This weekend, I was sitting in a bead pit with a bunch of little girls while my son played with the beads. I couldn’t help but overhear the girls arguing about who should be the queen.
One said, “I’m better, so I should be the queen!”
Another countered, “No, I’m bigger, so I should be the queen!”
And listen, I get it- this is such a formative time for them. Beliefs are being shaped, self-worth is being built (or broken), and the “I’m not enough” stories are starting to form.
So, I gently jumped in and said:
“What if you’re a queen, and you’re a queen, and you’re a queen… and guess what? I’m a queen too!”
They all stared at me, confused.
I continued:
“What if there’s no one queen because we’re all the queens of being ourselves?”
Suddenly, their eyes lit up and big smiles spread across their faces.
Why am I telling you this?
Because that belief that there’s only one crown, one spot at the top, one version of perfection we all need to strive for- is quietly killing our joy and abundance.
And when we buy into it, we judge ourselves… and we judge others.
I know- it gives us a temporary hit of superiority or safety.
But the cost?
We’re drinking poison.
We’re reinforcing lack.
And we’re blocking the flow of abundance we deeply desire.
In this week’s podcast, I dive into this silent abundance killer and how to finally shift it for good.
Effortlessly Abundant Life
This weekend, I was sitting in a bead pit with a bunch of little girls while my son played with the beads. I couldn’t help but overhear the girls arguing about who should be the queen.
One said, “I’m better, so I should be the queen!”
Another countered, “No, I’m bigger, so I should be the queen!”
And listen, I get it- this is such a formative time for them. Beliefs are being shaped, self-worth is being built (or broken), and the “I’m not enough” stories are starting to form.
So, I gently jumped in and said:
“What if you’re a queen, and you’re a queen, and you’re a queen… and guess what? I’m a queen too!”
They all stared at me, confused.
I continued:
“What if there’s no one queen because we’re all the queens of being ourselves?”
Suddenly, their eyes lit up and big smiles spread across their faces.
Why am I telling you this?
Because that belief that there’s only one crown, one spot at the top, one version of perfection we all need to strive for- is quietly killing our joy and abundance.
And when we buy into it, we judge ourselves… and we judge others.
I know- it gives us a temporary hit of superiority or safety.
But the cost?
We’re drinking poison.
We’re reinforcing lack.
And we’re blocking the flow of abundance we deeply desire.
In this week’s podcast, I dive into this silent abundance killer and how to finally shift it for good.
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