Terrible staff. No apology, no little sincerity a bit of respect hurt no one and you clearly wanted a pleasurable time. Take it easy and stay well 💙
3 weeks ago | 82
That waitress was awful and I hope they realise that soon so they can live knowing they ruined someone’s birthday Stay strong 😊
3 weeks ago | 49
Im sorry. That was such a bitchy move, and the manager not listening is even worse. They both are bad at their job if they treated you like that. Happy late birthday, I hope you feel better ❤
3 weeks ago | 35
I am so sorry that you had to go through that absolutely horrible experience, that waitress needs to be fired for her awful behavior. I hope you feel better soon ❤❤❤
3 weeks ago | 9
I'm so sorry that happened, there are some really rude people out there :( No one deserves to have their birthday ruined like that, I hope you feel better soon ❤
3 weeks ago | 12
And don’t apologize if you’re sad. Feel your feelings: it’s okay to be sad about something going wrong on your own birthday. I’m so sorry for you.
3 weeks ago | 12
I’m so sorry you had to deal with jerks, if I was there they wouldn’t have done that 😢 I hope you’re ok th
3 weeks ago | 14
Wow, awful waitress. Don’t care if she was having a bad day or something. That’s why you should never be rude to someone else, because you don’t know what they’re going through or dealt with. Remember, you’re not alone or small
3 weeks ago | 6
If you think you looked lovely in the dress. Dont falter just yet. You can still enjoy the dress. I understand if it becomes hard to wear it out. But you can still wear it for yourself in your own time C: (also if the dress looks anything like the one in this artwork thats super unique and rare! Very cool design c: ) That situation sounds absolutely horrible. You didnt deserve that! You deserve better. Your birthday meal may not have gone so well. But maybe you can throw yourself a mini celebration! Not everyone celebrates their birthday. Only on their birthday! You could have a mini party! Something small with family? I hope things look better for you in the future! You surely have a bright one in store.
3 weeks ago | 8
Noo that’s so sad!!! You deserve so much better I am so sorry your birthday turned out that way that is not fair. I hope you’re ok despite having a bad birthday! ❤️ (also I love the dress!!)
3 weeks ago | 14
I feel so bad for you.No one should be accused of how they dress up.Your style your choice, im sorry you birthday was ruined.Happy l birthday and hope you get better❤I love your vids❤
3 weeks ago | 12
Aww that's awful... even if horrible things like that happen there's still plenty of good and that things that make you different are your greatest strengths and assets and if any part of who you are changes, then you wouldn't be here with what you currently have! I hope a few words of comfort can help even the tiniest bit and a hug if that's ok, I know I'm just a random person on the internet but it hurts to see these things happen </3 And either way, happy birthday and I'm sure this year will be wonderful for you! <3
3 weeks ago (edited) | 12
I’m sorry mate, that’s no way to behave to anybody. I wish you very happy birthday nevertheless, and I hope this next year of yours is blessed. ❤
3 weeks ago | 4
I’m so sorry, I know that the words of an online stranger don’t mean that much compared to someone being rude irl, but she was completely in the wrong, you’re not broken, you’re not a mistake, and I really hope you’re doing better now.
3 weeks ago | 1
Yeah, I would’ve looked at the manager and said “why don’t you go look at the security cameras and see how fast that card reader was served compared to my food”
3 weeks ago | 1
I’m so sorry that happened!😢 no one deserves to get theyre birthday ruined
3 weeks ago | 0
So sorry this happened to you! Hope things get better, and that maybe you’ll be able to go back and have a better experience :( I’m sure you looked very nice that night <3 also happy birthday! :’)
3 weeks ago | 0
I am so sorry this happened to you. People can be so rude and mean, and for no reason! AND ON YOUR BIRTHDAY!?! Trust me, this year has been hard for becuse of people being rude and childish. I wish you the best.❤ God bless you❤ P.S. I love your content :3
3 weeks ago | 3
I get it, overanalyzing someone’s actions when you think they’re judging you, but 90% of the time they aren’t. I have to remind myself of that sometimes, and it looks like you do too. (edit: I’m sorry if this came off as dismissing your feelings. That was never the intent.) It doesn't matter what other people think about you. You are perfectly fine as is. Hell, just about everyone I know personally is weird. That’s ok. Different is good. Sorry if this kind of thing is unwanted. I just see someone hurting and I want to help.
3 weeks ago (edited) | 8
4rcane
I was having a good day yesterday, and something had to go and fuck it all up.
Normally, I’m pretty private about my personal life. Most of you probably don’t know that last year I had to get a restraining order against my former roommate, for instance. But sometimes, things spill over.
I made a reservation at my favorite, nice restaurant to celebrate my birthday. Go, sit down. I was already feeling nervous, going alone. The waiter has a sharp, rude, condescending tone - familiar, unfortunately. I can tell she thinks I’m *weird*. Probably because I’m dressed weird (I think I dress nicely. I was so excited to wear a $80 dress I had just thrifted for $20. Now, I’m going to struggle to wear it again). But I dismiss it. She’s providing good service - even if she isn’t nice.
She brings out the appetizer. Doesn’t bring out a small plate with it. Whatever, I’m eating alone, not a normal thing to want your own plate if you’re not sharing. I get one. She comes back and asks me if I’ve tried the appetizer yet. I tell her I haven’t.
Not even three minutes later - she comes with the card reader. Asks me if that’s all for today. Given the card reader, I think she wanted me to say no. Given her rude tone plus the card reader, it left me feeling like she wanted me out. Gone. Like she couldn’t wait to stop waiting on me.
I go to the manager. Ask for a different hostess. He assured me that my waitress is very nice, and this is a “misunderstanding”. Go back to the table. My meal is there. It’s cold. There isn’t even a steak knife for me to eat the steak with. I get a new waitress, fortunately.
But it was too late. The entire experience left me shaken. I thought I’d moved past feeling weak, alone, misunderstood, and hopeless. But I was reminded of it at my favorite restaurant on my twentieth birthday. I was reminded that I’ll never be normal - and the slightest thing, whether it be my eye contact or how I dress - will give it away, and make people hate me for something that I have no hope of getting rid of.
I’m feeling a bit better now. But disheartened. I cried during the meal. In the middle of a very nice, fancy restaurant. I’m not afraid to say that. I cried after. I had to take a few Advils for the headache. It honestly ruined my birthday after a perfect day. But I’m hoping the rest of the year will be a lot better. It’s all I can do.
New video out tomorrow it won’t be depressing I swear.
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