If you, maybe because of insensitivity to shame or approval, or for some other reason, think, “There's no other way for children to escape anyway, so I'd rather have them fend for themselves,” and in turn seem to support treating them strictly and harshly, then I don't see how you're “intrinsically unruly and rebellious”. If you hate the discipline imposed on you, but when you were a child you just said to yourself and your peers “I can't get away with this anyway, so I'm going to say I support it,” and then after you stopped being a child you supported, or said you supported what you hated, on the grounds that you wanted children to fend for themselves, then your “intrinsical unruliness and rebelliousness” is actually killed by yourself, and is actually a dried-up corpse hanging on the cloud of your fantasy.
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If you, maybe because of insensitivity to shame or approval, or for some other reason, think, “There's no other way for children to escape anyway, so I'd rather have them fend for themselves,” and in turn seem to support treating them strictly and harshly, then I don't see how you're “intrinsically unruly and rebellious”. If you hate the discipline imposed on you, but when you were a child you just said to yourself and your peers “I can't get away with this anyway, so I'm going to say I support it,” and then after you stopped being a child you supported, or said you supported what you hated, on the grounds that you wanted children to fend for themselves, then your “intrinsical unruliness and rebelliousness” is actually killed by yourself, and is actually a dried-up corpse hanging on the cloud of your fantasy.
如果你，或许是因为对羞耻或认同不敏感，或许是因为其他原因，心想“反正孩子也没有其他办法逃离，不如要他们自力更生”，然后反过来似乎支持严厉对待他们，那么我看不到你是怎么“本质上不羁而叛逆”的。如果你憎恨别人强加于你的管教，但是个孩子时只是对自己和同龄人说“我无论如何都无法逃离，所以我要说我支持这些管教”，不再是孩子之后又以要孩子自力更生为由支持你憎恨的东西，或者说你“支持那些管教”这样的话，那么你的“本质上的不羁而叛逆”实际上被你自己杀死了，你所谓的“不羁和叛逆”实际上只是干瘪的尸体，吊死在你幻想的云上。
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