Halu Fanfiction

Hi my dear sweetheart 💖💜 I want to say something a bit long, if you find it boring, feel free to skip it.

I don’t understand why there are still some viewers who, even though they already know I always write happy endings, still dare to request sad endings. Their excuse is usually, “Just because the male and female leads separate at the end doesn’t mean it’s a sad ending, it could actually be happy.” Okay, I can accept that. In some cases, separating them really is the best choice. But stories like that just aren’t my style.

I admit, about a year ago I did write an ending like that, because in that story Jungkook made the huge mistake of prioritizing another woman when he was already married. So to me, the only fitting ending was to separate them. But you know what? I regret ever writing that story, and I will never do that again. My heart just rejects it. On top of that, even my husband lectured me, saying, “Why waste your precious time and limited energy just to write stories like that?”

So please, if you already know I’m an author who’s firmly against sad endings, let’s respect each other. Don’t try to persuade me or criticize me with the real intention of changing my principles and commitment. I’ve said it clearly: I don’t like sad endings. So don’t tell me to write them no matter what excuse you give. “Life isn’t always sweet, not always happy…”, okay, I get it. But here, I’m not playing savior of the world, trying to teach people about real life. I’m a storymaker, writing fiction that reflects only what I want. Let me emphasize that again: I write stories with the life I want them to have, meaning the plots and scenes I “intentionally” create that way. I get to choose what kind of conflict to include, but only the ones that, in “my view,” can still lead to a happy ending.

I still can’t understand why some people feel the need to force others, when they should know you can’t actually force anyone, whether through advice, suggestions, criticism, or “options.” For example, I often face people who think I must listen to their criticism, using language that sounds like a command as if they’re absolutely right. Or people dictating what I should do, again, in a way that’s forcing me to follow them. Hello? Why do you think you can control me?

Back in college, in my fourth year, we had a class for an entire year called “Personality Development.” Its purpose was to prepare us mentally to face pressure in work and business. One thing I clearly remember was this statement: “Don’t force others to change for you when you yourself struggle to change.”

Example: if you don’t like your work environment, because of your boss or colleagues, don’t act like a hero trying to change that environment. You should be the one to leave. You don’t need to give “advice” or “criticism” expecting others to follow you. You adjust yourself to the place, and if you truly feel it’s unhealthy, then you walk away.

On the flip side, if we’re business owners or people with resources, we don’t have to accept every piece of criticism unfiltered, it’s not just about whether the criticism is right or wrong, but whether it’s suitable or not. It’s not as simple as “I must accept everything because I’m open to feedback.” Honestly, that’s just formal talk no one actually practices☺️ Why? Because everyone has the right to accept or reject criticism, and no one can force that.💁‍♀️

So I’m just sharing a little insight here, maybe my words will help some people realize they don’t need to feel overly confident about being able to “change” someone else or make others follow them. And if anyone feels what I’m saying is unimportant, it probably means you’re just used to imposing your will on others. That’s fine if that’s how you feel, but the truth is, you still can’t actually change other people. I can’t change you either. But I can make rules for myself, including for my own channel.

If you feel “entitled” to comment however you like, whether polite or not, fine, go ahead. The comment section is for you. But YouTube also gives me the authority to delete comments or leave them up, and that’s my right. End of story. I just want peace on my channel, and that is my right as the channel owner.

Thank you so much to those of you who have always supported me, respected the stories I create, and left kind comments. Love you all! 💋💖💜😘

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