Interesting and eerily familiar 🌈🌈God bless you sister and everyone he has connected to your ministry of revelation
1 year ago | 5
Thank you for all that you do with your channel. I can't tell you how many times you're describing something the narcissist does and I realize both my narc parents have been doing that to me my whole life. PS: You are not old. You look so young and beautiful. I thought you were late 20s. 🌻
1 year ago | 5
Honestly, similar happened often while dating, and tho without understanding narcs, moving on was never an issue. But your channel validates that narc behavior is real, which I needed as virtually nobody believed me when I'd share stories. Two male friends acknowledged traits I have that make me a narc magnet but this content teaches me how to set boundaries and avoid sending out the wrong indicators, which I never learned, but seems 2nd nature to others.
1 year ago | 1
I have noticed the same red flags while dating the past 6 yrs. of being FREE. Having come out of a 30 yr narc relationship 24 yr marriage, I have had to learn all of this. I have tried dating and see red flags often. I am enjoying/valuing my peace in my singlehood. Are there any men out there that do not exhibit narcissistic behavior?!? Sigh It can be so discouraging because I wonder often if I’m the problem and how to fix myself.
1 year ago | 11
C-PTSD from narc abuse is no joke...slow insidious and destructive. I'm still recovering slowly...I mean is it even possible to fully heal?
1 year ago | 15
I got out of a terrible marriage with a narcissistic woman, then a couple of years later I changed job. The new boss was great at first, but then it ended up being a living nightmare, as he was so similar to my ex in his nature. It was HORRIBLE. I have recently got another job, and life is SO much better now!! Narcissists suck!
1 year ago | 1
Been so enmeshed in Stockholm syndrome and grown up with an abusive psychopath father, I had began to forgive and adhere to those until I got beaten the hell out by my ex and CPTSD recovery began , sometimes I need to understand what a bad person or good person really looks like other than through senses, experience map and intuition 😀I guess we have different phases of such realisation
1 year ago (edited) | 1
Before me and my covert narc officially became a couple I was struggling with it being long distance and that I had trust issues from a previous toxic relationship. She said she would be patient with me. 3 days later she gave me an ultimatum. Either commit or she's gone. I said I couldn't and she kept saying she's done and I'd never find love. This happened about 5 times until she got what she wanted. I thought at the time it was all my fault for making her behave like this but now I know she was just attacking me at different angles to get me under her control. The relationship lasted for 4 years and I kept letting her step over every boundery I tried to set. After the discard I was unrecognisable from the person I used to be and she just moved on like nothing had happened
1 year ago | 4
Could you do a Video on this topic? I'm Journaling in your Book, "Living With Intent", it's Good.......I finally feel like I'm Moving Forward. The Realization I can actually walk away from the Madness, I have Options Too!!!♡ My Life, is an Option, Hello, Heyyyyyyyyyyyy!!!!!♡
1 year ago | 1
Mam, i had a narcissistic gf. One day i got fed up and got angry at her, and i exposed her behaviour infront of others. Then she totally blocked me from her life. I tried million times to talk to her but she ignores me like i dont exist in thia world and people around me starts supporting her bcs she is highly manipulative
1 year ago | 0
Cant you pleadse also make av video about the golden child? It would be really helpful to understand both situations and not just the scapegoat
11 months ago | 0
I love now when I see that red flag. The one I didn't see in my past but is so obvious to me now
1 year ago | 1
I thought CPTSD can't be helped and you just have to learn to live with it
1 year ago (edited) | 1
Michele Lee Nieves Coaching
Here’s ⬇️ how my focus changed:
I had posted a video about red flags 🚩 that I sadly ignored while dating someone who I feel is high on the covert narcissist scale.
He wanted to make plans with me but I had plans with my best friend - so I told him that I couldn’t that day but we could get together the next. It was a simple, absolutely NORMAL boundary. I said no…
And even though he tried to guilt trip me and I could tell he wasn’t happy with me- I upheld the boundary
I had to pick something up from his apartment - I rang the bell (he told me when to pick it up) well - I rang that bell and was waiting for just over half an hour. He was flat out refusing to come down - we didn’t have cell phones at that time (yes I’m old 😂)
Now because I didn’t understand narcissism
In my head - I was like - he must be so sad that we can’t hang out…. What I didn’t realize was he was showing me EXACTLY how he handles his disappointment - with silent treatments and emotional punishing.
I pointed all of this out in my video and one comment really caught my attention. ‘Yes he was wrong in his behavior, but why did you stay for so long ringing the bell when you knew he was intentionally ignoring you’
At that moment I realized there are two parts to healing from emotional! Narcissistic abuse. The first part - understand THEM and what they do to cause so much emotional dysregulation in YOU!
The second part - uncovering what was going on inside of ME that allowed me to ignore red flags, give and give more when less and less was given, to strive harder to please an intentionally unappeasable person …. Yes, this was the Cptsd Recovery part that I had not been ready to dive into before - but now knew that it was the missing piece!!
I was thinking about this because today in our live zoom meeting in the School Of Transformation we are discussing BOUNDARIES!!
If this resonates and you’re ready to do the deep inner Cptsd Recovery Work - come check out our live meetings - we’re we DO the inner work TOGETHER! Here’s the link to learn more about our live zoom Mtgs - www.micheleleenieves.com/school-of-transformation
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