𝓐𝓶𝓸𝓻𝓻𝓮𝓲

I’ve learned something.
It’s fine to love people, it’s normal to get jealous when you see them with others.
But, ruining your own mental health, just for nothing? Nah, it’s not worth it.
Yeah sure, it’s fine to get jealous and all but they aren’t worth your energy and time. Just move on, replace them if it’s needed, leave it like that.
Don’t waste your time and health over people that don’t deserve it. I said what I said.

1 week ago (edited) | [YT] | 18



@MoAlhab

Aww Im going through a rough time so this is really helpful. tysm smm

1 week ago | 2  

@youronlychae

So real

1 week ago | 0  

@novikinari

This advice is important! Here's why. Btw you don't have to read lolll Last year I was in a relationship that was really unstable. They had crushes on multiple other people during the relationship and came out as poly only to decide they weren't poly later, and I guess that made me feel like I wasn't safe of valued in the relationship. They also would frequently snap at me and talk to me like I was an idiot or an annoying child. Instead of leaving like I should have, I tried to hold on tighter and I ended up getting very jealous when I saw them with others and being super clingy because I was afraid they'd leave otherwise. This often manifested in the form of being overly touchy or having panic attacks. Doing this pushed them away and made them leave. I only saw how toxic both of us were to each other afterwards. I'm glad I'm out of the relationship now but I still feel incredibly guilty for the way I behaved towards them. They've confronted me about it several times over text and I feel worse about myself each time, I honestly don't know what to do.

6 days ago | 0  

@ktuberholic

Tysm :(

6 days ago (edited) | 0  

@hazelspagee

This guy that I liked, I used to think of him as the best and I used to constantly put him on a pedestal yk even tho I knew there was no chance anything could happen between us and now I understand that I can’t keep on ruining my mental health for him and if he really is the one then love itself will find me and I wont have to keep on chasing it

6 days ago | 0  

@9wice_sparkle

Thanks I'll try not to OVERthink about my crush to whom I just confessed like 3 days ago, but he prolly likes me back too. But regardless I'm scared..are you fine btw, as u wrote this?

3 days ago (edited) | 0