Sorry for this but i need help… (Im bout to trauma dump on you guys)
All of you know this, but since the hack of my old Youtube, my life has taken a dramatic dip down, and its been only going down since there.
Let me explain, After the Youtube hack, my dad offered me to work with them in their family bussiness, since i had literally no other option to get money from, i took it.
(Worst mistake of my life) This company is owned by my uncle, (a typical rich and ignorant boomer, who you cannot tell he is wrong or he might fire you, i’ve seen him done it to other employees), he is extremely toxic and very aggresive, he speaks like if he were screaming at something, my whole dad’s family kinda share this same trait, and my uncle’s bussiness literally runs the whole family.
My dad, is a very stubborn, toxic and misogynist person, if you do not share his way of thinking he often will put shame on you for not being “mentally successful”, he also shares the traits of being toxic and get irritated VERY and i mean VERY easily.
Those 2, are my bosses here, i work as secretary in this place, and my everyday job is being enclosed in an office with my dad and uncle coming my way every 30 minutes, i barely see any other person.
My issue here is that, no matter how good your work is, these individuals will always want more from you, and if you dont comply you will most likely be fired, i get the work of an employee but get treated as a family member (they won’t care if they say slurs or if they are abusive).
I often get put work related to editing and marketing, something that is not my area here, but since they know i do Youtube, they just throw that extra work at me “for free”, not bonus not anything.
I can count with my fingers (of one hand) the times when they were nice to me, or the times they have ever said “Thank you”, there is way too many examples i could say to explain why this place is extremely demotivating and toxic.
Its a place i want to leave as soon as possible but the only thing keeping me here is the paycheck, its a good paycheck, but i believe thats the only good thing this place have.
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Sorry for this but i need help…
(Im bout to trauma dump on you guys)
All of you know this, but since the hack of my old Youtube, my life has taken a dramatic dip down, and its been only going down since there.
Let me explain,
After the Youtube hack, my dad offered me to work with them in their family bussiness, since i had literally no other option to get money from, i took it.
(Worst mistake of my life)
This company is owned by my uncle, (a typical rich and ignorant boomer, who you cannot tell he is wrong or he might fire you, i’ve seen him done it to other employees), he is extremely toxic and very aggresive, he speaks like if he were screaming at something, my whole dad’s family kinda share this same trait, and my uncle’s bussiness literally runs the whole family.
My dad, is a very stubborn, toxic and misogynist person, if you do not share his way of thinking he often will put shame on you for not being “mentally successful”, he also shares the traits of being toxic and get irritated VERY and i mean VERY easily.
Those 2, are my bosses here, i work as secretary in this place, and my everyday job is being enclosed in an office with my dad and uncle coming my way every 30 minutes, i barely see any other person.
My issue here is that, no matter how good your work is, these individuals will always want more from you, and if you dont comply you will most likely be fired, i get the work of an employee but get treated as a family member (they won’t care if they say slurs or if they are abusive).
I often get put work related to editing and marketing, something that is not my area here, but since they know i do Youtube, they just throw that extra work at me “for free”, not bonus not anything.
I can count with my fingers (of one hand) the times when they were nice to me, or the times they have ever said “Thank you”, there is way too many examples i could say to explain why this place is extremely demotivating and toxic.
Its a place i want to leave as soon as possible but the only thing keeping me here is the paycheck, its a good paycheck, but i believe thats the only good thing this place have.
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