've mentioned, may relate or it'll spark something in them. I became a widow, a month after celebrating our 40th anniversary in 2011. Married my best friend I've known since 1st grade. Things were challenging after his service, as a disabled vetetan. I stayed true to my wedding vows. Never abandoned him or our children in the midst of the absence of a tad bit of the heartfelt support, patience, help in a myriad of ways that I chose to do from my heart and how I was taught. The thought...just the thought alone that, "No more I've had it moved me in a direction for the last 14 years that, no matter how challenging and scary it was for me...knowing that a brighter side awaited for my arrival, for me was well worth it. Ty Rhea for you & your supportive husband's example of sharing and caring for each other and the collective.Much Love, Respect and Infinite Power, Setenity, Fun, Contentment to you Rhea 💚💜💙🌿

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@BasilKoe

Rhea❤,thank you for this breakdown..letting go of unnecessary thoughts and feelings was a little hard for me,maybe cause my “bruised ego”!,but this message really help me have clarity,and most importantly , a way to really let go..❤️🌺..🙏❤️🙏

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@laurieruttenberg5821

Beautiful.

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@jadechurchill7181

❤🙏

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@aminamm3103

(Piles 3 & 4) Congratulations on both your union and your athletic accomplishments! You have much to celebrate. 😊 And you looked lovely in the intr

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@janet3929

I am going through a horrible time in my life 21/2 years ago my husband died and now my son who had sepsis 3 yrs ago and was very ill. He made it through it but he couldnt walk and had neuropathy and he was in and out of hospitals over the 3 years each time something else would be wrong this last time i guess sepsis had damaged his heart kidneys and liver he was so ill this time and he passed away November 30 at the age of 46 im devastated i can’t understand all of this.

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