Since having a baby I’ve realised how awful Islam is. “You just have to be queen of the house and stay home and raise the kids” yet you are expected to give birth and still wait on your husband hand and foot. It’s all I could think about in those weeks post partum is I could have gone through that and right now I would be having to do house work and cooking. I couldn’t stop thinking about the women in that situation. Luckily I now have a non Muslim husband who was very supportive through those first few weeks. He made his own food and lunches and never moaned at me I wasn’t doing housewife duties. I still can’t believe husband doesn’t have to help wife. Sad sad sad
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married at 16 to a sexagenarian or older? Heh! Try 12, 11, 10, 9, or even 6 being forced into marriage to pdf file islamicist beardos.
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At any age, arranged or forced marriage is nothing more than theological or cultural human trafficking because it’s always about the wants of the culture, religion or family, not the two people being forced to marry. It should be outlawed in every civilized society.
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in Islam , there is no legal age to marry. In Surat at-Talaq (divorce), a verse talks about how many months a married women should be given before divorcing. It states that those who are past their years of menstruation , 3 months and also to those who have not yet reached their years of menstruation.. Basically saying that any girl at any age can be married..further the verse is implying that the 3 month period is given just incase the person is pregnant and so 3 months will show u if they are… The question is.. why would a girl who has not even started her cycles, need to wait 3 months.. unless the man is already having relations with her… Ex-Muslim Surat at-Talaq 65:4 As for your women past the age of menstruation, in case you do not know, their waiting period is three months, and those who have not menstruated as well. As for those who are pregnant, their waiting period ends with delivery.1 And whoever is mindful of Allah, He will make their matters easy for them.
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No for any creed, even if a creed demands it or parents give permission legally or not. My reasons are as follows: 1.Age. 2. Lack of education. 3. Lack of financial stability. 4. Lack of freedom. 5. Risk to health Wholistically speaking[ physical, psychological; etc.].
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Well I could say yes, as a member of an old family. The crucial difference is how Islam treats women. Almost all my ancestors were married like that until the 50, so I get to meet only good experiences. But well, we were an old Catholic family and if someone laid a finger in our women, mothers or sister they ended up disappearing.
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NAH MAN YOU GOT IT WRONG...... IT WAS 6 DAMN IT.... 666 to be accurate 😂😂
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You have to be cautious whenever someone converts to be with someone. Plus, he didn't propose, he agreed to an ultimatum. So, not too surprised it didn't last. In fact, I wouldn't be surprised if he never planned to stay.
1 week ago | 11
Lowering the age of consent in USA is gross. We cannot go backwards.
6 days ago | 2
My grandparents were engaged by 15 and married by 18, but they chose each other and were together till he passed at 59. She passed at 83. They married because my grandad was conscripted. This was the 1950s though
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Don't forget its either going to be a stranger much older - or a cousin.
1 week ago | 3
You think educated Muslim woman in west have a choice 😂 in Pakistan and India n Bangladesh they have … not in UK
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Mr. and Mrs. Friendly Exmuslim
Is getting married at 16 a good idea?
When a Muslim girl and a Jewish guy start to become more than friends, the Muslim girl's mother gives her an ultimatum: either never talk to this guy again, or get married. This left the Muslim girl to choose between two extremes, not fully understanding the scope of the decision she was about to make.
Yesterday, we covered a girl that got married at 16 and divorced at 17. This decision didn't happen in a vacuum. Her mother did not pull this idea out of thin air. In Islam, women are not allowed to be alone with the opposite gender unless it's their husband, brother, or father. He was also non-Muslim, and Muslim women are not allowed to marry non-Muslim men. Men and women are also encouraged to marry young, but I would argue, even in this case, many Muslim parents would be opposed to something like this.
This story is wild, and if you want to hear what happened to Maryam and her story, watch now. ⬇️
https://youtu.be/IFhswnclqx0
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