Lately, Iāve been catching myself in a pattern of overthinking, second-guessing my value, and quietly questioning whether I have what it takes to build the business and channel I envision. Itās like Iām rehearsing old internal scripts that say Iām not enough or that Iām faking it or that what I'm offering is not valuable. And yeah, imposter syndrome has been loud. Just naming it here to break the echo chamber and move forward. ā¤ I appreciate you all so much!
1 week ago | 62
Telling myself that no man wants me so that I donāt have to deal with rejection and heartbreak.
2 days ago | 1
Iām lost in the sea of tasks and just canāt figure my way out. Perfection in the way of progress. Iām not taking care of myself and definitely feel worthless probably due to lack of action towards the tasks or inability to catch up to that list. Dating in NYC has been a disaster; acting stoic even in the face of disappointment has been taxing for me as a guy, whereas I should be very upfront about how I feel. I am overly critical of myself and keep myself in a vicious cycle that I havenāt been in a relationship ever because maybe thereās something wrong with me on a fundamental level. Very burnt out from everything and when I feel burnt out I close out everyone; even the very few friends I do have in my life.
1 week ago (edited) | 5
I think I may be sabotaging my ability to feel love because deep down, maybe I donāt feel worthy or enough. Or I let anxiety take control and the āwhat ifsā feel too much like reality at times.
6 days ago | 1
My way of self sabotaging is abandoning a peaceful-nonproblematic relations somehow & I just realised it through a recent incident. Also off topic but romatic relationship really brings out the rotten raw you. I saw myself getting directed by my past experiences, fears & insecurities while navigating the relationship. My vulnerability is carrying it. As long as I've no attachments it's all sunshine but then my vulnerability kicks in (not seeing it a villain) and gradually I subconsciously start to subtly test them, I seek validation to an extreme, a bit uncertainty and boom I get trigger, tense & overthink. I obsessively daydream & think about my partner all day. Each tiniest piece of action I'll analyze & take it to the huge. Productivity 0, focusing on life 0 just this one aspect what matters, what stays, what I think of... I procrastinate. I'm disinterested in every aspect; academics, career growth, hobbies, activities, social life, family. Only being partner is the job I CHOOSE. It's easy, to depend emotionally-mentally & to victimize self & blame it on to them. I'm working on it. As now I'm getting aware of all of my this problematic & toxic traits. Thanks to me allowing myself to be a girlfriend this saw me alot.
1 week ago | 6
I seem to constantly dissociate into the perfect future. I am so enamored by how good my future can be I end up day dreaming and getting lost, I find it hard to be in the present moment and work on what I could be doing now to create that future. I'm definitely not lazy, I just know I am dissatisfied with where I am and would rather be focusing on the future - which has been sabotaging me a little
5 days ago | 2
I keep thinking about the things I should do instead of just starting. I'll make lists and daydream about how great doing the work will be. But I haven't really done anything and it's been weeks since I planned it.
6 days ago | 1
I sabotage some of my manifestations because I think releasing control = admitting powerlessness on my side, and relying on the universe = being too weak to achieve things on my own. It's ridiculous, I know, but it's where I'm at.
6 days ago | 1
I have been wanting to start a blog since forever, maybe a decade. And you know what's stopping me? The technology of it. I can't seem to understand what a domain is and how to host it, whether I'd have to pay or if I can host a domain for free. Regardless, these are all apparent challenges that I have had the last 10 years to overcome but I haven't done it so far. Getting in my own way for all these years!
6 days ago | 1
I just realized yesterday how negative my self-talk has been lately. I've been second guessing all my decisions and projecting all my fears. Yikes! I literally just resolved to start working on this today. It won't be easy, but I'm going to do my best.
6 days ago | 0
Not living my life to the best of my ability I'm procrastinating because I fear the worst is going to come when I'm the happiest.
6 days ago | 0
I had surgery and lost momentum, what little I had to begin with. I'm trying to convince myself to get moving again and finding it hard to get out of bed and do stuff. I don't necessarily feel depressed. I feel tired. I have a desire to do stuff. But I'm not entirely sure what. I have a desire to do the next thing, but the energy isn't there. I feel like a very large thing slowly gathering up the momentum to do a thing. I don't know what. I don't know how. But something. Something under the surface is moving. Pent up. Desiring me to do something. It will break through. But what and how and to do what. I have no idea.
3 days ago | 0
I am pushing people away because I am afraid that they discover how empty, boring and shy I am. I am isolating myself.
1 week ago | 2
recently been stuck in the "one more day" aspect regarding pornography, knowing damn well i can do it if i just put my mind to it.
1 week ago | 2
procrastinating on tasks that actually are forms of selfcare - hygiene, doing dishes, vacuuming etc
1 week ago
| 1
This might come off as slightly misogynistic, trust me itās not my intention. I never thought i could learn so many things that makes a man more masculine from a woman
6 days ago | 0
I am scared to give my competitive exam, recently last year's result was announced. It is very very high. TT I feel dumb and it feels like there are many better people who should do that. But I have been preparing for so long, I feel hopeless but I also have to do itš
4 days ago | 0
My self doubt that someone else will come and replaced by my sp was my neg thought. How can I change that and what any be the reason of such a thought even she promised me that she will come back to me when situation gives as her family is against the relationship. But she promised to fight for me. I doubt that words and going in fearful and intrusive thoughts does she change mind or not,does another person replace me.etx...what should I be doing.
2 days ago | 0
Charlotte Morabito
š In what ways do you feel like you've been sabotaging yourself?
I've been struggling with some self-sabotaging lately -- getting in my own way -- and it takes a lot of sneaky forms. I'll go first š Check it out in the comments.
1 week ago (edited) | [YT] | 137