I personally recommend NOT relying upon situational tactics or techniques in order to be magnetic, attractive, or charismatic. I convey this to all my clients who book me for dating and relationship coaching.
Information that seems to suggest you need to do this or that conditional thing in order to be magnetic, attractive, or charismatic—and if you don’t, then you are not magnetic, attractive, or charismatic—is built on a faulty premise.
And by that I mean, what if this information doesn’t work in particular circumstances where you apply it? Then it’s clearly based on a faulty premise, isn’t it?
Real magnetism, attractiveness, or charisma is not based on conditions.
The Real Self simply shines forth as these things, without trying.
When we were growing up, my friends called this phenomenon—where you try to do something in order to be magnetic, attractive, or charismatic and it does not work as “The world is just checking you for Real.”
In this video, we discuss how UNCONDITIONAL magnetism, charisma, and attractiveness are just the natural fragrance of Being.
And as you can DO NOTHING to be perfectly as you are, the natural fragrance of Being—which we call magnetism, charisma, and attractiveness—spontaneously manifests in any circumstance, because it is not conditional like the situational techniques and tactics that people try with hit-or-miss results.
Joseph Rodrigues
I personally recommend NOT relying upon situational tactics or techniques in order to be magnetic, attractive, or charismatic. I convey this to all my clients who book me for dating and relationship coaching.
Information that seems to suggest you need to do this or that conditional thing in order to be magnetic, attractive, or charismatic—and if you don’t, then you are not magnetic, attractive, or charismatic—is built on a faulty premise.
And by that I mean, what if this information doesn’t work in particular circumstances where you apply it? Then it’s clearly based on a faulty premise, isn’t it?
Real magnetism, attractiveness, or charisma is not based on conditions.
The Real Self simply shines forth as these things, without trying.
When we were growing up, my friends called this phenomenon—where you try to do something in order to be magnetic, attractive, or charismatic and it does not work as “The world is just checking you for Real.”
In this video, we discuss how UNCONDITIONAL magnetism, charisma, and attractiveness are just the natural fragrance of Being.
And as you can DO NOTHING to be perfectly as you are, the natural fragrance of Being—which we call magnetism, charisma, and attractiveness—spontaneously manifests in any circumstance, because it is not conditional like the situational techniques and tactics that people try with hit-or-miss results.
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