Imagine having a mentor. Crazy privilege level there. Imagine having a safe adult that cares about your well being. Nuts. Imagine being able to trust an adult for any reason. Imagine what kind of life you'd have to have to be able to have that. Its crazy to me how much people take that for granted. I see people with loving parents who take advantage of their kindness. People with teachers that wanted to see them succeed and thrive that do nothing with their lives. Family members who treat them like an individual with wants and dreams and their own thoughts. People who only want to see them succeed. And they squander that. What i would have given up to have 1 supportive adult in my life growing up. 1 person i could put my trust in and have it actually not be a naive stupid thing to do. 1 person that didn't give up on me just for being "not enough". Its recently been expressed to me that my worldview is very much formed by the fact that I have never had putting my trust in an adult go anything but poorly at best, and at worst the reason I'm still in therapy. I want to learn how to be able to trust people and be able to put my faith into trustworthy people who are actually good people. But holy cow man. People are more selfish now than they've ever been. People are so shitty dude. Im trying my best to pursue self improvement but I feel like I keep getting the wool pulled over me by manipulative and covert people. Its so easy to be fooled these days. People have gotten so good at hiding their narcissism. I guess what im trying tk say is... Hey guys please don't fall for people that pretend to be your ally or have your back. Always keep safe, and pay attention. Dont let yourself be manipulated. If someone has to twist your criticism to make themselves look like they arent actually wrong, thats a big red flag. If you stand up for yourself and someone is deflecting and turning it into an accusation on them, thats a big red flag. You can go through trauma without going through your joker arc. I think gen Z may have forgot this. Therapy exists. Maybe like...idk utilize it.
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Imagine having a mentor. Crazy privilege level there. Imagine having a safe adult that cares about your well being. Nuts. Imagine being able to trust an adult for any reason. Imagine what kind of life you'd have to have to be able to have that.
Its crazy to me how much people take that for granted. I see people with loving parents who take advantage of their kindness. People with teachers that wanted to see them succeed and thrive that do nothing with their lives. Family members who treat them like an individual with wants and dreams and their own thoughts. People who only want to see them succeed. And they squander that.
What i would have given up to have 1 supportive adult in my life growing up. 1 person i could put my trust in and have it actually not be a naive stupid thing to do. 1 person that didn't give up on me just for being "not enough".
Its recently been expressed to me that my worldview is very much formed by the fact that I have never had putting my trust in an adult go anything but poorly at best, and at worst the reason I'm still in therapy. I want to learn how to be able to trust people and be able to put my faith into trustworthy people who are actually good people.
But holy cow man. People are more selfish now than they've ever been. People are so shitty dude. Im trying my best to pursue self improvement but I feel like I keep getting the wool pulled over me by manipulative and covert people. Its so easy to be fooled these days. People have gotten so good at hiding their narcissism.
I guess what im trying tk say is...
Hey guys please don't fall for people that pretend to be your ally or have your back. Always keep safe, and pay attention. Dont let yourself be manipulated. If someone has to twist your criticism to make themselves look like they arent actually wrong, thats a big red flag. If you stand up for yourself and someone is deflecting and turning it into an accusation on them, thats a big red flag.
You can go through trauma without going through your joker arc. I think gen Z may have forgot this.
Therapy exists. Maybe like...idk utilize it.
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