I totally understand how it can become lonely, Emi, but I promise you, if you learn to really become your own best friend and love your own company as much (or sometimes more) as others’, you’ll only ever choose to be with someone who enhances your life rather than becomes a liability. You’ll be very protective of your sacred space and will never again be with someone out of fear. It is incredibly liberating. Kudos to you for being brave enough to leave a life behind that was not serving you. It shows character and that you value yourself.
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Thank you so much for sharing this, Emi. I walked out of a marriage four years ago, and, like you, I’ve always dreamt of having kids and a family. Since then, I’ve been single and on this journey to truly feel alive. Reading your story, I feel a kinship with you, and it gives me hope to know there are others on a similar path. For a while, I avoided weddings and distanced myself from extended family, mostly to protect myself from their judgment and pity. Your story resonates deeply with me.
5 months ago | 19
Nooooo 😭 I'm so sorry, didn't know anything bout your divorce... Hope you be alright soon ❤
5 months ago | 45
Those last 3 lines actually took away the fear of unknown, that it's perfectly alright to feel the pain and hopelessness while aiming for your best life and to leave all the bad but also good thing of your old self, not the happiest and easiest thing, but the best thing you could thank yourself for
5 months ago | 2
Walking on this path takes a lot of courage, societal pressure, people judging you and life is all the more difficult when you have kids. Managing your emotions along with your kids is a different task all together. I am happy for you that you got the courage to take a stand! All the Best!!
5 months ago | 6
The beauty of the moment lies in loving yourself truly. If someone or something doesn’t nurture your soul, it is not worth being with. Being alone will hurt sometimes but embracing solitude will make you discover your true self. And then nothing can hurt you. All the best for your journey. You’re brave
5 months ago | 6
Oh Emi, you are not alone! You have us, you helped a looot of girls, and me so much too! You are inspiration, you are amazing, you deserve everything! It’s a tough period in life but you will do it, because you are stronger. Every morning I do your stretching without missing any day because you are so sweet, all of your videos are so calming so I can not notice how fast workout was. I never commented any videos in YouTube, but this time I wanted to do this. You are so shining, never give up. I trust you will find your happiness, but now you should be your own best friend and support. We are all with you❤️
5 months ago | 16
Thank you Emi for sharing. I am also on my 30s and single. It’s comforting to know that we are not alone. God bless you. 🌸
5 months ago | 8
thanks for sharing this note with us, m going through similar. ur notes remind me why i chose the harder path and never look back
5 months ago | 2
Thank you for sharing! You're never alone and it's awesome to see you valuing yourself, I hope you can go to more weddings and continue adventuring through life! Thank you for always inspiring us in your videos. x
5 months ago | 7
Thank you for the inspiration, and well done for your courage. I'm going through a similar struggle, at an earlier stage, questioning my love and compatibility with my partner, who is a wonderful person. So many live in fear, only letting go of a hopeless relationship for an extreme/measurable reason. It's OK to fall out of love, they weren't your soul mate after all. Set yourself AND them free!
5 months ago | 1
I haven't been on YouTube in a while. I'm just now finding out. I am so sorry and so proud of you for getting out of your comfort zone. It can be hard but just keep pushing forward. You got this girly.
5 months ago | 51
So true and beautiful message ! You have to choose you first of all ! It's okay to do some compromise but not to sacrifice yourself and your well being ! You have done what you have to do, and yes you're so brave for that ! It's reminds us why we stand at your side and why we are following you... I'm proud to follow somone that fight for there throught , even when it's seems to be against the "society mindset" you choose your way, your selfcare, and nobody have to tell you bad things for that ! Thanks you to be a warior (as always 😉
5 months ago | 6
Don’t give up on hope and prayers. I was exactly like you always alone on weddings and suddenly in my mid 30 when I started to loose faith everything changed like magic
5 months ago | 1
Hey Emy, I just wanted to say how much I adore you! Every morning, I follow your workout routine and it truly helps me stay motivated throughout the day. You’re absolutely amazing and I want to remind you that you inspire so many people, including me. Keep being the strong, motivating force that you are, you’ve got this!❤️
5 months ago | 0
This is such an encouragement 😭 thank you Emi, I just chose to find me, my God and my purpose over my two years relationship with my fiancee last night, have been feeling lonely until I came across your write-up and the comments. Sometimes you just have to let go for your and others sake.i just hope I didn't make the wrong choice and that I find myself soon. I'm glad I'm not alone on this road, thank you for encouraging me this morning 😭
5 months ago (edited) | 0
I thought that man wasn't good for you because it seemed like he did not want you to shine. I am so proud of you for putting yourself first, and for making an honest post about how you are feeling. Much love and best wishes for your future.
5 months ago | 0
emi, please stay strong...you've come so far...and we lovee you so much...yk some people leave our life cuz you asked god for a life that doesn't match that person's energy...you deserve better...you r the bestt🫶🏻♥️
5 months ago | 0
Thanks for share your experience in your YTchannel. You become us more stronger every day
5 months ago | 0
emi wong
weddings have not been easy for me after my divorce and i have avoided most. i’m glad i conquered some of my fears this time for my friends’ big day. this is a little note i wrote on my flight back to hong kong - wasn’t planning on sharing at first but thought it might be helpful with some of you who might also be going through your own journey.
“i felt really alone at wedding sometimes. most people also come as couples, and in a moment of weakness, i forgot why i left everything behind and chose this path. i could still be living the dream i always wanted - be married, have kids. while that is still my dream one day, i made the choice to give up my old life because it was not in alignment and i made a lot of choices out of fear. i want to live a life i truly want, that i can be proud of. i wanted more. i want to be brave, to feel free, to feel alive. its not an easy path of just fun and adventure. the depressive or hopeless thoughts would still come back sometimes but i chose the hard path and i must keep going on to get to somewhere i havent been before, that extraordinary life that feels like magic. “ one day, everything will be worth it. 人生沒有白走的路
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